I wonder what the meaning of love is when one cannot marry who you desire.. My cousin who is a jehovah witness was once dating a muslim guy, on taking the guy home the girls mother rejected the guy immediately but because of the love they have for each other they still see each other secretly.. Just yesterday, my cousin told me she was pregnant for the muslim guy..
Now fellow nairalander should she abort the pregnancy or go straight to tell her mother.. Pls tell me is religion a barrier to love? And what is wrong with marrying a jehovah witness.?

A lot is wrong about this! 2 extremist at opposite angles trying 2 com 2geda.
Wahalaa go gbengee ooo!!!

Exponental: A lot is wrong about this! 2 extremist at opposite angles trying 2 com 2geda.
Wahalaa go gbengee ooo!!!

ok is she gonna abort the pregnancy? Or is abortion not a great sin?

Pls nairaland family reply because i need your own point of view..

Let both of them elope and continue life,life is personal

Op
Come 2 my house, I will tell u d only solution.

They both saw trouble and headed right into it....
Now,you want us (Nairaladers)
to help solve it?
Okay nah..
Wait...make i go think soution!

now, Don't listen to this fool

chio chio: Let both of them elope and continue life,life is personal

and when u said...

Lolaabokoku: ok is she gonna abort the pregnancy? Or is abortion not a great sin?

undstnd dt having sex before marriage is a sin too, but also, don't listen to this disjointed being who says...

slimyemm: They both saw trouble and headed right into it....
Now,you want us (Nairaladers)
to help solve it?
Okay nah..
Wait...make i go think soution!

the solution, in truth is, if the guy is ready, let the lady damn the consequences and marry him. An act dt i knw has never ended good at every angle. Or, let her abort and leave the guy for good. Love doesn't exist, that shld be anybody's watch word.

Hmmmmm to my own opinion i may say let the both of dem get married.U can mari who eva u want 2 mari nut d person dat ur family wish 4u 2 mari

M M M: Op
Come 2 my house, I will tell u d only solution.

ok give me your add sebi you be love doctor? Oporoko head..

Wteva dey do, dey shouldnt abort d baby o

Lolaabokoku: I wonder what the meaning of love is when one cannot marry who you desire.. My cousin who is a jehovah witness was once dating a muslim guy, on taking the guy home the girls mother rejected the guy immediately but because of the love they have for each other they still see each other secretly.. Just yesterday, my cousin told me she was pregnant for the muslim guy..
Now fellow nairalander should she abort the pregnancy or go straight to tell her mother.. Pls tell me is religion a barrier to love? And what is wrong with marrying a jehovah witness.?

Hmmmm.... These one na war o! If she marry's d man she will regrete it later cus the man will force her 2 be a muslin and will be marrying others wemen after her which is againts her faith. If abort d child and leave d man now and suffers it now and njoy 2morro. Let her choose one.

This will definitely end bad for them. Am sure she would be thinking that if they got married,she wld be able to convert him but it seems he is already converting her without her realising it yet. I knw jehovah witness people to be strong in their faith but i dont think this lady in question is a true jehovah witness because she has slept with him before marriage and even thinking of killing a baby which i believe a true xtian wont even think of doing (or @op, are u d one thinking,suggesting or planning to do it for them?) just asking sha.please tell her to kip the baby and they should stay away from each other. Love is nt enough in this case!

Firstly, abortion is a sin and it shuouldn't be an option here. I suggest the girl should tell her parents that she is pregnant, that way her parents will adjust their position. I guess they didn't consent ab initio because feasibly they never knew she was pregnant. There are many consequences and implications that arise from abortion and even eloping. I see both religions as one that you have to convert for the marriage to be posible. So the question is this, which party is willing to forfeit his/her tenet to the other person's...So I think it's wise to let the family members know how much they really want to be together and the status of their relationship.

mckutie: This will definitely end bad for them. Am sure she would be thinking that if they got married,she wld be able to convert him but it seems he is already converting her without her realising it yet. I knw jehovah witness people to be strong in their faith but i dont think this lady in question is a true jehovah witness because she has slept with him before marriage and even thinking of killing a baby which i believe a true xtian wont even think of doing (or @op, are u d one thinking,suggesting or planning to do it for them?) just asking sha.please tell her to kip the baby and they should stay away from each other. Love is nt enough in this case!

well said.
even in choosing a life partner, u put the love God first and dat involves not voileting God's rule regarding marriage becos God is the one that blesses marriage. which kind yeye love will make a grown up girl open her legs when she knows there's strong differences their faiths? she forgot to reason with her head. may be she things everything is love.

Lolaabokoku: ok is she gonna abort the pregnancy? Or is abortion not a great sin?

why did she became pregnant in the first place?

mckutie: This will definitely end bad for them. Am sure she would be thinking that if they got married,she wld be able to convert him but it seems he is already converting her without her realising it yet. I knw jehovah witness people to be strong in their faith but i dont think this lady in question is a true jehovah witness because she has slept with him before marriage and even thinking of killing a baby which i believe a true xtian wont even think of doing (or @op, are u d one thinking,suggesting or planning to do it for them?) just asking sha.please tell her to kip the baby and they should stay away from each other. Love is nt enough in this case!

Haba! See me see trouble o.. Just want a lil advise 4 her ok

Antivirus92: why did she became pregnant in the first place?

is there nobody above mistake? And no one is perfect except God

Mr Lee:
Hmmmm.... These one na war o! If she marry's d man she will regrete it later cus the man will force her 2 be a muslin and will be marrying others wemen after her which is againts her faith. If abort d child and leave d man now and suffers it now and njoy 2morro. Let her choose one.

I agree with this, moreso, marraige is more than 'i love him" and 'he loves me"...you will be surprised how after many years down the road, it would be a different song. Nobody is trying to scare you or your cousin. the truth is before you seek for advice always try to advise yourself first. Getting pregnant was not the way to go at all. Your parents have every right to say no to a muslim spouse....especially when it involves their own child, a muslim parent has the right to say No to a Christain spouse (husband tobe) and so on and so forth.

Eloping is not the answer, God forbid something happens to either one of them<it would be a big problem for both families. in as much as i support marrying someone with whom you are "inlove" with, it would be better it is done with common sense.

We are all sinners, so i wouldn't cast the first stone. The lady in question is not a Jehovah's Witnesses,because a real Witness will not date a non-witness much more open your leg for him. The lady already see the dangers in there union and she decide to go ahead with it, so she will have to bear the consequence. She has committed fornication, she shouldn't add cold blood murder to it. Let the baby live and see that there is more to I LOVE YOU in Marriage than meet the eyes.

Lolaabokoku: is there nobody above mistake? And no one is perfect except God

which kind of stupid mistake! is she a baby? we have 2 be logical in our reasonin smtymes. she has gone as far as sleepin wit him which is bad enough, killin d baby wuld be a greater offence, i suggest she keep d baby nd forget d guy.

[quote author=mydi] which kind of stupid mistake! is she a baby? we have 2 be logical in our reasonin smtymes. she has gone as far as sleepin wit him which is bad enough, killin d baby wuld be a greater offence, i suggest she keep d baby nd forget d guy. Smtymz we 4get where we r cmng 4rm weneva Luv stirs us in d face. Truth is God is luv & he alone knows d rudiments of luv. She turn bak 2 him 4 grace 2 recognize true luv wen it comes bearin in mind dat she is nt xpectd 2 unequali yoke herself wit am unbeliva.

[quote author=pretie-dimie][/quote] yes its indeed a silly mistake cos she's now in a mess but the husband is now running around to the girls family to appeal to the girls mother to at least accept him.. He promised to allow the continue her religion but the girl mama dey para oo

its a free world and since she already carry belle for the guy, what's the reason for the thread?

too bad she feels pregnancy will help her keep him.

oh well, who knows sha.

tpia1: its a free world and since she already carry belle for the guy, what's the reason for the thread?

too bad she feels pregnancy will help her keep him.

oh well, who knows sha.

Dont get me wrong or is there anybody above mistake?

okooyinbo: Let them go and marry and damn the consequences o jare. There is just a certainty in life, and that is DEATH. That their marriage will collapse because of religious difference is not a certainty at all. Likewise that their marriage would last until death if they share the same religion. Nigerians just have to learn to be more humane in their character and mentality. Oro agba ni.

BTW, they dont need any parental blessings to make it work. And their marriage must not even be in a church or a mosque. The registrar is the surest bank to contract the marriage legally.

thanks 4 d wonderful advise u are truly oko oyinbo