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Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by Tabithatim: 10:19am On Jun 28, 2019
The spectacle of events at the National Assembly Election Petitions Tribunal in Uyo, which came to a head yesterday as Senator Godswill Akpabio took the witness box to give evidence to support his claim of having been robbed of victory by Senator Chris Ekpenyong has triggered mixed emotions and a deep sense of sadness in me for many reasons.

I personally led honest effort (in collaboration with hundreds of other young people in our LGA) to coral His Excellency, Senator Akpabio into the APC. The campaign to lure him was necessitated by the larger interest of our people, who are a minority tribe in Akwa Ibom and Nigeria, and whose interest would have been better served by the intellect and charisma of the Senator in the ruling majority party. His wealth of experience I reckoned, was a wasted asset in the 4 years that he remained in the opposition bench. This feeling was more compelling because I knew that President Buhari, who I support with all my life, would win the 2019 general elections, head or tail. I also knew that the APC would take majority in the National Assembly, head or tail.

In pursuit of that dream, I published articles in several blogs and platforms, urging him to “move” to APC so that our people can reap the full benefit of his presence in the Senate. When he finally heeded the call, I contributed to hiring a band, organizing boys and staging a big show in Ikot Ekpene to welcome him. The expectation was that our “final obongowo” would indeed become a unifying factor, bring all sides together, show compassion, leverage on the structures on the ground and push for the best deal for everyone.

What did he do after? He went on-board the APC platform which he desecrated and traumatized during his days as governor of Akwa Ibom, to further stoke the fire. He shoved everyone aside using the crudest of tactics; arrested, manacled and humiliated me alongside my elder brother – Samuel Ikpa (himself a staunch dyed-in-the-wool Buharist) , tried within the limits of his human capacity to break our spirits, and truncated my brother’s ambition to vie for the House of Assembly seat with bestial impunity. He handpicked candidates from his coterie of hangers-on for the different electoral contests and thoroughly upended the seams of democracy. He built a make-believe aura of invincibility around himself and refused to exploit the huge advantage that the APC had before he joined. Rather than unifying the platform, he became a polarizing agent; destabilizing a movement that was solid like a rock. He jettisoned elementary methods of soliciting for votes through campaigns, canvassing and persuasion and instead, relied on the ensemble of urchins and touts for the dirty job of snatching ballot materials, abducting polling officials and manipulating the electoral process to force victory by crooked means. The rest is history.

On that dreadful night, I told our dear senator to do a little self introspection about his inner circle. I told him that he was unable to create the right kind of friends that would step into his shoes like Tinubu has done and help him expand his sphere of influence. I told him that good leaders who desire to be like Asiwaju Bola Tinubu do not fight small fights. No! They do not see those who speak the truth as enemies. Good leaders like Tinubu identify talents around them to support, groom and project. Good leaders think more about their community and their hereafter, than they think about themselves. Good leaders keep an eye on the judgement of history than the praises of sycophants, whose stock in trade is to clap and dance for the crumbs. Good leaders listen to criticisms, learn from everyone and do justice to their consciences. According to Michelle Obama, “people who are truly strong lift others up. People who are truly powerful bring others together. People who are truly leaders show the way” .

I told him that most of the people who surround him tell him lies, destroy other people before him and mislead him into believing that some of us who truly wish him to succeed, do not mean well for him. Those people are the same set that made him take the crude action that he took against my brother. They are the same set that organized the fatal hijacking of electoral materials at Okon, Ekpenyong 1, Odoro Ikot, Ukana and Ikpe Annang that has become his Achilles Hills , and has given Chris Ekpenyong easy passage into the Senate. They are the ones that brought down our own dear Senator, from the pinnacle of a sterling political career in Abuja, into the spectacle of a dingy dock of a courtroom in a tiny corner of Uyo where he had to be “led in evidence” by small lawyers, unfit to untie the lace of his shoes. On a good day.

As the lawyer was “putting it to” our former senator yesterday, I could feel the embarrassment; the sheer reality of subjecting our OGA’s tender feet to the furnace of hot unusual legal scrutiny. I could perceive the sense of powerlessness; the surrender that his fall from grace represents. It is sad that our own senator had to struggle to prove that he voted for himself. Or that he scored 61,000 votes. Or 65,000 votes. Or any number of votes in-between. It was a spectacle to see him argue with facts on paper, or feign victim to INEC’s Mike Igini when indeed, his most ardent supporters were denied the right to vote by his own agents. It is tragic that the cold hands of karma, has visited a respectable loquacious senator, in the unkindest of ways, and served him a full dose of the bitter medicine that he alone had the monopoly of serving to others, all these years.

Alas, the words of Jim Rohn are true about leadership: “The challenge of leadership is to be strong, but not rude; be kind, but not weak; be bold, but not bully; be thoughtful, but not lazy; be humble, but not timid; be proud, but not arrogant; have humour, but without folly.” Our senator possesses little of these attributes, hence his struggles with the truth.

If only he knows.

** Celestine Mel is a chartered banker and active citizen. He writes from Abuja, FCT.

Follow on twitter: @melfication

Facebook: Celestine Mel

https://www.thenewsfeed.ng/2019/06/28/reminisces-and-reflections-on-leadership-and-failure-akpabio-as-metaphor-by-celestine-mel/

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by ainas247: 10:27am On Jun 28, 2019
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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by iornenge81(m): 10:27am On Jun 28, 2019
Ok
Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by ichidodo: 10:28am On Jun 28, 2019
He had it all mehn...All the love...The Adulations...The glory.... The respect. At some point he was going into political sainthood. Then he went and f**ked it all. All For what ?!

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by Miracle911(m): 10:28am On Jun 28, 2019
Akpabio has regreted leaving PDP...
You know, in my State people are used to voting the umbrella, they don't really care about who they're voting for, just show them where the umbrella is... Especially those village old mamas, They just want see the umbrella logo and that's where their tomb or index finger is pressing o...
One of the reasons Akpabio lost his re-election.

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by eddyslim(m): 10:29am On Jun 28, 2019
Make Akpabio go sleep abeg

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by galex10(m): 10:29am On Jun 28, 2019
Well to be perfectly honest, in my humble opinion,of course without offending anyone who thinks differently from my point of view, but also by looking into this matter in a different perspective and without being condemning of one's view and by trying to make it objectified, and by considering each and every one's valid opinion i honestly believe that i completely forgot what i was going to say

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by Nobody: 10:30am On Jun 28, 2019
Good points, but even if Akpabio had followed your advice, Akwa ibom is a PDP state.

APC winning there was always going to be a tall order, even with Akpabios stellar performance as governor

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by suitlovers: 10:31am On Jun 28, 2019
tactius:
Good points, but even if Akpabio had followed your advice, Akwa ibom is a PDP state.

APC winning there was always going to be a tall order, even with Akpabios stellar performance as governor
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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by Nobody: 10:32am On Jun 28, 2019
Tabithatim:
The spectacle of events at the National Assembly Election Petitions Tribunal in Uyo, which came to a head yesterday as Senator Godswill Akpabio took the witness box to give evidence to support his claim of having been robbed of victory by Senator Chris Ekpenyong has triggered mixed emotions and a deep sense of sadness in me for many reasons.

I personally led honest effort (in collaboration with hundreds of other young people in our LGA) to coral His Excellency, Senator Akpabio into the APC. The campaign to lure him was necessitated by the larger interest of our people, who are a minority tribe in Akwa Ibom and Nigeria, and whose interest would have been better served by the intellect and charisma of the Senator in the ruling majority party. His wealth of experience I reckoned, was a wasted asset in the 4 years that he remained in the opposition bench. This feeling was more compelling because I knew that President Buhari, who I support with all my life, would win the 2019 general elections, head or tail. I also knew that the APC would take majority in the National Assembly, head or tail.

In pursuit of that dream, I published articles in several blogs and platforms, urging him to “move” to APC so that our people can reap the full benefit of his presence in the Senate. When he finally heeded the call, I contributed to hiring a band, organizing boys and staging a big show in Ikot Ekpene to welcome him. The expectation was that our “final obongowo” would indeed become a unifying factor, bring all sides together, show compassion, leverage on the structures on the ground and push for the best deal for everyone.

What did he do after? He went on-board the APC platform which he desecrated and traumatized during his days as governor of Akwa Ibom, to further stoke the fire. He shoved everyone aside using the crudest of tactics; arrested, manacled and humiliated me alongside my elder brother – Samuel Ikpa (himself a staunch dyed-in-the-wool Buharist) , tried within the limits of his human capacity to break our spirits, and truncated my brother’s ambition to vie for the House of Assembly seat with bestial impunity. He handpicked candidates from his coterie of hangers-on for the different electoral contests and thoroughly upended the seams of democracy. He built a make-believe aura of invincibility around himself and refused to exploit the huge advantage that the APC had before he joined. Rather than unifying the platform, he became a polarizing agent; destabilizing a movement that was solid like a rock. He jettisoned elementary methods of soliciting for votes through campaigns, canvassing and persuasion and instead, relied on the ensemble of urchins and touts for the dirty job of snatching ballot materials, abducting polling officials and manipulating the electoral process to force victory by crooked means. The rest is history.

On that dreadful night, I told our dear senator to do a little self introspection about his inner circle. I told him that he was unable to create the right kind of friends that would step into his shoes like Tinubu has done and help him expand his sphere of influence. [b]I told him that good leaders who desire to be like Asiw[/b]aju Bola Tinubu do not fight small fights. No! They do not see those who speak the truth as enemies. Good leaders like Tinubu identify talents around them to support, groom and project. Good leaders think more about their community and their hereafter, than they think about themselves. Good leaders keep an eye on the judgement of history than the praises of sycophants, whose stock in trade is to clap and dance for the crumbs. Good leaders listen to criticisms, learn from everyone and do justice to their consciences. According to Michelle Obama, “people who are truly strong lift others up. People who are truly powerful bring others together. People who are truly leaders show the way” .

I told him that most of the people who surround him tell him lies, destroy other people before him and mislead him into believing that some of us who truly wish him to succeed, do not mean well for him. Those people are the same set that made him take the crude action that he took against my brother. They are the same set that organized the fatal hijacking of electoral materials at Okon, Ekpenyong 1, Odoro Ikot, Ukana and Ikpe Annang that has become his Achilles Hills , and has given Chris Ekpenyong easy passage into the Senate. They are the ones that brought down our own dear Senator, from the pinnacle of a sterling political career in Abuja, into the spectacle of a dingy dock of a courtroom in a tiny corner of Uyo where he had to be “led in evidence” by small lawyers, unfit to untie the lace of his shoes. On a good day.

As the lawyer was “putting it to” our former senator yesterday, I could feel the embarrassment; the sheer reality of subjecting our OGA’s tender feet to the furnace of hot unusual legal scrutiny. I could perceive the sense of powerlessness; the surrender that his fall from grace represents. It is sad that our own senator had to struggle to prove that he voted for himself. Or that he scored 61,000 votes. Or 65,000 votes. Or any number of votes in-between. It was a spectacle to see him argue with facts on paper, or feign victim to INEC’s Mike Igini when indeed, his most ardent supporters were denied the right to vote by his own agents. It is tragic that the cold hands of karma, has visited a respectable loquacious senator, in the unkindest of ways, and served him a full dose of the bitter medicine that he alone had the monopoly of serving to others, all these years.

Alas, the words of Jim Rohn are true about leadership: “The challenge of leadership is to be strong, but not rude; be kind, but not weak; be bold, but not bully; be thoughtful, but not lazy; be humble, but not timid; be proud, but not arrogant; have humour, but without folly.” Our senator possesses little of these attributes, hence his struggles with the truth.

If only he knows.

** Celestine Mel is a chartered banker and active citizen. He writes from Abuja, FCT.

Follow on twitter: @melfication

Facebook: Celestine Mel

https://www.thenewsfeed.ng/2019/06/28/reminisces-and-reflections-on-leadership-and-failure-akpabio-as-metaphor-by-celestine-mel/
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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by Nobody: 10:34am On Jun 28, 2019
Nonsense stopped reading when I saw good leader's like tunubu

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by Quorax: 10:35am On Jun 28, 2019
ichidodo:
He had it all mehn...All the love...The Adulations...The glory.... The respect. At some point he was going into political sainthood. Then he went and f**ked it all. All For what ?!
No politician's decamp shocked me like akpabio... as in, i am still in shock.

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by Nobody: 10:36am On Jun 28, 2019
Ok. I know this is a different thread, I need front-page to comment this. That COZA and Busola SAGA is true. I lived in Ilorin all my life before I recently moved to Lag. We started COZA together before he moved to Abuja. The number of girls (past B as we fondly call him ) slept with is numerous. If all of them should come out. COZA WOULD BE FAR GONE..A LOT HAPPENED INSIDE STELLA MULTI PURPOSE HALL ALONG OFFA GARAGE ROAD. JUST DONT BE BEAUTIFUL. IF YOU ARE. YOU CANT ESCAPE PASTOR B. I BELIEVE HE'S A CHANGE PERSON BUT HIS PAST WILL FOREVER HUNT HIM. CONTROL YOUR LIBIDO GUYS

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by RiyaGoddess(f): 10:37am On Jun 28, 2019
The problem with people is that, they pray but don't believe that it has been answered. It is just like when the people prayed for peter to be released, they were the one that prayed for his release ooo. Peter was released and the same people said it's his ghost. So you see eh, people pray but don't believe it has been answered. Remember that the just shall live by Faith. Be it according to your faith. So when you have a problem, challenges, pray yourself and believe that it has been answered. That which you have asked for is on the way says the Lord.

Good Morning FAM. It's a new dawn day. Thank God for the gift of life. The Presence of the Lord will go before us today. God will Preserve our going out and coming in today. Psalm 121. Amin Jesu

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by wiseone28: 10:38am On Jun 28, 2019
Miracle911:
Akpabio has regreted leaving PDP...
You know, in my State people are used to voting the umbrella, they don't really care about who they're voting for, just show them where the umbrella is... Especially those village old mamas, They just want see the umbrella logo and that's where their tomb or index finger is pressing o...
One of the reasons Akpabio lost his re-election.
Is it a good thing for Democracy?
Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by Nobody: 10:38am On Jun 28, 2019
tactius:
Good points, but even if Akpabio had followed your advice, Akwa ibom is a PDP state.

APC winning there was always going to be a tall order, even with Akpabios stellar performance as governor
I swear but fashi akpabio is the best governor akwa ibom ever had

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by Richdad50(m): 10:39am On Jun 28, 2019
shocked
Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by agro100(m): 10:39am On Jun 28, 2019
Ok
Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by ichidodo: 10:39am On Jun 28, 2019
Quorax:
No politician's decamp shocked me like akpabio... as in, i am still in shock.
Right now...We still speechless.
Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by philkoms: 10:39am On Jun 28, 2019
Nice write up.Hope our leaders will learn.Power is a trust given to man by God and as such he or she must give account to Himitn the usage.Also Man or woman should realise that Power does not last for ever but lagacy does.
Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by Nobody: 10:41am On Jun 28, 2019
Ausrichie:

I swear but fashi akpabio is the best governor akwa ibom ever had

He was very good as a governor, but all that goodwill vanished when he hopped to APC.

I get why he did it, but APC is not just popular in the south south

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by Nobody: 10:46am On Jun 28, 2019
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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by HumanHairLovers(f): 10:49am On Jun 28, 2019
We all love Akpabio until he joined the devil.

I was just joking o.. grin



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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by Bluehill1051: 10:50am On Jun 28, 2019
olurich01:
Ok. I know this is a different thread, I need front-page to comment this. That COZA and Busola SAGA is true. I lived in Ilorin all my life before I recently moved to Lag. We started COZA together before he moved to Abuja. The number of girls (past B as we fondly call him ) slept with is numerous. If all of them should come out. COZA WOULD BE FAR GONE..A LOT HAPPENED INSIDE STELLA MULTI PURPOSE HALL ALONG OFFA GARAGE ROAD. JUST DONT BE BEAUTIFUL. IF YOU ARE. YOU CANT ESCAPE PASTOR B. I BELIEVE HE'S A CHANGE PERSON BUT HIS PAST WILL FOREVER HUNT HIM. CONTROL YOUR LIBIDO GUYS
Reason why I really really hate all those Pastor followers girls. Some Olosho better pass them

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Re: Reminisces And Reflections On Leadership And Failure: Akpabio As Metaphor by freeze001(f): 10:53am On Jun 28, 2019
The writer himself is still a dumb piece of crap. So he and his brother are forming staunch buharists even in the face of evident failure of leadership by the scarecrow they ardently worship? It is until fuani herdmen will locate their village and thrash them they will realise the worst mistakes they could have ever made.

Akpabio brought his present condidtion on himself and he will go down as an easily cowed, visionless leader.

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