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Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Bushavin87: 11:17pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
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Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by luminouz(m): 11:18pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
Are you not a man for God's sakes?? Why bring such a mundane matter online for what?advice? If you can't talk to your niece or the boyfriend, in your own house, how on earth are you the head of your home? How do you manage your family? You talk like a man who needs people's opinions before making up your mind for every goddamn thing 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by luminouz(m): 11:19pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
wwwkaycom:. Lmaoooo... Your wife won't allow you shey? Your wife is now the head of the house!!! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by mt77: 11:20pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
You shouldn't have allowed them go into her room for 3 hrs. Rather you ask her to entertain her male guest in the living room. Learn to be firm when you have to. 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Respect55(m): 11:21pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
Why would you even allow them go into the room in the first place? Why? 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by lildonn222: 11:23pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
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Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by aribisala0(m): 11:24pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
What would you do if it was your daughter? |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Fiscus105(m): 11:24pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
extol1: the guy will be feeling like conqueror now, ...... going to his girlfriend family house to conquer pussy .............. in the present of uncle and his wife, watch out 4 episode 1 on sexcapade in ashewo joint today, provided the boyfriend is a nairalander. Typical stuff teenagers used to boost ego and get imaginary trophies 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by marcjoem12: 11:24pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by oseo1(m): 11:26pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
wwwkaycom: Personally I'd advise that you encourage her to bring the guy and you can interact with him and get to know him. I however would suggest that you let her know that he cannot go into her room, that's the only issue I have with it. Other than that you should encourage her to bring her boyfriend home. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Hathor5(f): 11:29pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
She should have told you a visitor is coming and they should have stayed with you and not lock themselves up in their room. I would not even wait for an hour before I would stop this nonsense in our house. Having said that, I don't think the story is true. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Akada1(m): 11:30pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
wwwkaycom: Na wa, na see finish cause am abi wetin ? That girl really neglect you oo bros . |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by g4gerald: 11:31pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
I have one question for u as the man. If its ur daughter that displayed dat act of stupidity in ur presence, will u just keep quiet even as a father nd then allow ur wife to be the one to do the talking nd correcting? U're like a father to dat gal, so do the needful If ur wife interferes by herself, she will only earn titles like 'aproko' 'over sabi woman' nd all dat. Hence her advice won't even be appreciated 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Fiscus105(m): 11:33pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
konkonbilo:, woman is the biggest factor in determining how man will be comfortable in her hood, she gave the guy 100% assurance having knwn her uncle as a meek man and her uncle leaved up to expectation by not uttered a word instead, shifting the blame on wife 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Ytea(f): 11:40pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
You must let her know such isn't allowed in your house, if a guest must visit her, she must inform you prior. If it was me sha, it's in front of that boyfriend I'll drag her, nonsense. Someone that may not end up marrying her sef, mstcheeeww. |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Bosch10(m): 11:40pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
crackhaus:you make sense sir 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Fiscus105(m): 11:41pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
FanOfMyself: this reminds me of what my close friend did years back during our tenage years, ......... a woman with 18yrs daughter invited my friend to help her mark sch exam in her house, very disciplined /strict woman o. she latter sent the guy to go and bring something for her inside room, because they were marking in the parlor, wen my friend entered room, he met her tenage daughter, and they fuckedd fast fast before he came back to parlor to continue marking stripts.......100% true life story o 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Aurelius1(m): 11:43pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
slawormiir:Whether they banged on not is not the issue here. A 23 year old girl brought a man who is not her husband into her uncle's house uninvited , took him straight to her bedroom and spent 3 hours there with him. That is utter disrespect. |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Mutemenot(m): 11:44pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
I don't want to cry more than the bereaved but, d girl sh*t for church come use bible clean yansh 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by MMXX: 11:48pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
The girl n the guy are both shameless too bad 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by raphy(m): 11:49pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
crackhaus: You make correct Sense Na so my only sistrr start o she no Dr hear word she go stay for my cousin house collect rod finish carry belle come give my mum .she didn't even learn my mum fashion designer after school Na my cousin house she go stay .she is old now single mum no hand work ... That girl need serious spanking if I was his parents she has already startim eating bug cassava. .she get Minh invite him and take Him to her room Na konji them lock door doo her kitten was too dry. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by konkonbilo(m): 11:53pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
Fiscus105:bros forget that thing.. If na you you go de comfortable I can never be comfortable in a ladies house especially if is her parents house or her relatives. What if her uncle opens her room door to check what she's upto or start knocking anyhow becos we've spent a lot of time together inside the room |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by colestephan86: 11:59pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
wwwkaycom:Lol, her purpose of visiting you is cos of that boy to come around and not that she likes you that much. It's called transit . 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by fabsyl(m): 12:00am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Na afonja way of life Nau. That's how there culture allow them to have at least a baby in there fathers house before they marry. They fuuuck for Christ sake 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Fiscus105(m): 12:08am On Dec 26, 2020 |
konkonbilo: i repeat, woman is determined factor how comfortable a guy/man will be in her house, even a married woman they come inside her husband house to Bleep her. the girl in question understood her uncle perfectly and it worked for her perfectly. if she is not reprimanded, the guy will still come for scene 2 before she leaves on Sunday. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Coolgent(m): 12:16am On Dec 26, 2020 |
wwwkaycom: Bros dont listen to your Wife on this issue, talk sense into that girl cos as a Man it's your duty. What the Gal has done is an insult to you as her Uncle. Sincerely speaking she need counseling 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Depressedkidd: 12:17am On Dec 26, 2020 |
wwwkaycom:she's a full grown adult nau, I think you should've inckuded the age in the initial post as that totally chsnges views on the situation. I thought she was 18 or 19 initially and I would've said it's wrong. But since she's 22, At that age you shouldn't be expecting her to hide her relationships nau. She's old enough to even get married if she wants to( a female coursemate of mine just got married last week). I'll only say she should've informed you of someone coming over since she's also a guest at your house. And yeah, there's no issue with them going into the room, they need their privacy as couples and adults. Talk to her though about informing you before inviting a stranger over. And rather than try to scare her off relationships, your advice should be on how to keep things safe and be responsible. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by konkonbilo(m): 12:19am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Fiscus105:firstly, you didn't answer my question. Secondly, it's not bad for a guy to visit a lady in her house or her parents house but it shouldn't be that long spending hours inside her room while the parent/guardian is aware of the both of them inside the room. I won't be comfortable spending such hours even though the parents don't have issues. |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Nobody: 12:23am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Under your nose o... Under your nose o... Shola collect two rounds... Under your nose o! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Poloyanabo2(m): 12:26am On Dec 26, 2020 |
crackhaus:THANK YOU! THE OP MUMU DEY SHAME ME SEF, BUT MAKE I NO TALK. CAN YOU IMAGINE THE HEIGHT OF INSULT FROM A LITTLE GIRL. There are some things that you got to do or say not minding your mood at the time. But some guys are stupid oo, so her BF couldn't talk sense into her head? Sha the girl don see am finish, she no even respect am as her uncle again. SMH! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Poloyanabo2(m): 12:29am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Biglittlelois:THE KID IS INNOCENT, I BLAME THE MAN, HE'S THE ONE SPOILING THE GIRL. JUST IMAGINE 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by BigBrother9ja: 12:34am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Samakus:The guest too must be stupîd to come in and stay that long with confidence. E lucky say no be under my roof... Useless children. 2 Likes |
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