emelda86:
I don't have problem checking his phone, he shouldn't check mine either because na there kasala go burst...

GogobiriLalas:
When your husband cheats, check yaself; you ain't doing something right.

BluntBoy:


I must check your phone tonight

emelda86:

Hahaha...how u wan take check am na...

Huee:


I'm not married yet o. I'm in a committed relationship though.

safarigirl:

This is nonsense

Is the man Jason Momoa or Chris Hemsworth? Does he look like Idris Elba or Will Smith? Someone will be walking around looking like Mr. Ibu and you want your wife to look like Beyonce.

Do you think women don't like attractive men? You think women aren't turned on by what they see? How many times do they jump at attractive men?

I repeat, this is nonsense. Men must condition themselves to be faithful, just like many women have. We are all sexual beings, some people just apply sense in their beings, because what makes you different from a lower animal if you are controlled by the lust of the flesh?

Stop blaming women for men's shortcomings.

Huee:

Age is no longer on my side?! LMAO.
I'm young, I prefer to stick on Man instead of moving from dick to dick, that's definitely not case.
The ladies in question who I vouch for that also in a committed relationship are also young.
Not everyone indulges in dirty escapades. The only escapade I indulge in is with my man.

goodnewscliff:
y re u in a relationship now!!!!! if e breaks ur heart nko?? u dont need relationship at all to be safe nd sound.....
for d sake of sanity

BluntBoy:


Hope your man is totally committed, though?

Huee:

Very committed. I'm extremely sure. That doesn't mean I don't snoop around tho. Being Curious is like a default setting

krissconnect:
If I'm dating you, I'll never check your messages cos I know I'm cheating too. So i don't really care cos my belief is no woman has just one man in her life

SageMK:



Just when you thought you've seen it all.
Along comes someone to prove you wrong.

Brother, dating is not compulsory.
Just stay single since you have a community preeq.

emelda86:


If u like do all the right things in this world, a dog still remains a dog

truefact:
I wonder why people complain so much about having affair outside your relationship as if the penis or vagina can finish. Every body has right experience other people once in a while. Besides, you don't expect your to go on sex break especially when you denied him or her sex

Huee:


It's not impossible, cause I'm committed solely to my man and I know a number of ladies who do the same.
Commitment is basically a personal decision, it's not something you can blackmail OT force someone into.

When a man or woman decides to be committed, he/she isn't moved by distraction for whatever reason.
It's more like through thick and thin he/she would be there.

GogobiriLalas:
Let a dog roam, give it a bone and it will always come back home.

krissconnect:
If I'm dating you, I'll never check your messages cos I know I'm cheating too. So i don't really care cos my belief is no woman has just one man in her life

GogobiriLalas:
When your husband cheats, check yaself; you ain't doing something right.

megareal:

I really do wonder where some of these men meet the women they complain about. I come from a family of core faithful women, the men are not. It's so unheard of for a married woman in my family to cheat. Whether anyone watches or not, they remain committed to their vows. Same goes for my Mum's side but their men are also faithful.

Aside that, I know a lot of women who are faithful. Nairaland men make it look like all the good women died or migrated out of Nigeria and these nonsense will affect anyone who takes their ranting seriously.

kikelomojessy:

Wise word!

Huee:


Your belief is wrong. Some women are committed solely to their partner.

lakesguy:
are u?

CioAngels:
For me, women should stop checking there husbands phone for sanity seek. You can see the trauma you have put yourself through, it not worth the pain at all. Some year ago a colleague made it a duty to check her husband's phone and that mistake if i should say so gave her untold heartache so frequently and when she finally agreed to stop she realised she was no longer falling sick. It is not necessary to flip through his phone. To stay healthy and a life, please, women should stop it.

Thalinzrcng:


Here is an incontestable fact, my dear- to every married man who cheats, his wife is the cause. One way or another, knowingly or subconsciously (never unknowingly), she pushed him to it..
Yes, in every case. Every.

Fynchi:
I don't like it when people sound like this dear. my sis is a very good and virtuous woman. very very submissive but do you know what? she caught her husband sleeping with married women despite the single ones he's been going out with.
cheating is an attitude and a mindset. Don't blame anyone. there's no justification for cheating. thanks.

megareal:

I really do wonder where some of these men meet the women they complain about. I come from a family of core faithful women, the men are not. It's so unheard of for a married woman in my family to cheat. Whether anyone watches or not, they remain committed to their vows. Same goes for my Mum's side but their men are also faithful.

Aside that, I know a lot of women who are faithful. Nairaland men make it look like all the good women died or migrated out of Nigeria and these nonsense will affect anyone who takes their ranting seriously.

safarigirl:



Every human being is suscpetible to wishful thinking

As a person, you will naturally see people who look better, are more successful and all that, than your partner. You are allowed to admire them, but you don't go about actively trying to get with them.

This is a tricky question, because cheating covers a vast plane, it is not just with another person, it could even be with a thing. You're trying to trap the lady, but thankfully, she dodged it.