I was 6 going to 7 years of age then, my mum said I should go and call her friend from the next house,the Woman said i should tell my mum that i didn't see her, meaning that she is not there,ok,innocently im going back home to betray my mum's friend and to tell my mum the real truth,not knowing she is following me, she gave my mum a shut up sign not to talk at my back, immediately I said my Mummy don't mind your friend ooo, I saw her she now said I should lie that.......that was how slap and knock landed on my head,that woman beat me from behind,what my mum did that got me crying heavily was that she supported her friend calling me a dense child, omg, it was as if heaven wants to fall that day because i choose not to betray my mum and she ended up betraying me. It really pains me even till now because she didn't hear my side of story.

They both died and made me an orphan.

they died,. not funny at all

How many do we count?.


We still survived it .

CivilzedTyger:
I've always had the suspicion that my dad's picking on me or something but one particular thing happened when I was young. I was known to open my mouth when sleeping, and he slaps me whenever he wakes up and meet me in that position cos I used to sleep parlor. there was one particular night that I was on my phone, I think I did night sub and I was browsing then I heard footsteps so I pretended to be asleep so my dad steps out and slaps me hard that I should shut my mouth. I wasn't sleeping this time and I sure as hell hadn't left my mouth open. I still don't know why he did that till date.

Guy you are not your father's son. Maybe he found out that's why he is picking on you. You must be the first child

Way back in secondary school, dad promised to get me a bicycle after he got one for our last born, he said next week, omo next week turned to months and years, it's been like 8 years now . I am now an Adult, living all by myself in another city but the truth still remains: I have the best parents & Each time I remember these experiences, It always made me smile. Mom & Dad, even if you never got me the bicycle, I am going to buy you G-wagon 2022 model

luvme0702:
They both died and made me an orphan.

SORRY.....
what a Loss...
Hope you are Coping..?
Just try... Ok
Most well-being directed ORPHANS do well....

I try as much as possible not to remember any wrong doings. I forget things like that easily.

I had chosen an outfit for my sibling’s birthday party that I was REALLY excited about wearing and my mum changed it without me knowing a day before the party so we couldn’t even go back to change. Omo I was so hurt, even thinking about it now makes me angry

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Plenty things but this takes the cake.I really can't remember how old I was(10-14 maybe) but my dad locked me out at night because I had a bedwetting problem.It was until midnight my mom came to open the door for me.If not for our dog that night ehn.

My mother arrested and locked me up for two weeks. i was only 14! Offence? Don't ask me.

EzzyCarter:
Giving birth to me in Nigeria while all my older siblings were born in the states. Like what's my offense ?

Bro no be only you o.


We are in the same shoes sef

I dey come

Stevyne:
Maybe when my Dad refuse me going to Bayero university Kano, 2013.

He saved you from 2014 Kano Boko Haram Bomb attack

Growing up without a father figure.....



And mom making me feel depressed

Exmilitant:
My mother arrested and locked me up for two weeks. i was only 14! Offence? Don't ask me.

pls wat was ur offence

Most painful? Ah... :I E plenty die! :
Don't wear skimpy skirts!
It is my house, so therefore, my rules!
Tell that boy to go!!
After cleaning up, balancing well to watch your favourite Telenovela: "Go and change it to Frank Olize"... I lost count, or should I say stopped counting when I read, THERE IS NO MANUAL given to parents on how to treat you, they just resort to their own non formal, societally prescribed upbringing. Even worse was when my nephew complained that my Eldest sister, his mum, was said to be doing the "painful things" we complained mom used to do when we were younger. Bros, let it go

Nothing painful Sha. Shit happens, though anytime money lost for house Dem go point fingers at me , as the eldest child. But after they will still find the person that took it, But, they will never apologize to me , trust naija parents na
And I don't even let those things bother me ,I hardly carry grudges .... coz my days in the house are numbered... I'm in my finals .

EzzyCarter:
Giving birth to me in Nigeria while all my older siblings were born in the states. Like what's my offense ?

May be you have not heard of 1000s homeless Americans, Britons and Spanish

CivilzedTyger:
I've always had the suspicion that my dad's picking on me or something but one particular thing happened when I was young. I was known to open my mouth when sleeping, and he slaps me whenever he wakes up and meet me in that position cos I used to sleep parlor. there was one particular night that I was on my phone, I think I did night sub and I was browsing then I heard footsteps so I pretended to be asleep so my dad steps out and slaps me hard that I should shut my mouth. I wasn't sleeping this time and I sure as hell hadn't left my mouth open. I still don't know why he did that till date.

maybe he knew you were pretending to be asleep

What kind of stupid topic is this?

How can you just wake up & start looking for how to stir up hatred for your parents and instigate other nairalanders to do same?

Its also very unfair and insensitive to those who have lost or never knew their parents.

Are you normal

Who even brought this to front page sef?

Very funny

EVILFOREST:
My MOTHER had her First Degree in Disciplinary Measures Sciences.
Her Masters Degree in FLOGGING Forensics.
Her PhD in Driving Evil Spirits away through Advanced Flogging.
I am yet to see any LADY who disciplines more than
my mom.
My MOM flogs you both physically and spiritually.
Even in her absence, she still flogged from wherever she was.
In Fact, she used CANES to correct a lot of childhood medical problems... like catarrh, bedwetting, snoring, laziness, bulimia, long throat and many more
She's a LEGEND.

Flog me when I was out of line and when it wasn’t even intentional bt then they did alot of sweet and beneficial things to me also. I can’t hold anything against them.

IbrahimSkiba:



Sometimes I feel so alone.
Sometimes I really get sad and ask so many questions.
Sometimes I am meant to believe that love doesn't actually really exist.
Sometimes I really get scared of being a failure, even after graduating and also serving, but no job.

Now Op is asking what's the thing your parents has done that you now that you won't ever forget.

Now here mine. My dad

I'll always be grateful to God for giving him the grace to see me through school.
I'll forever be indebted to him.


Now here's why I can never forgive my dad
Prior to this day, I've always endured harsh treatment from my dad but I never thought he would go to this extent to show his level of hatred for me and my siblings
So two months ago, my dad and his wife had me and my siblings locked up for a crime we didn't commit, she told my dad that we took her pant, I know it sounds absurd,, I actually thought he was joking, when he said, we would confess. before I knew it, four Red beret officers arrived and told us that we were under arrest, shuoo

Na so dem bundle us go lock us up. At the end the truth came out. I left home. I promised never go to back home.

Now to my mom.
We agreed on selling a piece of land, and from the proceed, I intended on starting a small business from my own share of the money, which was supposed to be 500k, but can you believe that, my mom sold the land for 2.5m and she didn't tell us. .and now ever since then, he line has been switched off
She doesn't pick up calls anymore.

I heard she used the money to get herself a ride. Without considering her children.

I vow to make it big in this life.

I don't care the means.. I must make it.

God will bless your hustle. Your parents will come looking for you and make sure you show them that you are a better person than them. You will be fine. God is your father and your mother and he has heard your cry.

OPPPS:

May be you have not heard of 1000s homeless Americans, Britons and Spanish

Lol. Of course I have.

SymonLFC:
This is unforgivable.

Swears bruv

ohh

loveyou123:
Mine is my father wrongly accusing me of stealing his money not once not twice and there is nothing you can do convince him that you are not the one because in his mind he is always right , as a emotional person it hurts a lot.

I can't wait to graduate and run from his place before he destroy my self esteem, I just pray we shouldn't have any big issues before I leave him, I still want to be in good terms with him.

Just because I am not a very religious person anything bad happened in the house he will be pointing fingers at me, well God know the best.

Must you be praying everyday or going to church always to be a good person?

Please share yours, if you have any hurtful experience with any of your parents

i have same father as you

NettyNelly:
I can't really think of any now. Though it seems I have a perfect family but if there's anything I didn't like about my parents (my Dad especially) it is being over protective. He always choose the kind of people we associate with and no kid my area then was up to par. It affected my social interactions, I never had friends no gals around till I entered uni. I joined different groups like ENACTUS etc. I started deciding how I want things to be on my own. Though I found such parental care helpful cause it made me different from other kids (not awkward). It was vital to my ordered lifestyle.

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dude i relate to everything you just said. it still pisses me off that i dont have any skills because my dad would never let me out the house. its so great to finally be grown and making my own choices