Zabiboy:





This is exactly where 90%+ of men get it wrong..
Marriage doesnt and would never guarantee you unlimited access to sex..
Infact, single guys get laid more than most married men...

This is the absolute fact

saucecode:

1Corinthians 7:3-5
3. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.
4. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife.
5. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.


It's only a matter of time before satan will tempt a bishop or rev whose wife is denying sex,and when dat time comes ,he should visit a strip club and ask for forgiveness after.

You are not getting my point.
Female genital mutilation affects a Woman with attenuation of sexual desire , maintain chastity and virginity before marriage and fidelity during marriage. A lady who is not sexually arouse, who doesn’t have d urge for sex tell me how does she wants to satisfy her husband. Maybe you have not come across any lady suffering from that, the feel pain during sex. They even run away from it.

Temhellen:

You are not getting my point.
Female genital mutilation affects a Woman with attenuation of sexual desire , maintain chastity and virginity before marriage and fidelity during marriage. A lady who is not sexually arouse, who doesn’t have d urge for sex tell me how does she wants to satisfy her husband. Maybe you have not come across any lady suffering from that, the feel pain during sex. They even run away from it.

What is dis one's purpose in a marriage then,why did she marry? She should humbly separate abi divorce her husband so he can marry a woman who can perform bedroom duty. No amount of love should make any man suffer this with a woman for a lifetime, na curse?

ArcFresky:
I feel this guys pain, it's a problem when u can't cheat.

I just hope I marry someone that is sexually adventurous.

Ordinary no from a girl is enough to deflate me.

Maybe you should try masturbating, in her presence...

Don't cheat oohhh, please.

Temhellen, come and see oohh

It is still the guy's fault anyway ... If he is A ... His wife will always chase him ... Unless she has mental/Pyschological issue and you can't have sex with a psycho woman until you cleanse her brain !

Heavensent01:
the day a lady try this nonsense with me is the day she will returned to her father's house I swear to God.

Be ready to chase a lot of woman to their father's house except the one who go dey pretend.

Temhellen:


But let me give you an instance , what about a wife suffering from genital mutilation? During their courtship , she n her husband never had sex. It was after the marriage the husband discovered about it.
Would you advise the husband who has high libido to start cheating?

Genital mutilation will only reduce electrifying feelings of a lady , it won't destroy the sexual feelings all other variables being present .... Sex is in the brain not the private part .... we only use the private part to communicate it.

DonroxyII:
Be ready to chase a lot of woman to their father's house except the one who go dey pretend.

you're naive. ladies are many to pick, as a man you can pick 300 wives in a day


I can't be sex starved and you will stay under my roof when many ladies are on mountain praying for husband

Ishilove:

It isn't real. It's all over the internet

I am sure this is the reality for a lot of men.

Temhellen:

You are not getting my point.
Female genital mutilation affects a Woman with attenuation of sexual desire , maintain chastity and virginity before marriage and fidelity during marriage. A lady who is not sexually arouse, who doesn’t have d urge for sex tell me how does she wants to satisfy her husband. Maybe you have not come across any lady suffering from that, the feel pain during sex. They even run away from it.

If there is something stopping you from doing your duty, would you pamper it or find a solution?

Temhellen:


But let me give you an instance , what about a wife suffering from genital mutilation? During their courtship , she n her husband never had sex. It was after the marriage the husband discovered about it.
Would you advise the husband who has high libido to start cheating?

Thats why communication is important in relationship. No need pretending. Babe, I like sex, can you cope?
She will answer even if you guys dont get intimate before marriage.

Assumption is bad.

Heavensent01:




you're naive. ladies are many to pick, as a man you can pick 300 wives in a day


I can't be sex starved and you will stay under my roof when many ladies are on mountain praying for husband

I'm not naive ... You gatz man up and be a real man to ur wife if u want her to be real with you ... Yeah, You can have 1,000 women that will all pretend you are doing something right due to competition between each of them, in order to court your attention and makes themselves your favourite ....

That still doesn't mean you are right ... 300 wives will give you 300 Nations' Problem .... More than the problem of the entire world

So you that can't solve one woman's problem , how would you solve 300 women problems

Go sit down abeg

Heavensent01:


you're naive. ladies are many to pick, as a man you can pick 300 wives in a day


I can't be sex starved and you will stay under my roof when many ladies are on mountain praying for husband

On mountain

Many will call the woman names. I once used some of her excuses, and I know some of us married ladies here have found some of those excuses handle at times.

I respect the husband so much, some even when they want their wife to change will have Amaka and Jennifer servicing them for the time being.

I stopped using some of those excuses when a pastor taught me that what sex means to a woman is different from what it is to a man. A woman may wants it but a man needs it, and as a married woman you are under duty to open and invite your husband to Canaan land steady without excuses, except when Canaan land is undergoing cleaning, grooming or you are menstruating, sick or seriously tired. A good man won’t even bother to ask knowing you always open Canaan land. Sometime when you are too tired, do miracles with your hands on your husband’s staff of office, by that he can at least see Canaan land in his vision and you can enjoy seeing him morning too.

Let’s not push our husbands into temptation, there are thousands of ladies willing to replace you and among them are your best friends.

DonroxyII:
I'm not naive ... You gatz man up and be a real man to ur wife if u want her to be real with you ... Yeah, You can have 1,000 women that will all pretend you are doing something right due to competition between each of them, in order to court your attention and makes themselves your favourite ....

That still doesn't mean you are right ... 300 wives will give you 300 Nations' Problem .... More than the problem of the entire world

So you that can solve one woman's problem , how would you solve 300 women problems

Go sit down abeg

guy look at the gibberish you cooked up there, I have been into woman for more than 18yrs what man up are you talking about? see as he dey carry woman like capital project


ladies are all subject in the hand of man, you build your subject the way you want it, stop sounding like a pússy

zedegit:


Thats why communication is important in relationship. No need pretending. Babe, I like sex, can you cope?
She will answer even if you guys dont get intimate before marriage.

Assumption is bad.

The issue on ground is not about communication or you asking your partner if he or she likes sex. The issue of ground is me not telling your that am suffering from genital mutilation.

Heavensent01:


guy look at the gibberish you cooked up there, I have been into woman for more than 18yrs what man up are you talking about? see as he dey carry woman like capital project


ladies are all subject in the hand of man, you build your subject the way you want it, stop sounding like a pússy

I ain't a pvssy man!
you sounding like a wrecked Lion unfortunately for ya , we are human not some animals ...

Woman ain't your subject nigga , They better as your investment and when I mean woman I meant your wife not some girls you just call to dust, u kno what I mean

You in the game for 18years doesn't mean you know the game ... If you can't get around most frigid woman then you ain't a gamer ok ! ... we do that easily here without moving a muscle nor raising a voice ...... we do know our way around them and no two women is the same ... we give them bespoke sessions, tailored to their needs and personality ... Not just some climb and bang away , egotagho !


If you gonna send ur wife away cuz she refused you sex, it shows your game is low man and you are wack ... if your game Is tight na she go dey rush you


and Yes, Woman is a capital project with Cashflow that grows into the foreseeable future ... She is gonna Mothered your Kids bra ..

Yeah, You build your investment (Not subject) the way you want it ... Yea, Sending her away ain't building , That's destroying .... Hope u got dat

DonroxyII:
I ain't a pvssy man!
you sounding like a wrecked Lion unfortunately for ya , we are human not some animals ...

Woman ain't your subject nigga , They better as your investment and when I mean woman I meant your wife not some girls you just call to dust, u kno what I mean

You in the game for 18years doesn't mean you know the game ... If you can't get around most frigid woman then you ain't a gamer ok ! ... we do that easily here without moving a muscle nor raising a voice ...... we do know our way around them and no two women is the same ... we give them bespoke sessions, tailored to their needs and personality ... Not just some climb and bang away , egotagho !


If you gonna send ur wife away cuz she refused you sex, it shows your game is low man and you are wack ... if your game Is tight na she go dey rush you


and Yes, Woman is a capital project with Cashflow that grows into the foreseeable future ... She is gonna Mothered your Kids bra ..

Yeah, You build your investment (Not subject) the way you want it ... Yea, Sending her away ain't building , That's destroying .... Hope u got dat

guy your mumu no get part 2. if there is mumu and dumb competition you should represent Nigeria


how can someone be this dumb and be rejoicing in his own foolishness at the same time


are you trying to seek attention or how does the way I want to run my home your headache? you need to get serious with your life, there is more to life than all this unproductive theory you're writing

guy get busy and influence your intellect with reasonable things

When I tell men to make money they will not listen. If you satisfy all your wife's financial needs she will gladly satisfy you sexual needs!

Heavensent01:



guy your mumu no get part 2. if there is mumu and dumb competition you should represent Nigeria


how can someone be this dumb and be rejoicing in his own foolishness at the same time


are you trying to seek attention or how does the way I want to run my home your headache? you need to get serious with your life, there is more to life than all this unproductive theory you're writing

guy get busy and influence your intellect with reasonable things

Lol ... Your home is never my headache even your life as I don't give a damn about your life nor your death ... You are inconsequential to me Nigga ! So stop getting yourself worked up by opening your saliva gutted and slippery mouth on me like a running water ..

I'm only correcting your myopia on a social media just for you to know you are neither reasonable nor sensible....

In the light of you not having a worthy rebuttal to my previous assertions, thanks for your time Nigga !

LilMissFavvy:
The funny thing is that 95percent of the wife's complaints are valid, yet she is crucified.

You live in a small sized accommodation due to poverty, yet still bring in your mother/relatives into same house. Yet it's a crime she's disallows sex so that relatives do not hear her. Oga, a sensible wife wouldn't want relatives to hear her when she's with you.

No good ventilation, no fan, is she to be blamed? Or she should suffer under a stuffy atmosphere in the name of sex.

Tells you to go get a bath and perfume your body. Aren't you supposed to bath, brush, at least most nights in readiness to meet your wife? Was personal hygiene meant for the females alone?

She complains that she's tired. Why wouldn't she feel tired when you have dumped all chores on her, especially after she comes home from work, and still attends to the kids.

She is afraid of pregnancy. Oga use condom, or practice withdrawal method the way a young energetic husband should.

She is menstruating...... Isn't that natural?

As for the religion angle, aren't you the one that married her into your church?

She.........and the list goes on and on.

Hahahaha

When you don't want to do something, you can have a million and one excuses. But if you want to do something, you will look for a way inspite of all the limitations.

If it's a small accommodation with relatives, at least they are not sleeping in your room. You can keep it quiet.

They have fan na. And if it's bad, something can be worked out.

Sex is not a church service that you need to prepare for. So if he says "quickie", he has to go and bath, shit and spray perfume. Where's the fun?

You will be shocked that she has a househelp but still complains of tiredness.

All in all, excuses come when there's no interest.

ImaIma1:


Hahahaha

When you don't want to to something, you can have a million and one excuses. But if you want to do something, you will look for a way inspire of all the limitations.

If it's a small accommodation with relatives, at least they are not sleeping in your room. You can keep it quiet.

They have fan na. And if it's bad, something can be worked out.

Sex is not a church service that you need to prepare for. So if he says "quickie", he has to go and bath, shit and spray perfume. Where's the fun?

You will be shocked that she has a househelp but still complains of tiredness.

All in all, excuses come when there's no interest.

@Bold:



Which is why I say it starts from the mind.

Temhellen:

The issue on ground is not about communication or you asking your partner if he or she likes sex. The issue of ground is me not telling your that am suffering from genital mutilation.

That shows dishonesty. Then what were they discussing during courtship?

No wonder some people marry today and divorce tomorrow over 'irreconcilable differences'.
Don't get me wrong. I am trying to be insensitive to your plight but being honest ab initio would enable me think it through and decide if I'm ready to still commit despite that challenge.

Maybe you didn't get me. By telling the partner that you, yourself like sex and asking if they, themselves can cope should ordinarily bring out such confessions but if it doesn't that means dishonesty and is a 'veritable ground' in the eyes of the societal laws for divorce.

ImaIma1:


Hahahaha

When you don't want to to something, you can have a million and one excuses. But if you want to do something, you will look for a way inspire of all the limitations.

If it's a small accommodation with relatives, at least they are not sleeping in your room. You can keep it quiet.

They have fan na. And if it's bad, something can be worked out.

Sex is not a church service that you need to prepare for. So if he says "quickie", he has to go and bath, shit and spray perfume. Where's the fun?

You will be shocked that she has a househelp but still complains of tiredness.

All in all, excuses come when there's no interest.

The reality is that some women don't like sex. They see it as a burden.

I was shocked when a female lecturer insinuated that when she gives birth to a certain number of children, she will lock 'shop'.


I was like "what!". Sex is not only for child bearing but bonding between a man and his wife.

DonroxyII:
Lol ... Your home is never my headache even your life as I don't give a damn about your life nor your death ... You are inconsequential to me Nigga ! So stop getting yourself worked up by opening your saliva gutted and slippery mouth on me like a running water ..

I'm only correcting your myopia on a social media just for you to know you are neither reasonable nor sensible....

In the light of you not having a worthy rebuttal to my previous assertions, thanks for your time Nigga !

go and recover your sense, I'm tired of this your 13 century IQ


shere lo

bukatyne:


@Bold:



Which is why I say it starts from the mind.

Yes it does.

zedegit:


The reality is that some women don't like sex. They see it as a burden.

I was shocked when a female lecturer insinuated that when she gives birth to a certain number of children, she will lock 'shop'.


I was like "what!". Sex is not only for child bearing but bonding between a man and his wife.

Close shop should mean for having children and not stopping sex.

If it's to close shop for sex, then she doesn't really care if he gets it outside as long as he's not bothering her for it.

Old and recycled story but the lesson here is to have these conversations with your partner before saying "I do". You had your expectations in marriage but failed to communicate to her from the beginning. Both parties will definitely require counselling. Sex in marriage is as important a discussion as finances, where to live, the number of kids to have, etc.

this na long thing o

yeah....I agree. I am partially correct, same as you are. But the truth is that most times when we give excuses and avoid doing a particular thing, it is usually due to the stress/inconvenience involved in such tasks.

ImaIma1:


Hahahaha

When you don't want to do something, you can have a million and one excuses. But if you want to do something, you will look for a way inspite of all the limitations.

If it's a small accommodation with relatives, at least they are not sleeping in your room. You can keep it quiet.

They have fan na. And if it's bad, something can be worked out.

Sex is not a church service that you need to prepare for. So if he says "quickie", he has to go and bath, shit and spray perfume. Where's the fun?

You will be shocked that she has a househelp but still complains of tiredness.

All in all, excuses come when there's no interest.