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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Luckysbab: 7:39am On Apr 28, 2020 |
xyz123456: Obviously, many of these NL ladies have low mentality. They think marriage is some past time. Silly comments here and there. Some won't keep a husband for one year sef. It's a wonder those who PM them. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by tolaskil1(m): 7:39am On Apr 28, 2020 |
tell your husband to get second wife . so that sex will reduce |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by MissEfe(f): 7:40am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Give him 3 days straight... Go and take Spanish fly.. And give it to hubby in a fierce way... You won't feel pains and you will enjoy it... And after giving him the full dose he won't disturb you that much... |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Dirpetaner: 7:42am On Apr 28, 2020 |
[quote author=Donald3d post=88879587] Sex sex sex...... Lack of it causes wahala, too much of it causes wahala. What I have learnt is, no matter how much it gets, if its done right, you won't get tired of it. Have you talked to Oga, about the pain you feel ? Maybe its your mindset ? You could try opening your mind to enjoy it too, it would make a lot of difference. If you see it as a chore, or "disturbance", you would end up feeling pain, because its not been done with the right frame of mind Please tell oga to read my post here, you can read it too, it would help. https://www.nairaland.com/5727914/not-been-able-sex-yet#87318647 [/quote Ur husband has high libido U have low libido obviously Go and marry another man you will still complain. You better give to cesaer what belong to Cesar 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Lizboh(f): 7:43am On Apr 28, 2020 |
WUdec: Who says its rape..because its not, I enjoyed 90% of it. Am used to it. My self esteem is intact . If he walk away or anything, I will be very fine. I don't know if you are married or married but we should all learn what works for us 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by DeRay98(m): 7:46am On Apr 28, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy: That's not the issue raised by the OP, A wife is not finding it easy coping with her marital duty to her husband who's exercising his marital obligations. What other people say is irrelevant so leave them alone...neither these comments or the "busy" husband is the issue. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by juliet0304: 7:47am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Don't you eat everyday? Madam open that thing for am.u better let him get used to it now cos when the lockdown finally relax another club go buy the player if him perform foe training. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by lexzyy(m): 7:47am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Equal2DeTask:Gbam 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by graciously2013: 7:47am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Am a married man with 6 years experience, I will advise you to kindly comply with your husband as time goes on he will be tired. Do other things with him than sex, watch movies together, cook together and pray together. Distract him with other things and most importantly don't confront him when he approaches you. Don't seek counsel from your single friends cos they will mislead you. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 7:47am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Wendybrown: No need for all this story. I was only pointing out that “norm”is a relative term not absolute. One man’s norm is another man‘s strange. The same people that brought the concept of one man one wife to your forefathers are now trying to sensitize your generation to same sex marriages and gender neutrality. Be careful when you talk about what is normal and what is a product of social conditioning |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Luckysbab: 7:47am On Apr 28, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy: "Ogbeni, save your rants. It's a pity she abstained and found herself in this situation bla bla bla". She can get a divorce and simply goan find her match. He too will surely find his match... Life is easy. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Felicity0001: 7:48am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Julietsim:Madam sorry about ypur ordeal okay but just a little mire patient by Saturday the lockdown will be over and he'll not have the time to always be at home with you making love to you. Try have a kid as well, im sure when the responsibilitu and effect of raising kids adds up he will naturally loose interest about sex. But for the now enjoy it while it last ok because a time will come when you'll need it and wont have it. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by bisitopi: 7:50am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Madam, u are very lucky to have such good husband and he still faithful to u. There is a lot way to please him and u too still have pleasure because there two ways woman do made her home( is either make work or break it). |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Lizboh(f): 7:50am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Miner13: There is time for everything, she should create the time for it. She should not listen to those telling her its bad to always give in because am sure most of them are going through worst. If the husband is caring and takes good care of her, then she should take as his fault and help him. Another thing is attractiveness, am over 50 and getting dress in my husband's presence is war because he will sha want to do in. She should love her husband for who he. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:50am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Dumbo. ........go back and read my posts. I don't spell abusive words correctly, in my second comment on this thread I typed the word u.gly as ''uggllyy'' bullshi.t as bullseet, etc, it's all fun to me, Common sense which you lack should have let you know that my phone dictionary can easily type that word. I will keep typing this way to avoid a 'ban'. Twerps like you should keep ranting. holyfather: 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Mezidon: 7:50am On Apr 28, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: I will urge u take this advice, sex is meant to be enjoyed by both parties, tell him how u too enjoyed it , If u like sucking tell him to licki licky u, anything u want tell him unless u don't love him, if u are the dry type use "ky jelly lubricant" , tell him also what makes u wet, "sex is so enjoyable my wife have never resisted me or complained , even when she gave birth she still gives me Mouth Action and MouthAction till I c**m" says a specialist 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Luckysbab: 7:51am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Julietsim: Ogbeni, life is easy. You're a wrong match for his libido, simple! Stop complaining like he has committed some crime. Your options are pretty straightforward: 1) He's entitled to more than one wife. So you can let him get a second wife to relieve you of your burden. 2) Or you can just divorce and goan find your own libido match. He'll find his own match to. If you can't do any of these, please keep quiet and find a way to live with it. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Lizboh(f): 7:52am On Apr 28, 2020 |
KomonSense: I just replied a mention now..read up pls |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Emmanuelhector(m): 7:52am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Jesuisbelle:Too sorry your marriage is really a sad one. It shows well on your write up.. Take heart dear. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by earthsync(f): 7:53am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Wow. going through this thread got me shaking my head. imagine people saying she's lucky he finds her sexually attractive and doesn't look outside, like is he supposed to look outside before? isn't her his wife? can't he compromise? woman's complaining of pains told husband about it and he's like guilt trapping her. nawa o. I don't have any experience in this but the man's just being selfish. Doesn't want to know if his wife's enjoying it or not. is this what marriage is about? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:53am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Stupidd, dead brained failed loser. My dad is an exception...... Carry your irritating self out of here. BerlinGado: |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Mezidon: 7:54am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Emmanuelhector: Lolz people are funny ooo |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by SmartchildTutor: 7:54am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Julietsim:Best thing to do is to start dressing like an expired woman. Unparallel wrappers, big blouses or gowns (the Lord's Chosen specs), unkept hair, wear bogus pants. But please oh... Don't come back here to shout that your husband is cheating on you. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by noisy45(m): 7:54am On Apr 28, 2020 |
MansoryMX: Animal proteins, vegetables and fruits like pineapple, watermelons |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Luckysbab: 7:55am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Lizboh: You're really blessed with wisdom. I can only wish your marriage more success. It's really bad of the OP to be complaining about what's simply an inherent nature of her husband. It's not like he's taking enhancements to deliberately punish her. So I see no reason for this public shaming. If she can't find a way to cope, she should make way for another woman who will be his match. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Daughterboard(m): 7:55am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Julietsim: Remember to warn his that in as much as he loves having sex with you there inherent danger of dying in 'active duty' |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Lizboh(f): 7:55am On Apr 28, 2020 |
ubcandid: I don't think I should reply you, I will only tell you that everything is not joke. Go to comedy section if you want to play around. This section is for matured mind 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 7:56am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Iamundisputed: Except...... |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by airminem(f): 7:56am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Perocom(m): 7:56am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Julietsim: He is not cheating on you that's why, no one else is helping you outside, so you decide what you want. To carry your cross alone or allow Joseph or Arimatia (side chick) to help you carry your cross. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Focusman1: 7:57am On Apr 28, 2020 |
I THINK YOU HAVE A DUTY. IT COULD LOOK SIMPLE BUT NOT EASY. since you said he is a good man, try talking to him with chearful face not quarreling him. tell him how you feel, not schooling him. My wife once asked me, can you not just stay with me when am naked without having sex with me? that question made me to prove to her that we can actually stay together naked without sex. so the manner inwhich you approach him, give you the solution. i was once like that. no side chick and never will. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by cerpvad(m): 7:58am On Apr 28, 2020 |
It's a pity that you don't find your husband sexually attractive otherwise you won't come here to complain about sex every day.. Another reason is that your estrogen level is probably low hence you are not easy to to turn on sexually. Solutions. Eat more of estrogen boosting foods and fruits. E.g, soya beans, walnut, garlic, cucumber. Etc |
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