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When you give a girl a ring. It should be a pair so the man can wear one..

So what do I do to make her lust after me ?

"Men are dogs, that's why women cheat"...

I see, your mum cheated because your father was a dog.

Internet and 21st century has spoilt Nigerians..

End times...

Lola, the wife of Psquare.

Okay..

Big clown..

Always telling dubious stories...

Chocrae: LOL not to sound very cocky, but I am very pretty, and I am employed working as a software engineer. but i still make out time for him

You sound smart.

Heart break is not the end of ones life..

I no send heart break anymore because I know there was a time I was dishing it out to others every 6 months..

Have an abundance mentality. Even me I am here for you. A lot of handsome smart guys still dey if he phucks up..

Face nah.

That's a man's identity.

This works for me.

If I find out I am loving too much. I cut calling for 2 or 3 days.

When calling next, act playful and careless. He will start wondering what is making you so happy without him. Flirt with someone.

Because if you keep pushing now, nah dumping things oo..

Chocrae: how though? I don't disturb him, i don't ask him for anything, i let him do his thing anyhow anyway, i don't complain, i don't nag, he has his breathing space. so i don't know what you mean by im overchoking him.

How many times do you call him a day or visit him in a week ?

Are you a fine girl ?

Are you employed or schooling ? How busy is your schedule ?

lokito: Because most relationships start with pretence and end up realistically. Imagine someone proposing and pretending inside shoprite and all that.

That's shoprite love.

That's balderdash.

A marriage you need to work out inside your room, you are advertising it in Shoprite. Smh..

In the name of modernism. I am not a modernist and I tell everyone...

chinziaski: Marriage is a very strong union. People need to be educated before venturing into it. Our fore-fathers put many things into consideration before allowing their children marry.

These days, we are blind about the flaws of our spouses and we just venture into marriage with these flaws thinking that all will be well when the marriage comes, but alas, nothing happens.

The reason why most marriages fail is that, people prepare for wedding more than marriage. Wedding is only for a day but marriage is for a life-time.

Another reason why marriages fall as if they never planned is that, we tend to ignore the little things our spouses do unconsciously and dwell in the well-planned charade they give us.

Health reasons can also spoil marriage. Because it can put the other person in emotional stress. We can take care of the other person for as long as we can but we can't do that for a life-time and worse if we see that same illness in our kids.

Love is good, sense is better.

ADVICE:

We should sit and think about our spouse from an objective point of view before venturing into this marriage.

We should ask ourselves simple questions before venturing to marriage. Questions like:

1. Will I love him/her when the going gets tough.
2. Are we compatible?
3. Will he be there for me when the going gets tough?
4. Will he love me when I'm fat or obese?
5. Can I cope with his/her tendencies?

Ask many questions, and don't lie to yourself. Love doesn't mask imperfections, it only makes you live with imperfections.

The only Institution you enter that gives you certificate before you start is marriage!

This man is very intelligent.

Seconded.

Thirded.

Fourthed.

Many people lack simple intelligence and understanding.

They want to give what they won't be willing to take in marriage..

marieolae: Congrats to her

Have you changed your picture ?

By the way.

First to commenting...

Is Slylg a woman ?

I have seen a comment with over 700 likes before nairaland went down last time..

Houseofglam7: Sharp guys full hia wella na

What calibre of guy me be ?

A lady doesn't chose another guy b4 me anyway.

All things being equal..

How does this letter improve bad roads in Aba ?

Him no dey fear face ?

Is he saying that Chief Arthur Eze never made such statement ?

Why bother about who reported it ?

Smh...

LarrySun: They wait for Prince Charmings to ask them out.

Most of these ladies set unrealistic goals for men.

They also live for the moment. She enters a relationship with you, she still seeks escapades outside, adding boyfriends to her list everyday, acting as if she is still single and searching.

Some of them are grossly insatiable even with enuf sex and money. They will still carry emotional burdens..

Women cause their problems. Imo.

Jarchi: U forgot one
#membership_registrar
she has tu much calls to receive always on phone,secretive,and famous like she's being on the screens for ages,she kind of love you like a player wud claim and always adding boyfriends to her unending list. The guys are like her super market where she goes for shopping getting what she wants at the right time.

The narcissist, passive aggressive and Attention seeker do as you said.

One lady could belong to 2 or 3 of these characters..

Have seen all these characters is women.

Houseofglam7: If she joins Nairaland, kiss her goodbye.

You sure ?

Why ?

This lady lives in your family house.

Do you have to judge her by one action of not washing your clothes ?

Oga, do her traditional wedding and impregnate her and stop complaining.. She is afraid you will disappoint her maritally.

That's how to handle troublesome girls..

Ivanspring: On who's part, the boy, the girl or the op?

Abeg i don't know that one..

Let me ask Google..

MrsBreezy: You'll never be on top love. Lol things are way better when I'm in charge

Okay. Let's alternate the top position.

But you have to be active while on top, so i don't lose interest..

Ivanspring: So, who is to blame?

Poverty !

Tallesty1: Yes nah! The id1ota gave his tfare to a woman for a reason best known to him. It is him and id1otas like him that make women think all men are women wrapper. Charity begins at home and giving what you don't have just to impress a woman is the height of stupidity.

I support this one too.

nna, I make ladies pay o when necessary.

She respects.me.more and know I am not a mugu.

Even babe way I don chop. There are times I make you pay for my fuel to take you to your destination.

Hahaha...

Yungwizzzy: Well it has been like that since the days of Adam and eve!!

Gbam! this is where I stand..

Oga giving someone N50 isn't help.

How much you go use help your girl ?

May God enlarge your ppcket . Amen.

MrsBreezy: Lol I'm a woman. I always win.

When I'm on top ??

rawpadgin: its very very possible for broke a$$ dudes but almost impossible for the rich & handsome guys

You wish abi ?

Describe rich ?

Describe handsome ?

Brb..

I view bare skin and keep my cool.

A guy can be satisfied by one woman.

But she doesn't have to be a naughty lady otherwise her misbehaviour can lead him to start considering other options..