₦airaland Forum

freecocoa:
You know a few women doesn't mean you know all women, I didn't read the part where she said her fiance complains about her infidelity, plus you don't even know that she's dating the new guy, could be he came back and reached out to her, doesn't mean they are dating, she wants to make a decision based on their relationship before he traveled.

Meanwhile, I just want to clarify that being a control freak or having anger issues has nothing to do with infidelity. If the dude's anger based on her supposed unfaithfulness, I wonder why he wants to marry her.

Behira:
Kinda like the concept

tochimajesty:
My good people of nairaland and beyond, Pls I am presently working as a biometric staff with diamond bank as a contract staff. But I got offer from AB micro finance as a loan officer. The pay for diamond is 50k while that of AB is 70k. The diamond work come wit no stress while the AB micro finance is loaded wit stress and the threat to meet target. Pls give me your good advice my dear brothers.

sheymoni:
Choose the one with the longest dick
You'll thank me later

striktlymi:
If you were my sister I would advise you not to marry any of them. They both do not respect you enough. If they do this before marriage what do you think would happen after marriage?

The following are likely:

For your ex:

1) He will continue to beat you. Probably the wife died from complications arising from the beating she received from him while she was pregnant.
2) He will continue to cheat on you.
3) The petting you crave would go out the window cause you are now part of his property.

For your present guy:


[s]1) He may not allow you work and may get angry when you ask him for money casue he may think he has already given you more than enough when you guys were dating.

2) You may most likely be confided to the house. No going out with friends and any male visitor is a potential suspect which may lead to some unhealthy situations at home.

3) You would have no right to say you are tired when he feels like having sex. He owns you and would want you to fulfill his every sexual fantasy whether you like to or not.

4) You may most likely be turned to his maid. You do everything that is required of you as at when due without complaint of tiredness.

If all those await my sister in any man, I would advise her to look the other way. Better to remain single than go through those hassles. So I advise you as a brother not to marry any of them[/s] .

striktlymi:
If you were my sister I would advise you not to marry any of them. They both do not respect you enough. If they do this before marriage what do you think would happen after marriage?

The following are likely:

For your ex:

1) He will continue to beat you. Probably the wife died from complications arising from the beating she received from him while she was pregnant.
2) He will continue to cheat on you.
3) The petting you crave would go out the window cause you are now part of his property.

For your present guy:


1) He may not allow you work and may get angry when you ask him for money casue he may think he has already given you more than enough when you guys were dating.

2) You may most likely be confided to the house. No going out with friends and any male visitor is a potential suspect which may lead to some unhealthy situations at home.

3) You would have no right to say you are tired when he feels like having sex. He owns you and would want you to fulfill his every sexual fantasy whether you like to or not.

4) You may most likely be turned to his maid. You do everything that is required of you as at when due without complaint of tiredness.

If all those await my sister in any man, I would advise her to look the other way. Better to remain single than go through those hassles. So I advise you as a brother not to marry any of them.

dustydee:
One beats you the other is not caring. hmmmn. Look well before you leap, from your story, both of them may not be right for you.

andromida:
Owk he listens to you but you feel he does not show you enough care?

Do you like him?

mmsen:
Clearly this young lady is not mature enough to be married.

I hope that both of these men see what she is about before they do so something silly.

dossypretty:
Yes the one abroad used to beat me hen he was in Nigeria and it was all because of the other girl but he shows more care like when am sick and down unlike my fiancee here who doesn't really believe in pampering a girl while she is sick

rossychik:
Well u really hav 2 take ur time. 1st u said ur Ex beats u but cares abt u I really do not understand

As 4 ur fiance u really hav 2 tell him hw u feel bein generous is nt marriage

My advice halt evrytin take time 2 look befor u leap nd ask God 2 show u d right way

[size=13] Maybe none of them is even ur husband [/b]

Goodluck!

andromida:
You get sister?

A man who claims he loves your sister does not care when she is ill,is controlling and makes her unhappy should she marry him? Remember this is a lifetime thing and getting out is hard will you happily say yes sister this is the man.

The "abroad" guy she has not seen in ages just gives her a buzz that he wants to marry her and we know this is the magic word for many chics what will you tell your sister? Meanwhile when they were together he treated her badly what do you think the plan is? what has changed?

dossypretty:
That is one of the reasons am staying with him, my pastor said I should be patient with him though I always try to calm him down when ever he is angry. He is faithful and listens to me but just his anger but he doesn't beat me

Fhemmmy:
If you look at the lady's reason for loving them too, you will realize she is not sure of what love is..... read all she said, one is "generous" . So sad why people are getting married

berem:
Marrying someone who beats you is the stupidest thing to ever think of. Please marry the one in Nigeria abeg!

excellence44:
half bread is better than pufpuf. there's no perfect man anywhere. we all have our baggage. @op are u saying that u are perfect? what of ur own shortcomings. abi u never cheat b4. go ahead n get married or elop n ruin d rest of ur life. if u be my sis enh I for d whip u koboko till ur sense come back. Abi him levels 4 yonda d over sweet u days y u wan run?

HARD TALK.

hazyfm1:
I FEEL YOUR PAIN

andromida:
None of your suitors love you IMHO. The former was a consistent cheat and the new guy is controlling,does not cherish your feelings. Why would you want to marry any of them . Gal you deserve better.

tundeayo2020:
nice one, but unfortunately this ain't enough to convince me that GEJ is working.

Immarshall:
Say NO to mediocre projects

#IHAVEDECIDED GMB 2015

justi4jesu:
And what is holding you back?

Chukwu94:
I'm tired of dis country's wahala.

silvernus0:
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This is a good sign for our politicS

no more god fatherizim

Jonathan will do better in this COMMING dispensation without the influence of pple like obj and god fathers.

I ONLY WISH BUHARI WILL CONTEST IN 2019 , I WILL VOTE FOR HIM WITH ALL I HAVE


DEAR GENERAL BUHARI,

PLEASE IF YOU LOOSE THIS ELECTIONS PLEASE CONTEST IN 2019 , I AM SURE YOU MUST WIN THIS TIME , JONATHAN IS THE OLNY STUMBLING BLOCK YOU HAVE IN THIS SHOT , BUT AM SURE YOUR NEXT SHOT

WILL BE A MASSIVE SUCCESS

WISH YOU WELL .
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Tranquill:
Yes you are right. Just as Babangida and Abdulsalami brought Obasanjo out of prison, arranged pardon for him and made him president with financial support from Orji Uzor Kalu despite opposition from his fellow yoruba people. and these same people did not make personal demands nor dictate to him how to run the country when he became president.

clevvermind:
It’s only in Nigeria that a failed president like
Olusegun Obasanjo can assume the role of
moral barometer and harbinger of
development.
Frankly, it beats me hollow that the man who
presided over Nigeria when the country was
declared the silverware winner of corruption
by Transparency International can muster the
biceps to theorize on corruption. I remind
myself that the worst cases of corruption and
stealing of our national patrimony took place
under Obasanjo presidency. The Siemens
scandal, Halliburton, National Identity card,
PTDF, etc were legacies of Obasanjo in Aso
Rock.
What about politically motivated
assassination? The Iges, Dikkibo, Okadigbos,
Igwes, Harry, Williams, Ogbonnas, etc are 6
feet below today because of Obasanjo’s
perchant for “do-or-die” politics.

bushdoc9919:
Eh....and have the whole country scream at you.

(It isn't just Hausas there, y'know.).