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Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by SenorFax(m): 1:22pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
My fiancee and I are having some issues about staying over at her place and I don't want it to sound absord. We are both running our MSc together in different universities and states. She stays with her parents and I've already met them to make my intentions known. Whenever she visits, she spends up to 1-2weeks depending on when she is busy or free in school. I've went to see her parents but didn't stay over the first time. The second time I spent a night and came back the second day. Now having a discussion with my uncle I was told it's not cool or advisable to visit your in-laws and sleeping over or spending days as a guy plus the fact that your fiancée stays under the same roof. Is it a cool idea or not? I need open minds of experienced nairalanders pls. |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by donbachi(m): 1:48pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
One of my brother in-laws has been living in my family house with my sister(his wife) for 2years now...no qualms...na just understanding. 11 Likes |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by rain21(f): 2:15pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Depends on the family,if they have no issues with it you too shouldn't have any worries 2 Likes |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:21pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
depends on A) the in-laws, B) your fiancee and C) who you are. 5 Likes |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by SenorFax(m): 2:22pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
donbachi:Thanks for this. |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by NextD18: 2:32pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Everything is bad about it! You must henceforth, stop that fvckery and learn to keep the respect you deserve from them. No dey allow your inlaws-to be dey see you finish. No let them see you finish!! Use your head!! 8 Likes |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by dammywapes(m): 2:35pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
To me , it's not cool |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by Organiccourses: 2:41pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Op, nothing is bad so far there is understanding, but you tends not to free, besides be ready to be carried out through the window and your corpse will be flogged with matchet (cutlass) handle if you die in in-law house o!! God forbid your death now, but anyone can die anytime 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by SenorFax(m): 3:26pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
NextD18:That's the line my uncle actually used |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by sisisioge: 3:31pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
So you dont believe your uncle? Biko e matter. Get a room in a hotel each time you want to spend days with your chick. 1 Like |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by worworbabe: 3:55pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
I won't encourage it. A man needs to keep that level of respect up. Even we, women are avoiding the in-laws and their disrespect. Let alone, a man. Your Uncle knows better. 1 Like |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
NextD18:you are always onpoint in a hilarious way,you didn't include the virgin aspect sha. |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
SenorFax:He is very right,never try that again to avoid see-finish.You won't understand until you have issues with your lady. 1 Like |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by nuelyoyo(m): 6:04pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Familiarity brings contempt. |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by Nobody: 6:18pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Well i don't know about you but i personally don't think it's cool though. You can always visit and leave that same day. There is no reason staying with them, it makes no sense, because it's not them you are marrying, it's their daughter and staying there won't add anything to the relationship. Even if where your in-laws are, is far away. You can always book an hotel, visit them then go back to your hotel. 1 Like |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by Acidosis(m): 6:44pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
They're not your in-laws! You're not married to their daughter so get the fvck outta there. It's not even advisable to start visiting your girlfriend's family house until you guys are ready to tie the knot. This is Nigeria, not America so don't lose your self-worth by trying to impress anyone. 1 Like |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by 24kmagic: 8:25pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
It depends. If they know you are doing ok financially or business wise and can afford a house of your own but only staying due to one or two reasons, you're good to go. In fact they'll be happy to host you. But if they know you're broke and struggling to have a roof over your head, "you don cast be that" So which one you de? 1 Like |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by helinues: 8:29pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Circumstances may decide that. I have once slept in my ex in-laws house.. She lost her dad and just had to be there for her that day. Wasn't feeling comfortable though. Left as early morning.. It ain't cool. Don't make it a habit |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by Mizwisdom(f): 8:33pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
The idea of cool is foreign. There's nothing wrong, the only issue I see here is that you're not yet married to their daughter, get married asap. Her parents become yours and her family become yours too. 1 Like |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by PrimadonnaO(f): 1:07am On Mar 12, 2020 |
I won't take such a man seriously. |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by StPete: 5:57am On Mar 12, 2020 |
SenorFax: You must tell us that you’re studying for MSc but common correct English you cannot compose. SMH |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by Adgideon(m): 8:00am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Is more than cool, infact they will make life cool cooler coolest, you so much enjoy your stay that you wouldn't want to leave. But if is for a few days is ok, but b concious of urself no too show your colour, but all the same u know the family better, do it to pls ur girl, but be concious and again don't allow urself to be messed up they just want to know you better, and b rest assured you will b tested |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by SenorFax(m): 12:28pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
StPete:As if your life is perfect |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:37pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
And you couldn't afford just a one night hotel. You are a disgrace. If I'm her parents,I won't take you serious. 1 Like |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by juman(m): 12:59pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Nothing bad. |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by frozen70(f): 3:47pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
SenorFax: As a future inlaw, you have to raise your head high before you floor yourself Don't frequent them because there is the tendency that you will be asked to pass over the next day |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by frozen70(f): 3:48pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
SenorFax: As a future inlaw, you have to raise your head high before you floor yourself Don't frequent them because there is the tendency that you will be asked to pass over the next day sisisioge: Where us the money to pay hotel bill ❓ |
Re: Help, Is It Cool As A Guy To Stay With Your In-laws ? by frozen70(f): 3:50pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
SenorFax: As a future inlaw, you have to raise your head high before you floor yourself Don't frequent them because there is the tendency that you will be asked to pass over the next day sisisioge: Where us the money to pay hotel bill ❓ Organiccourses:[quote author=Organiccourses post=87352890]Op, nothing is bad so far there is understanding, but you tends not to free, besides be ready to be carried out through the window and your corpse will be flogged with matchet (cutlass) handle if you die in in-law house o!! God forbid your death now, but anyone can die anytime[/quote] You just made a very stupid comment, since you know that you don't have enough sense, you should have kept quiet naw |
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