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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by adagba001: 11:20am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Everyday I wake up to further realise how fvcked up this whole love thing is... Both male and female... It is just fvcked up,... Put your self together man.... It is what it is..... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by patani(m): 11:22am On Apr 18, 2019 |
comradee1248: Sorry to hear about your predicament bro...God heal your marriage and give it peace!! by the way, I think i know your wife(Sorry if I was wrong, she attended a university staring with L)...If yes, Like I said..God heal your home...Divorce is not the best option, we all get emotional sometimes and react in an irrational way to our spouses and it does nt mean we do not love them.....She may just be tired of the whole situation for now I guess 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by PeachtreeReside(f): 11:24am On Apr 18, 2019 |
It's not easy looking after an invalid . And doing it alone. It's very frustrating . Get her a therapist to talk to her and know why she said it. Don't be hasty in divorcing her. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by RTSC: 11:25am On Apr 18, 2019 |
munas:[right][/right] The woman will take his children in this Nigeria? I agree. You are as naive as a child. Stick to watching Hollywood movies and don't bother with issues beyond you. You know nothing. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Shugargal(f): 11:28am On Apr 18, 2019 |
15ssDRIVE:Good advice here, You don't just have to keep quiet after her statement, You must talk about it, since she didn't leave since 2013,is it now that you're almost fine she wanna leave, Bros something is wrong and this is time for you to discuss, normal theory discus oh. wish you quickest recovery. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Leonel55(m): 11:33am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Dude, I feel your pain but you shouldn't be seeking marital advice on Nairaland cos anyone with any chance of giving you good advice on what to do would need to: (1) have a lot more detail about recent & past events leading to this point in the marriage, in a direct, one on one conversation, (2) be very knowledgeable in the art of marriage counseling either by training or long term experience. You should know that your marriage is living thing and ending it is akin to a human committing suicide. Since ending a life is not taken lightly, any attempt by either party to end their marriage, which as I said, is a living thing, shouldn't either. Nevertheless, it would be safe to say that every attempt should be made to find out the exact time or period where it turned sour (for your wife). You can achieve this either through deep thinking on the past events in your marriage or better still, working with a trained marriage counselor, or even an experienced Clergy. Finding out this detail would help you make a better decision. Don't forget to take it to God in prayer. He can help you make the best decision for the sake of your marriage and your kids. I pray you find the help you need at this time. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by smallatobs(m): 11:34am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Bi enipe O ti lo Ogun e loni. (You have not use your drug today) comradee1248: |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Vyolet(f): 11:36am On Apr 18, 2019 |
RTSC:We know some things don't work in Nigeria, but cases of who takes child custody when there is separation is always well taken care of in Nigeria. In most cases, the woman always gets custody while the man pays certain amount monthly for the child upkeep. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by trapQ: 11:41am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Why are you people so stupid? dicksonadams: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by trapQ: 11:44am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Seems like you think you're in the Stone age. Just for your information, Mike Adenuga's son's babymama fought for her kid and gained custody. Guess what? He kidnapped the child while at school one day and is currently facing kidnap charges. I pity you if you think you can take any child away from her mother when the mother is not an illiterate. RTSC: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by exlink10(m): 11:44am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Amakavula: Depends on the kind of woman tho, my wife likes to be in charge, in fact I hate to admit it, she is a better manager than me. Hell, she even earns more than me. And as long as being in charge goes, if she have a way of making me or forcing me to stop work and rest so she could take care of things, she would have done that. She has even begged me to stop work before but as a man, I don't feel relevant in a marriage where am not contributing financially, it won't work. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by wifeesnatcher(m): 11:45am On Apr 18, 2019 |
munas: So you're married for 10yrs is an achievement. Man you need to man up. I can tell you many single have experience than you in marriage I have stay with many married couples during my school days and I have many friends who are married so what the fvck are you explaining ? How does your being married for 10yrs prove you have experience more than I do. Someone feel dey bang your wife outside without you knowinf just because you don't believe ladies heart are flexible and this flexibility makes them unpredictable. They'd some things in which they regret doing most time, they don't have independent mind like us. Cease to do what you're doing to her and find out later if she won't market herself outside. I have a friend that dated a married lady, they had child together and the Lady had to gave the pregnancy to her husband without telling the guy, na when the baby was sick her husband got to know. So if your wife is telling you that he stay because of kids if u like no do necessary things dey form Your 10yrs marriage experience is far below. You need to be school properly 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 11:50am On Apr 18, 2019 |
iswallker: See this guy. Do you know how much these immigration officers (not the ones standing on the road o) make? Ive gone to do an Int'l passport, I paid 25K (standard for everyone I guess), the official receipt registered 8K, where did the remaining 17K go to? Do you know how much customs guys make from bribes for clearing of goods? A case study is the APAPA wharf gridlock, do you know truck drivers have to pay sums reaching tens of thousands as bribes just to get a bias for thoroughfare to do whatever they have to do there if not they might be stranded for many days? With corruption a lot is possible 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by LilMissFavvy(f): 11:56am On Apr 18, 2019 |
So you aren't aware that they do? The man should support as well, that's my point. Obodo999: |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by gentlesmithugo(m): 11:56am On Apr 18, 2019 |
lefulefu:grow up boy.stop talking rubbish |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by gentlesmithugo(m): 11:58am On Apr 18, 2019 |
iRepNaija1:absolute thrash, will he do those things in sick bed.u be confirm pussy ass nigga 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by smarttm: 12:08pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
[quote author=comradee1248 post=77621297]We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid. I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped. I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process. My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity.. She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids... The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it. I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now. My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone... What do you Suggest I do. Thanks my man she can't just say that,you know your wife more than anyone here...no one can tell you how to handle your family issues... running away will never stop any other lady from telling you same words...SOLVE IT AND MAKE HER HAPPY AGAIN A good husband should know how to make her angry and happy... i know my heart will see this...you know i know i love... |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by iTearHerToto: 12:09pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Riyadhgoddess36:Shey we gonna hangout after |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 12:13pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
gloria34:person wife tell am say she's just staying coz of d kids is as well as telling him she already has a better option.any man wey wise knows dis. Op better start getting ready for her departure cos one mornin im go open eye and im wife go waka leave am. I know its painful wen someone's spouse dumps him or her but then it happens all d time. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 12:16pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
15ssDRIVE:Dont i just love you? Your type will never break people's home. Dont mind all this nl people that knows how to break and not to fix. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Oyindidi(f): 12:22pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
comradee1248:Every woman make comment like this once or twice in marriage. Tell us why you want pack leave forget this plenty grammar 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 12:22pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
gloria34:when her ex based in malaysia don already dey hala her why wont she be tired of her current husby . I remember a story wey one guy tell me of im uncle friend or so wey im wife dump him and d kids and run off with her ex who is based in dubai. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by lorhema(f): 12:23pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
15ssDRIVE: |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Jamiedani: 12:33pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Damn!!! Some pookie and Ray ray is definitely digging her guts out . Probably you were just a beta male provider when you were whole and now, pheew she's lost. THEY ALL CHEAT, MAN. That's the bitter truth. She's being too honest by telling you about the only option you have. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 12:35pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Eau de mad abi Eau de craze? iTearHerToto: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 12:38pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Mace0lane: And you are not making any sense at all. As in, no sense rara. See how you just sat down and conjured facts on your own. Women endure a lot! |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by maasoap(m): 12:40pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
15ssDRIVE: The only thing that is tying that woman down is not the kids but the guy's salary that never stopped coming. The love is dead, long dead. Telling her hubby to his face repeatedly at slightest provocation that kind of rubbish is not something one should treat with levity 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by mechanics(m): 12:41pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Packing out won't be the solution, you need to fight for your wife in prayers. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 12:42pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Nairaland is the worst place to ask for relationship advice. Many of them here are jobless, pained kids and singl. They know nothing about relationship. Better call her family over for a family talk. They'll be able to ask her what her problems are. No just answer anybody on this nairaland forum again. comradee1248: |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 12:50pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
I have said this before that people should not seek relationships advice on Nairaland. Too many useless kids on this forum. If you listen to them your marriage go crash. All they know is sex and Bleep and DNA test. Most of them here are virgins and the rest dont have girlfriend's not to talk of wife. Majority of them are likely under 25 years old. munas: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by oglalasioux(m): 12:53pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
For those who are yet to get married, please don't. You'll only reap pains. We can make children without getting into that circle of deceit. 2 Likes |
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