The Most Important Ingredient In Your Relationship

Last week the wife of a Celebrity revealed that she regularly checks her husband's texts and emails. This revelation came as a great surprise to many because there has never been a whiff of scandal from the husband and unlike so many celebrity husbands who eventually are caught out by the press with their mistresses, this particular man has only ever been involved in promoting his business and improving the lives of others or so it seems.

What is trust? Trust is the binding commitment of 100% honesty and integrity between two entities or more. When two people meet and fall in love, they are in the process of building trust. Trust is the precursor to love for without trust, there can be no love or at least I don't think so. It is the faith that you can rely on the other person in the partnership implicitly and completely. It is the belief that when you share your concerns with that other person it stays between the two of you and is shared with no one else. It is the fact that everything you own together is shared. In a marriage it is the exclusive confidence in one another.

Daily I hear stories about people who have been betrayed in one way or another, by a family member, by a friend, by a partner.

What does this snooping by the above mentioned wife say about her. Admittedly, men and women, especially celebrities are being worshipped and adored by the general public and are surrounded by possibilities, which unless they are totally committed to one person, can present danger. Film Stars, Sports Personalities and Successful People, in particular, often fall prey to this adulation on a grand scale.

The betrayal, especially in the public domain must be all the more hurtful to a partner. But then again, we never know what goes on behind closed doors but why is it necessary for a wife whose husband has not been known to be involved in vagaries of the celebrity circus to check out his texts and emails.

There are a few schools of thought here, they are:

Anyone who needs to snoop into the private life of another person is simply very unsure, immature and lacks respect for themselves and the other person.
This can well stem from an inherent insecurity from childhood or seeing parents who resorted to this kind of behaviour.
Fundamental insecurity of what might happen and imagining all kinds of dangers that can lurk by living in the limelight.
It can also mean that the person who is snooping is not being so honest about his/her behaviour and has something to hide.
How will the person whose personal space has been invaded feel about this. They will feel that they are not being trusted
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post too long to make sense

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The same here abeg.

The topic no folllow wettin u write self.

@op
Wetin u dey talk?

I cant read dis>dis tin no be BBC report.
Bt 4rm ur heading,i wuld prefer UNDERSTANDING