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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Saintmary(f): 12:30pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Rawtruth1:Beware of baby daddies and divorced men, Nigerian women can endure bad marriages, why did their women run away? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by kushme: 12:30pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1: True story bros...experience. 4 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by SocialJustice: 12:31pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Eya, with all the fresh girls around, you decided to settle for one that has dropped engine. You were just unlucky though, can't say all single mothers are like this. That is not to say I'll settle for a single mum. Too many fresh single girls out there. 9 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by johnkey: 12:31pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
WildChild00:I dey wait for your slap then |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by bigdot1759(m): 12:31pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:OP This is d ex idiot you're referring to He pain am say u send her baby-mama out 7 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by chronique(m): 12:32pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1: This is the thing that messes my mind up with single moms. I've tried getting deep with a few of them but complex situations like what you just described above made it difficult to forge ahead. Like, you don't know what goes on between them when they need to take the kid(s) to see the father in your absence. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by IamCookie(f): 12:32pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1: I understand how you feel , Op. I can really see that the situation really messed u up cos all I see most in your brief explanation is 'messed up' with huge exclamation marks 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by AJORE(m): 12:33pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:bro. Most single mothers don't let go like that especially if the fault is from them. Everyday nagging comparing U with their ex....My dad married a woman for 6years after she went back to her ex. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Swinger60(f): 12:33pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Angelfrost:Exactly. That one has bad experience with something doesn't mean it will be so for every other person. But, NO, Nlanders don't know that. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by swedbase(m): 12:33pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1: Since they have a child together they will always communicate. That is the only way they can co-parent the child, Their communication should be focused around the child only and not something extraordinary. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by imolile: 12:33pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Any Lady who left a husband is a Red Flag, most especially if the husband is still alive. A lady from age 30 upward are domineering, they are worse when they are aged from 38 Upwards. They are not marriageable Unfortunately younger girls are Promiscuous and are prone to infidelity But older Ladies are retired experts on promiscuity and adultery Most single mothers are Demons in human flesh, mostly if their husband is not dead. Those who loose husband are excepted from this profiling Who do you marry? Only God can give a wife in today's world 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Ekeletu: 12:34pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1:I just wish the pastor who married 2face babymama would read this. The connection between baby mamas and their baby dadies is always 5G. Regardless what broke them up. Who ever thought davido after meeting chioma will still Bleep imade's mom 8 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by jaxxy(m): 12:34pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1: Aslong as she has a kid for the guy and the guy didn’t abandon his child she will always be in contact with her ex.. Deal with it! The main question/problem wud be are they still involved romantically, emotionally or sexually? That shud be the focus or valid reason to break up or end the marriage. Also when u get involved with single moms try to know why they didn’t get married to their baby daddy and don’t just believe what they say make ur own findings and investigation. I’ve meet a couple to the point it was getting exhausting bt the 1st thing I do is question them awhole lot like grilling them lol, from what led to the baby out of wedlock to why they are not together with the guy and the current situation. Be frnds bt b4 u commit if at all investigate and make ur own findings. Nobody will tell u they were at fault or who was no longer interested. 4 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 12:34pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Cheers to the singles out there 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nnemuka(f): 12:35pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
She made a huge mistake marrying you which one is "the single mother I married " you thought you were doing her a favor, so she should worship you and condone all your controlling attitudes. Go and sit down, she should be grateful it ended. so many women marry single dads, likewise so many men marry single moms and they still live happily while you are here criticizing them. oga move on, that it didn't work for you doesn't mean it wont work for others 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by pocohantas(f): 12:35pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
chronique: Better go and sleep. Na today EXes start to contact themselves? Must it be single moms (or dads)? As una take dey stereotype and select these days. Na yam una go marry last last. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by IamCookie(f): 12:35pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Saintmary: I agree to a large extent |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by CAPSLOCKED: 12:35pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
bigdot1759: SO... NOW THAT YOU'VE DISCOVERED I'M THE EX, WHAT DO WE DO? 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Ibfpleasant(m): 12:35pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Out of many young beautiful girls out there.. it’s a single mother you choose as your forever woman.. guys sometimes Bleep up when it comes to affection.. best of luck! 10 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Swinger60: Yes to a fool! In life you make bad choices and there are consequences. I am sure she ignored the warning signs in that man before she married him. Men and women should think wisely before they marry in the 1st place as the consequences for a failed marraige are often life changing! marriage is about character, compatibility and respect and less about "I'm in love"!! A marraige is a life sentence, for good or for bad....If a man of woman is showing some bad signs before you marry...walk away because it will come back to bite you!!! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by GamalNasser: 12:36pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1: When we tell you people never to marry those scheming scheming single mothers una no gree hear 8 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by WildChild00(m): 12:37pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by obowunmi(m): 12:37pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ebenezar2020: There's NO SUCH thing as God's will. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by henryobinna(m): 12:38pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:wow... Your reply is just wow... People plenty for this world oh 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by bezimo(m): 12:38pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1: You get mind oh...I can't fit try am.Who send you sef 8 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by xavuv: 12:38pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
@OP How on earth wil you marry a s**** m**** Leason learned. Sorry 9 Likes
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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Emmanuelhector(m): 12:38pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1: The courage you used in kicking her ass is what matters.. Don't go soft or want her back.. just plan you life and move on like a man you are. 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Hamzaay(m): 12:38pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
stupidity: Thid lifestyle suit ur sisters and ur daughters too |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by oloriLFC(f): 12:39pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Xano:That's not true. My son is 14 years, haven't seen his dad since he was 9 and I don't contact him too. He is not doing anything for the boy despite the fact that my family didn't put any pressure on him. I am happy with my man and our son now and I hope we last forever. I dont have any cause to be in contact with my ex. He is past tense 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Hamzaay:yes. And my sons will do same to your daughters |
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