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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Funkybabee(f): 11:25am On Dec 13, 2020
na your mind/heart you will control oo
out of that mind is evil/bad thought come from ND the most funniest part is that it's the devil that keep speaking it to your ears.

see any time the thought is coming back, say no I rebuke you in Jesus name, even if it's 100 times, it will reduce, it's determination or keep listening to word of God every time to keep your mind from evil.

dove, Faith tv is there, May God give you victory
happy Sunday
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Oolawepo(m): 11:26am On Dec 13, 2020
mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.
Anytime the thought comes around just rebuke it immediately and u see it will will flee away from you.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Grace146: 11:26am On Dec 13, 2020
Try as much as possible to resist the urge, and always put it in prayer and one more thing, always avoid been alone!!! God will see us through
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by MuttleyLaff: 11:27am On Dec 13, 2020
Funkybabee:
na your mind/heart you will control oo
out of that mind is evil/bad thought come from ND the most funniest part is that it's the devil that keep speaking it to your ears.

see any time the thought is coming back, say no I rebuke you in Jesus name, even if it's 100 times, it will reduce, it's determination or keep listening to word of God every time to keep your mind from evil.

dove, Faith tv is there, May God give you victory
happy Sunday
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Gbam! Nah your mind/heart you wan control ooo

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That is the beauty of self-discipline, captured in "a picture is worth a thousand words" taken shot.

You know you have self discipline and have arrived at the zenith of self control power when you can watch/see porn and not have to resort to choking the chicken
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by jrklinz: 11:30am On Dec 13, 2020
4 all those saying masturbation isn't sin and quoting rubbish 4rm d bible beware.whatever u do and feel regret towards it is sin.And d moment u disregard it as bin sin,4rm dat moment on,u have become a slave to it and dats wat d devil wants. so first thing first acknowledge d truth abt it dat it is sin and pray abt it(i mean commit it in d hands of God) and secondly cus I was once a victim as well so truthfully idleness is a major cause and d 1 thing abt sin is it likes u to practice it secretly dat y u need some to talk abt it to. someone u trust.having a conscious thought dat someone knows Wat u are passing tru will will expose dis sin and help u avoid it and I mean some1 u can see nt public opinion.lastly get a girlfriend some dat can b more than a friend.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by bepositive11: 11:31am On Dec 13, 2020
mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

You say that you're addicted to masturbation and porn, how often do you masturbate? Some people say that it's wrong, but the truth is that it is not wrong. It is self pleasure. Is it better to risk getting STDs or marrying the wrong person in a hurry just to get sexual pleasure? As long as you can function well, fulfill your day to day activities and responsibilities, there is nothing wrong.

After all, too much of anything is not good. If masturbation and porn is keeping you from living a healthy life, then you need help.

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Nobody: 11:31am On Dec 13, 2020
Toks2008:


Maybe if they are away from their spouses or there is sexual tension between them but if there is a healthy one I don't see any reason why a married person will masturbate.

Many married ladies may masturbate if they are not sexually satisfied with their husbands but they should rather comunícate to solve it.
Kai,you don't always see anything wrong with sexual immoralities,masturbation of any kind is a sin, stop typing what you don't know and besides what are you doing in this section
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by MDBELLO(m): 11:32am On Dec 13, 2020
You need deliverance. Never give up God will deliver you. Thank you. God bless
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by mikkyjay(m): 11:34am On Dec 13, 2020
gidson12:


Why will u masturbate while you are married.... I thought masturbation is sensual gratification driven by the urge for sex... So why will married person masturbate when sex is just a tap away

I guess you aren't married, that's why you think sex in marriage is just a tap a way, trust me lots of married men still masturbate because marriage most times don't satisfy ones sexual needs.
And married especially with kids don't always get sex whenever they want.

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Toks2008(m): 11:35am On Dec 13, 2020
Zzor:
Kai,you don't always see anything wrong with sexual immoralities,masturbation of any kind is a sin, stop typing what you don't know and besides what are you doing in this section

OK now I get the signal.

Please send me a Pm so that we can know each other better cos there is no other reason for accusing me wrongly if not to get my attention and now you have it.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Nobody: 11:36am On Dec 13, 2020
Toks2008:


OK now I get the signal.

Please send me a Pm so that we can know each other better cos there is no other reason for accusing me wrongly if not to get my attention and now you have it.
lmao,ok I will send you pm, my regards to your wife.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Goodghoxt: 11:38am On Dec 13, 2020
I will advise you to go and watch the video about masturbation and pornography by Joseph Okechukwu on YouTube or Facebook. You need to understand how your minds works as regards this addiction and with that knowledge you will conquer
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Toks2008(m): 11:41am On Dec 13, 2020
Zzor:
lmao,ok I will send you pm, my regards to your wife.

Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by CutieKing: 11:46am On Dec 13, 2020
vonlogon:
The number one cause for your problem is idleness, I've work with people that are worse off than you, try not to be idle at any point in time, if you notice that you get tempted easily when you are alone try being around people, if you are unemployed look for some business to do, no matter how small. Getting married may help, but I've heard of married people masturbating too.

Secondly, learn to tell your inner man NO!

Idleness can never be the cause..is he going to work for 24hrs daily??.the bolded sound more like it.
The issue here is his mind.never allowed your body overcome your mind.people that do so continually do so because they want it.Take charge of your mind.(Prob 4:23).that you are able to identify this as a problem means solution is within reach.only weak men identify problem but unable to find a solution.dont be one.you have the choice to do other productive things when you start finding yourself in this situation.

In addtion,masturbation possesses no health risk but i dont know about any spiritual effect because this is based on individual experiences.
God will help you do the right thing.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by davidque: 11:47am On Dec 13, 2020
Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.

Biggest mistake to think marriage can solve masturbation. It will not at all

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by egunna(m): 11:48am On Dec 13, 2020
Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.
simple and short
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by seanwilliam(m): 11:49am On Dec 13, 2020
Kobojunkie:
The only way to get free of the chains of sin is obedience. If you read the Gospel of John, that is what Jesus Christ tells you in Chapter 8. You have to learn the New Covenant, the Truth that God Commands, Jesus Christ, and when you obey His Commandments, you seize to be a slave to sin and instead become a Child of God. Read what Jesus Christ said and do as He commands.
una go just dey talk something wey go make person one slap una sha
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by seanwilliam(m): 11:50am On Dec 13, 2020
DextrousDavid:



My brother.. Only God can help one break free from masturbation.

I used to masturbe and watch porn alot. Glory be to God i stopped in may 20th, 2020. After God revealed the below scripture to me.

Study it well(everyday). It's the only true way out.

James 4:7
King James Version
It says.

(step1)Submit yourselves therefore to God.

(Step2)Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
pure lies. I can bet my two balls you still mastubate
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by seanwilliam(m): 11:52am On Dec 13, 2020
OP, my advice is simple.. anytime the urge to mastubate comes, just think g the regret you will have after it.. stand up and dust your mind ... also try to get a sexmaniac girlfriend
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by ola30(m): 11:54am On Dec 13, 2020
Masturbation is sex with demons. It defiles and destroys your body, the temple of the Holy Spirit

1 Cor 6:18-19 Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a man commits is outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own

See the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit

Masturbation – Sex with Demons
Masturbation is about thoughts and imaginations. It’s the result of not casting down imaginations and bringing thoughts to obedience of Christ (2 Cor 10:5)

Satan is able to feed us thoughts and imaginations into our minds when he is not in us – from a distance; a far off. When you entertain his thoughts imaginations and voices, you find yourself doing what he wants, masturbating; sinning.

As you fantasize about his thoughts and imaginations, demons start manipulating your body, making you masturbate – you cannot see them physically with your eyes but they are there

Today the enemy has come up with intimacy gadgets, sex objects, to aid masturbation, to steal kill and destroy humanity completely. intimacy gadgets is an industry of the devil.

Masturbation is a spirit – a demon. This spirit of darkness does not come alone, it is accompanied by spirit of lust.

Spirit of lust includes lust of eyes, lust of flesh, etc. It is one of the spirits that takes people to pornography and all sorts of sexual immorality.

Pornography is a fuel of masturbation.

Masturbation is a sin which grows very fast into addiction – a very bad addiction

Masturbation can result from generational curse, inherited from generation to generation. Our parents and forefathers never tell us the sins they did, addictions and curses they were in, then when we and our children start inheriting these curses, most of us blame God, others and see God in a bad light.

See charging God with wrong is a sin and blaming others

If you are in masturbation or was, do not be surprised if your children and grandchildren be in masturbation too.

Spiritual husband and wife is also a cause of masturbation. Spiritual husband and wife are of the harlot kingdom which includes Jezebel, marine kingdom, etc

See how to know if you have spiritual husband and wife

People masturbate in dreams but because they are not doing it physically, they say they are not masturbating – you are lying to yourself. In the same manner people have sex in dreams but deny that they are in sexual immorality because they are not doing it physically – it is a lie, denying yourself deliverance, freedom.

What Spirit of Masturbation Does
Masturbation is a spirit of Satan whose work is to steal kill and destroy (John 10:10)

Masturbation defiles and destroys the temple of the Lord – the body (1 Cor 6)

It destroys the body that you cannot fulfill your wife or husband nor be fulfilled (1 Cor 7)

It destroys the body of a man that a man can pass out sperms with just a thought or imagination – its one cause of premature ejaculation.

Coupled with spirit of lust, it makes a human being an animal – from your thoughts, to how you behave, what you see and want to see, uncontrollable desires and urges, etc – you become an animal

Masturbation causes stagnation with no breakthrough

Every person who masturbates, watches pornography and is involved in any form of sexual immorality is in life stagnation in one way or another.

Masturbation, pornography and all forms of sexual immorality shuts doors that if you were supposed to be in point B you never move from point A but stagnant at point A.

When the enemy knows in the spiritual realm that there is a breakthrough or blessings coming, he makes you masturbate or be involved in any form of sexual immorality and by that he has shut your blessings, breakthrough, etc – he has stolen. And this is the biggest cause of stagnation in many people in the church today.

By using the door of masturbation, the enemy can bring you any curse, affliction and torment as he wills – he can steal as he wills. See how we open the door for the enemy

Many people desire marriage but cannot get it because masturbation pornography and sexual immorality has shut it from them

The Solution to Masturbation
Masturbation is a spirit of darkness, a demon. Spirits are not fought physically but spiritually – it’s not a fight against blood and flesh (Eph 6:12)

The world tells you to get rid of everything that makes you masturbate, physical things (not the spirits) but when the urge comes, you find yourself back to those things.

What spirits of darkness do is give you an urge or passion you cannot stop or resist but only obey – a spirit that controls and manipulates you as it wills

Every person giving you a physical solution to a spiritual problem is not helping you but leading you deeper into captivity, to perishing – do not use your energy or efforts to stop masturbation or any other addiction; it’s in vain

The first step to freedom is accepting, acknowledging whom you are. Accept you are in masturbation – say, ‘I masturbate’.

In Christ Jesus we do not hide (cover) our sins, curses, afflictions, torments, etc, for if we hide we will not be delivered, set free, saved.

Many so-called-Christians I have come into contact with use Bible, quoting Bible verses, the Name Jesus Christ, church, religion, tithing, sacrifices, etc to hide their afflictions, torments, curses, etc

Accept you masturbate and hide it not

After accepting whom you are in need of deliverance, repent your sins including your forefather’s sins – ask Jesus to wash your sins with the blood He shed on the cross and deliver you from the demons involved/associated with those sins.

Ask Jesus Christ where your deliverance is and run to it – run to Him. Remember there is time to pray and time to run physically to Jesus Christ

The only solution to masturbation is running to Jesus Christ both physically and spiritually – He is faithful; He delivers, sets free and heals all who come to Him

Deliverance in Jesus Christ casts out the spirits, the cause of the desires urges and passions. When Jesus Christ delivers you from masturbation, you have no desire, no urge to masturbate at all, even the imaginations, thoughts and dreams disappear.

Many people claim to be delivered but they are still in desires, urges, lusts, battling with flesh, sinning in dreams, etc – they are lying to themselves; you are not yet delivered.

In Jesus Christ we do not starve the flesh, beat it, like Baal worshipers and what religion does, but we live in freedom. Freedom is where you have no urges, desires, lusts, passions, etc, of sinning or doing what is wrong.

It is only a person in freedom who has everything s/he needs to watch pornography but this person cannot because s/he has no desires, urges, nor passions for pornography

It is only a person in freedom who has money to buy all the alcohol in this world but he doesn’t because he has no desires, lusts, passions, or urges for alcohol.

Are you free? It is only a free person who can set you free. A prisoner cannot set him/herself free. In masturbation you are in prison, in Egypt, in captivity, in need of deliverance.

Remember a kingdom does not fight itself (Mt 12) – a demon cannot cast out a demon

I myself was in masturbation and went to its depths and Lord led me out once and all, so I don’t teach theories, or what I don’t know or have copied from others, but I preach and teach what the Lord has done and given me. See you cannot preach what you do not have

Because Jesus Christ taught me depths of masturbation, delivered me and send me to all in masturbation, I am a debtor to all people of Jesus Christ in masturbation. My happiness and joy is to see you in freedom as I am.

Therefore when you come to me as a sinner seeking Jesus Christ, know you are talking to a person who has gone through what you are going and delivered, came out to freedom – I will never open my mouth to condemn you but welcome you with open arms to Jesus Christ, for Jesus came for sinners (Lk 5:32) and to destroy the works of the devil (1 John 3:cool.

I do not entertain the wicked neither be in their company (Psalms 26:4-5, Psalms 1:1)

See the difference between sin, iniquity, transgression and wickedness

When time came for me to come out of masturbation, God told me to go speak it to my brother (a brother in Christ Jesus I love) and God spoke this verses to me,

Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed (James 5:16)

Reason I have told you to speak out, say ‘I masturbate’, speak your sins – I am here for you in His Will

Do not let masturbation addition or any other sin take you from Jesus Christ but let it lead to seeking Him the more and He is faithful, He will deliver heal and save you

If I was delivered, believe in my Jesus Christ, He will deliver you too

Many people in the church today are masturbating in one way or another, covering it with a blanket because no one sees them, they do not see Jesus delivering people from it, some of their churches have told them masturbation is not a sin, there preachers are all white (a lie) never telling them the things they passed through and where delivered because they are still in them knowing nothing about Jesus Christ deliverance.


Shalom.


COPIED.

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by thesilentman(m): 11:55am On Dec 13, 2020
Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.
Big Lie! Having a wife does not stop from masturbating.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Damian10(m): 11:58am On Dec 13, 2020
oga bon dat tin, married pipu dem too de masturbate nah insyd life no decieve ur sef. oga and madam no de glued togeda.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by OyinO: 11:58am On Dec 13, 2020
MASTURBATION is not a sin. Jesus and his disciples (all men) were always masturbating together in secret places including mountain tops, gardens, ships and boats. This was why they could stay without their wives.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by king99(m): 12:01pm On Dec 13, 2020
Get busy
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by electhnd(m): 12:02pm On Dec 13, 2020
writetopoker2:

Big lies
my brother it is not a lie, I am a testimony
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by DextrousDavid(m): 12:02pm On Dec 13, 2020
seanwilliam:
pure lies. I can bet my two balls you still mastubate

Your statement is Unnecessary and utterly meaningless. God has giving me the grace for self control.

Come to think of it. Why should you or anyone even engage in that act. When you were 5 years old did you care about doing that?

Please don't make that evil act sound like it's a norm. you're diminishing your self little by little Incase you don't know.

God will grant you the understanding. Jesus loves you sir.

Over and out.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by seanwilliam(m): 12:03pm On Dec 13, 2020
DextrousDavid:


Your statement is Unnecessary and utterly meaningless. God has giving me the grace for self control.

Come to think of it. Why should you or anyone even engage in that act. When you were 5 years old did you care about doing that?

Please don't make that evil act sound like it's a norm. you're diminishing your self little by little Incase you don't know.

God will grant you the understanding. Jesus loves you sir.

Over and out.
amen

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by electhnd(m): 12:04pm On Dec 13, 2020
Kobojunkie:
What about those who are married but still masturbate? undecided
mayb dey don't live together with their wive ........ just check
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Damian10(m): 12:05pm On Dec 13, 2020
2nd timothy 1 v 7
for God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of love, sound mind and self control.

what you need to get yourself out of this shackle is will power, work on your mindset when you feel you are about giving in just don't.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Ideadoctor(m): 12:09pm On Dec 13, 2020
fasting and prayer doesn't actually work for masturbation,discipline is the real antidote, stay away from triggers such as porn,nude,and avoid been lonely, get yourself a girlfriend or boyfriend whom you really love( I tell you, when you really love a girl,the urge to masturbate is suppressed, it worked for me not sure about you) the last thing is prayer( if you believe in it)
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by prodev986: 12:11pm On Dec 13, 2020
Get a girlfriend bro.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by johnokey: 12:12pm On Dec 13, 2020
I tried one time by going one month free, I always remind myself that everyday is a day of Grace and God won't let me do it, and I overcame it, you can try it as I'm still trying to curb it too

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