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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by ThinkFreely: 2:46pm On Jul 01, 2020
J111333:
It's not about who is being blamed here after all, I'm not blaming him.
A wicked attorney can make the case to be drunk man raped a drunk lady and the keyword rape ain't going nowhere. Pray that no woman has scores to settle with you.
The problem now is the definition of consent? It should be clearly defined and the process of getting it should be established because a woman can give consent verbally and later claim she didn’t. It will be difficult to disprove her on that premise.

Should we record a video of her giving the consent before fuccking or what? cheesy

Because you are sounding like all these attorneys are senseless and cannot logically unravel rape cases.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by DozieInc(m): 2:49pm On Jul 01, 2020
Rozz:
From comments here, most of these men are rapist,they have one time or the other rape innocent girls because they are ignorant of what consent really entails.Most of you should be ready ooo if any of those ladies you rape decided to speak out,dont come and be telling us we were both drunk.
The most insensitive and biased statements I have read so far.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jul 01, 2020
DozieInc:

The most insensitive and biased statements I have read so far.
what is insensitive and biased about the statement,its just the bitter truth.Go up and read what J11113 typed above and make sure you adhere
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jul 01, 2020
ThinkFreely:
The problem now is the definition of consent? It should be clearly define because a woman can give consent verbally and later claim she didn’t. It will be difficult to disprove her on that premise.

Should we record a video of her giving the consent before fuccking or what? cheesy

Because you are sounding like all these attorneys are senseless and cannot logically unravel rape cases.
Judge and Jury go for the truth but an attorney goes to win his case and earn his pay.

One more thrust after a woman says I'm done can be considered as sexual abuse and rape. Do what you can to protect yourself when having sex with a random woman. Record her oral consent if you need to just to be safe especially if you have a name, brand, future to protect.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by frog12: 2:54pm On Jul 01, 2020
what an idiotic doctor. this is admission of a crime in public. he can be arrested !!!

what an idiotic doctor. this is admission of a crime in public. he can be arrested !!!

what an idiotic doctor. this is admission of a crime in public. he can be arrested !!!

what an idiotic doctor. this is admission of a crime in public. he can be arrested !!!

what an idiotic doctor. this is admission of a crime in public. he can be arrested !!!

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by PrimadonnaO(f): 2:54pm On Jul 01, 2020
tobechi20:
if a girl has made up her mind to have sex with u, she gets drunk on purpose

Better abort this kind of thinking from your head before you end up raping people!

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by ThinkFreely: 2:56pm On Jul 01, 2020
Rozz:
what is insensitive and biased about the statement,its just the bitter truth.Go up and read what J11113 typed above and make sure you adhere
Are you downplaying the possibilities of false rape accusations?
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by cezarman(m): 2:56pm On Jul 01, 2020
phemmyfour:
"They were both drunk"

Being drunk is not a consent sir

Good thing he was drunk as well... So both have the right to accuse each other of rape.

Infact, let me do it for him... That wicked female doctor took advantage of and raped the helpless male doctor because he was drunk.

What a wicked world!
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jul 01, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


Better abort this kind of thinking from your head before you end up raping people!
There are so many rapist here,their comments gave them out.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by ThinkFreely: 2:58pm On Jul 01, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


Better abort this kind of thinking from your head before you end up raping people!
How should we know when a lady gives consent?

To avoid possible future rape allegations, should we capture the consent on video?

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by luminouz(m): 2:59pm On Jul 01, 2020
Minemrys:

of course n0t. I wasn't even talking abt the rape case bt court cases in general. And by the way, things like these, i am always careful. I am careful with people in general. I dnt want wahala.

Lol...ok bro
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jul 01, 2020
ThinkFreely:
Are you downplaying the possibilities of false rape accusations?
I'm not downplaying the possibilities but most of you guys don't really understand what rape is
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Olufemiolaolu(m): 3:00pm On Jul 01, 2020
J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...






The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure.
can a drunk man be in charge of his senses? Oh boy park well. The lady in question has a mission. She willing played hide his sausage.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by nkemdi89(f): 3:02pm On Jul 01, 2020
SaintBeehot:
the guy was also drunk so lady the could also be held responsible for rape
The guy said he was drunk according to him, how is he going prove that he was actually drunk?
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by nedekid: 3:02pm On Jul 01, 2020
J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...
The fact that they were "both" drunk doesn't make a difference?
Just wondering.





The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by DozieInc(m): 3:03pm On Jul 01, 2020
Rozz:
what is insensitive and biased about the statement,its just the bitter truth.Go up and read what J11113 typed above and make sure you adhere
Should the Doctor be assumed guilty until proven innocent? Or anyone that doesn't buy into the lady's story be labeled a rape apologist?

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by nedekid: 3:03pm On Jul 01, 2020
J111333:
..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...





The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship.
Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure.
The fact that they were "both" drunk doesn't make a difference?
Just wondering.
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jul 01, 2020
Olufemiolaolu:
can a drunk man be in charge of his senses? Oh boy park well. The lady in question has a mission. She willing played hide his sausage.
you better keep quiet and learn now so you won't blame it on alcohol

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by thymm: 3:05pm On Jul 01, 2020
joyandfaith:


rule 1. You do not have sex with a drunk woman because she cannot give consent.

But a woman can take alcohol to a man's room, get drunk with him without his consent
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by ThinkFreely: 3:05pm On Jul 01, 2020
Rozz:
I'm not downplaying the possibilities but most of you guys don't really understand what rape is
So if rape can happen and rape can also be falsely alleged, as woman how do you suggest the issue of consent be addressed into order to avoid rape and also serve as evidence for false allegations?

I want you to come up with a valid agreed “consent” that can be used as a standard against a rapist and a false rape allegation because I noticed the “consent” thing is very unclear and ladies want to reserve the right to determine what should be a “consent” and what should not.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jul 01, 2020
DozieInc:

Should the Doctor be assumed guilty until proven innocent? Or anyone that doesn't buy into the lady's story be labeled a rape apologist?
Thank God it's not naija,the randy doctor by now knows hes in a deep trouble,that response alone is enough to nail him.Only women can understand the manipulation that happened in all of this.Read j111333's statement
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by jikins(m): 3:10pm On Jul 01, 2020
jornwhite:





the lady never acknowledged she was drunk or tipsy B4-moving into his room neither did the guy give an hint that insinuated she was drunk before ... the drink they both had.
Rape is a sensitive issue, trust me no empathy 4 rapist buh lets discuss reality, a lady going into a guy room for a alcohol drink, would av concern the possibility of sex happening, above all she has choice of accepting or declining, if you think she visited his room out of respect why can't she oblige him 4 sex out of respect. tell me "respect is not enough and i will show you a woman can fvck a guy 4 no reason.
We can keep @these all day, buh what do we really know grin as yu smart someone else sef wise, these matter only real lawyers can settle it










I honestly don't know what you're on about. And you just quoted me for whatever reason saying someone's opinion is dumb which is very ridiculous if you ask me especially when you fail to acknowledge the context on which it was said. Pay attention closely this time maybe you will pick up on what we were talking about before jumping in.

It doesn't matter what they acknowledge. A story can be spin anyway. As long as she didn't say she wasn't tipsy going in. She can aswell say it. But thats not the point which you are clearly missing in your spirited attempt to defend the action of the doc which I am not judging. Heck if you read my 1st post here you will know I fully support him.

But your summation that because a girl goes into a room after the person housing her in a different country ask her to do means she automatically wants sex? Common you are better than this. Lets not go too far just view the doc own post on rape and see what he says to people with your views. Imagine the question why don't she oblige him out of respect? Like seriously. So a student who goes to a lecturer office on his request and out of respect should oblige him sex too out of respect. The way pple talk on this site is surprising.

Saying you have no empathy for rapists doesn't shield you when you later show empathy for rapist in your subsequent statements. I have a neighbour who has come to my room to have drinks(alcoholic) and chill with netflix. So according to you now I should have sex with her because of this? Someone who has a bf, SMH.

And your last lines just reaks, lawyers can hardly settle cases. Thats why theres a judge to do that and a jury in some countries. These are the people that actually settle cases like this. If the lawyers were to settle it outside the court it would be after one party has offer enough incentives to have the other drop the case which is unlikely here.

Your rant is totally unnecessary. Because the point I wanted to make to the person which I sent that msg to, I made it already. Which was events can be twisted during trial. I wasn't making excuses for her or supporting her in anyway but just trying to drive a point which I did before you jump in salivating throwing insults upandan without understanding why a certain thing was said. Mstcheew
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jul 01, 2020
joyandfaith:


rule 1. You do not have sex with a drunk woman because she cannot give consent.
will they hear,when their erection has taken the better part of them.Even some ladies don't understand that they are being raped
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Olufemiolaolu(m): 3:11pm On Jul 01, 2020
Rozz:
you better keep quiet and learn now so you won't blame it on alcohol
She flew to U.K to do what exactly? Shame on you I can never rape.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by ThinkFreely: 3:12pm On Jul 01, 2020
ThinkFreely:
So if rape can happen and rape can also be falsely alleged, as woman how do you suggest the issue of consent be addressed into order to avoid rape and also serve as evidence for false allegations?

I want you to come up with a valid agreed “consent” that can be used as a standard against a rapist and a false rape allegation because I noticed the “consent” thing is very unclear and ladies want to reserve the right to determine what should be a “consent” and what should not.
Rozz answer this

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jul 01, 2020
joyandfaith:


rule 1. You do not have sex with a drunk woman because she cannot give consent.
will they hear,when their erection has taken the better part of them,you were drunk but your erection was not part of your drunkness mtcheww.Even some ladies don't understand when they are being raped
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Bahddo(m): 3:13pm On Jul 01, 2020
TheKingIsHere:


Guy, forget all this wan you are talking. Dr. funmilayo is only receiving a taste of his own medicine.

When he was busy running his mouth on twitter supporting women who come out without any iota of evidence or even their names...Not knowing the same lying women he was defending with all his power are the ones that will ruin him.

My simple advise to all men, hear both sides of the story and let the court decide....

As it stands now, the guys career and life is totally ruined.
I have no issues with Funmilayo being given a taste of his own medicine. I was simply addressing the post I quoted based on its own merit.

Conversations we have on issues like this today would shape the mainstream ideas of tomorrow. It's dangerous to try to establish that a drunk man bears all the responsibility for mutual action with a drunk woman while she is the victim (and nothing but), just to push a karma agenda.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by ThinkFreely: 3:15pm On Jul 01, 2020
joyandfaith:


rule 1. You do not have sex with a drunk woman because she cannot give consent.
Not when they are both Drunk.

Men can also be raped by ladies. This logic is flawed already because no one knows who actually raped who.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 3:15pm On Jul 01, 2020
Olufemiolaolu:
She flew to U.K to do what exactly? Shame on you I can never rape.
Because she flew to UK,that automatically means she consented to have sex(rape)
Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by joyandfaith: 3:15pm On Jul 01, 2020
Rozz:
will they hear,when their erection has taken the better part of them.Even some ladies don't understand that they are being raped

thank you. many youths do not understand meaning of rape. in 20 years to this time, most men will fall to rape cases. In us rape cases that occurred in 60 or 70s are being investigated. women are speaking out. just a little evidence will nail the alleged rapists.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by ThinkFreely: 3:18pm On Jul 01, 2020
joyandfaith:


thank you. many youths do not understand meaning of rape. in 20 years to this time, most men will fall to rape cases. In us rape cases that occurred in 60 or 70s are being investigated. women are speaking out. just a little evidence will nail the alleged rapists.
i think you also do not understand the meaning of rape because you are tilting the argument with the assumption that men cannot be raped as well.

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Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by Nobody: 3:18pm On Jul 01, 2020
joyandfaith:


thank you. many youths do not understand meaning of rape. in 20 years to this time, most men will fall to rape cases. In us rape cases that occurred in 60 or 70s are being investigated. women are speaking out. just a little evidence will nail the alleged rapists.
Exactly,most of them are defending the randy doctor because they are somehow guilty of such act one way or the other

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