chronique:


And where I live starts with what letter? Have you ever been there(as in visited)?

Emm, I can't remember the name of the street but it is off a place that's with 'I', and can connect to a place that starts with 'E'.

Have I visited? Let's leave that a secret

Octopusssy:

Emm, I can't remember the name of the street but it is off a place that's with 'I', and can connect to a place that starts with 'E'.

Have I visited? Let's leave that a secret

Guess your name starts with O and you work in a place that starts with D?

chronique:


Guess your name starts with O and you work in a place that starts with D?

Negative

Octopusssy:

Negative

I'm correct and you know it. So this is your handle?

chronique:


I'm correct and you know it. So this is your handle?

Hak hak hak hak hak

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

Sometimes we don't appreciate the dept of what we're signing up for.
A single mother must take care of her child, and the father has a right to know what's going on with his child.

How would all of these happen without relating with the ex.

Did you find out she's going out with the ex again or what?
You didn't say anything explicit about her offence.

Please, take into consideration all of these factors before labelling her.

Octopusssy:

Hak hak hak hak hak

Very weird handle considering how you relate in the real world. You're one weird being though.

chronique:


Very weird handle considering how you relate in the real world. You're one weird being though.

So I've being told several times. I guess I need to repent

Contact how? Is the ex her child's father? Then they must be contacting na!!! My husband still contact his ex, baby mama, I have talk and talk and talk, seems there is nothing I can do.

4FACEADELEKE:

shut up your mouth you beta male what do you know?,most girls will never tell you they have done abortion before,because it reduces their worth in any man's eyes.Girls do abortions everyday,if not that i am into it i would have been ignorant like you.Life in the street,and association with people of different calibre will teach you the realities you would have never known.Also try and make friends with people of different backgrounds and proffessions,then you will begin to understand life better,stop living in one secluded spot.Most of our 21st century naija girls are coperate runs girls. Oga i don see tins before i been be doubting Thomas.

U are not a doctor and u are not into abortion so shut up that ur mouth n stop behaving like a bipolar patient.

U are just a top notch noisemaker n nothing more. U are notorious among useless runs girls (likely in Afonja land), that isn't how other parts of Nigeria is. We have uncountable decent girls here.

imolile:
Any Lady who left a husband is a Red Flag, most especially if the husband is still alive.
A lady from age 30 upward are domineering, they are worse when they are aged from 38 Upwards. They are not marriageable
Unfortunately younger girls are Promiscuous and are prone to infidelity
But older Ladies are retired experts on promiscuity and adultery
Most single mothers are Demons in human flesh, mostly if their husband is not dead. Those who loose husband are excepted from this profiling
Who do you marry?
Only God can give a wife in today's world

Omo person no fit marry woman again?

stupidity:
lol. Until then. I guess you’ll follow them around and put a padlock on their waist.

I know that will always be ur tot, to follow dem around like a lost puppy but no. Give ur daughters the right knowledge and everything will fall in place perfectly

oyoolima:


You still sound pained.
The Lod is your Sheppard.
Maybe your gbola is bitter.
Pele my buroda.
Time to move on.

So you don't expect him to feel pained? Divorce is not a joyful affair. I'm sure he invested a lot in the marriage.

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

I am a single mother, I have never spoken to my ex since even before I got married. If I see him sef I might not respect him. My husband dey Bleep up now but it can never make me look out to any other man.
Take heart pele. In marraige I learnt it's very important to look wella before you leap.

Octopusssy:

So I've being told several times. I guess I need to repent

You really should change. Thought merrymen and jumanji was going to change you but....

poseidon12:


So you don't expect him to feel pained? Divorce is not a joyful affair. I'm sure he invested a lot in the marriage.

True marraige is now becoming a bleeped up issue

stupidity:



Here’s my plan. I’ll date you, we’ll have kids and live like married couples. When we get to 60s, 70s, and I discover you are indeed a wife material and you did not mess up, I’ll go pay your bride price and we do our marriage officially. In a grand style. By then sef money go boku. All my friends go don turn politicians and CEOs by then. Enough money to steal and spray at our grand style wedding.

Everywhere good

Wait first. Let this method first be the lots of your daughters. (When they will be bringing their dowry in their 60's to your grave yard)! We will then appreciate your stance.

chronique:


You really should change. Thought merrymen and jumanji was going to change you but....

Only the holy spirit can change me

MedicH:
Marry a woman that has a previous sexual history at your won risk. Once body count don pass 3, there's no way she will be emotionally and physically attached to the husband more than all three guys.

Not true.

IDERAWOLE:


Sometimes we don't appreciate the dept of what we're signing up for.
A single mother must take care of her child, and the father has a right to know what's going on with his child.

How would all of these happen without relating with the ex.

Did you find out she's going out with the ex again or what?
You didn't say anything explicit about her offence.

Please, take into consideration all of these factors before labelling her.

Why didn't the Baby daddy deemed her worth enuf for marriage...

Octopusssy:

Only the holy spirit can change me

Hmm. It is well though. Continuing your hermit lifestyle this year again I bet...

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

This story isn't complete without letting us know the kind of contact and communication they have.
I know single parents' that are well in touch with their exes in a civilized way without attached strings. So what's really the story?

chronique:


Hmm. It is well though. Continuing your hermit lifestyle this year again I bet...

That's something I don't see changing ever, bro. I will try to hang out more sha, but I doubt if I will be able to summon the willpower.

CAPSLOCKED:


MARRIAGES FAIL. RELATIONSHIPS FAIL.... WHETHER SINGLE MOM OR NOT.

FROM YOUR NOTE, I'VE CONCLUDED THAT YOU WERE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
WITH THE AUTHORITATIVENESS IN YOUR WRITING, THERE'S A CHANCE YOU KEPT MISTREATING HER, EXPECTING HER TO WORSHIP YOU BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'S A FAVOUR YOU'RE DOING HER BY BEING WITH HER.

I'M HAPPY FOR HER WHOEVER SHE IS. PEOPLE DESERVE BETTER THAN PEOPLE LIKE YOU.

Gbammest

poseidon12:


Not true.

Nothing is

MedicH:
Marry a woman that has a previous sexual history at your won risk. Once body count don pass 3, there's no way she will be emotionally and physically attached to the husband more than all three guys.

Big lie

CAPSLOCKED:


MARRIAGES FAIL. RELATIONSHIPS FAIL.... WHETHER SINGLE MOM OR NOT.

FROM YOUR NOTE, I'VE CONCLUDED THAT YOU WERE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
WITH THE AUTHORITATIVENESS IN YOUR WRITING, THERE'S A CHANCE YOU KEPT MISTREATING HER, EXPECTING HER TO WORSHIP YOU BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'S A FAVOUR YOU'RE DOING HER BY BEING WITH HER.

I'M HAPPY FOR HER WHOEVER SHE IS. PEOPLE DESERVE BETTER THAN PEOPLE LIKE YOU.

A cheat will always shamelessly defend his/her like. No surprise

Suremikky:


Wetin dis sule dey talk about?..dis early morning you don already smook weed

Your father is an idiot 'wherever' he is right now, next time save your father from embarrassment and mind your business omo ale jatijati. And it's smoke not smook, thank you opor.

faithfull18:

Any lady who accepts such definitely doesn't know her worth. Nonsense and stupidity.

How much is a woman that is a mere baby mama worth in your estimation?

Octopusssy:

That's something I don't see changing ever, bro. I will try to hang out more sha, but I doubt if I will be able to summon the willpower.

You should sha. It's very necessary. That's how we ended up not eating that starch and banga soup at Fola osibo...

madridsta007:


There are two kind of persons that, if you do not want to fool yourself, you should generally stay away from as a bachelor;

1. Single Mothers.
2. Girls raised by Single-Mothers.

Unless the Holy Spirit has convicted them and they are given into God's plan for marriage, these ones are so independently-minded that yourself and/or the relationship is just a convenient afterthought for them. The single-mother invests her time and care into her child, unless you quickly have children with her. The lady raised by a single mother sees single-motherhood as normalised part of adulthood; she will dump you halfway, opt to be alone after every small quarrel because that is what she has seen as normal in her growing up.

Single mothers are usually honest. They will tell you, “my child comes first”. You will go into the relationship thinking less about what that means. Lol, by the time she shows you what she means, you’ll be complaining.
But hey, she warned you.

Generally, these are the issues one faces dating these two classes of individuals. And it is not their fault. The system which they have seen as normal is to be blamed. There are the outliers though, but they are few and far between. Hence the first condition I mentioned.

However, this is now your wife. Divorce is never the answer.

Add girls from polygamous fam to your list.