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Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by Decryptor(m): 9:40am On Aug 09, 2012 |
@Nkemmu, u just claimed here that you are happily married and that you have "two sweet lovely girls" for your hubby? How come you started a thread/topic titled: "The lady every man will want to marry" and berated yourself that you are looking forward to settle down but every relationship you enter breaks down cos u r "Hot headed". U started this thread on 29 July last month! Culd it be tht u found a man,got married to him & had 2kids in the space of just 11 days? Or r u just one big pathetic liar? 1 Like |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by tushbobo(m): 9:47am On Aug 09, 2012 |
Don't we guys love beautiful ladies and prefer them over ugly ones?? So what's wrong in Ladies wanting to be with a well to do guy?? Ladies of nowadays don't wanna hear 'the future is bright'.What they want is 'the future is here'.That's their choice and I don't even a letter as long as the book of lamentations can change that because women naturally love men who can meet all their needs. |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by Olami1224: 10:02am On Aug 09, 2012 |
Kelvinj: [b] !Thunmbs up for you ......20 yrs back; when i look at the whole issue, Men were not wise then, but Nigerians guys are now wiser than i can imagine. Ladies this is a very good advise, tell your frendz you know them let them change, cos na una dey suffer am pass at the END. Thank you for the post! 1 Like |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by Oxone(m): 10:30am On Aug 09, 2012 |
its stereotypes like "all men are dogs" & "all ladies are gold diggers" that ensures the vicious cycle of deceit between guys & ladies continues. one thing i've learnt over time is to never generalize/assume & to give everyone the benefit of doubt cos we sometimes find the best people in unexpected places. just my 2 cent 2 Likes |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by temi4fash(m): 10:43am On Aug 09, 2012 |
[quote author=kiviglomi]@ 190 : Not sure you have anything faminine in your life. must you come out here (public) and display your non- chalant, stupid upbringing, no brain and illitrate behaviour? Gosh, you irritate me. shut up and let's have a civilised discussion here if you don't have what to say, big for nothing fool. una dai fight before |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by Obinoscopy(m): 10:52am On Aug 09, 2012 |
All men are cheats (excluding myself), but some are more cheats than the other So ladies beware; I got ur back anyways |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by Sike(m): 11:15am On Aug 09, 2012 |
Sad but very true! |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by Truckpusher(m): 12:00pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
nkemmu: Men sef una don see ladies finish.wetin?must every lady marry?nah una dey picture des marriage like say nah heaven.now even ten year old gal won marry because of the way men dem dey yap spinters wey nova marry.the ones wey marry sm just won fulfil righteousness no be say dem happy for der.wetin?make una see life outside marriage nah!aaah!! See how ladies dey trow derselvs on men cos dey won marry.desperation everywere.children pregnancy everywer no be adult again.haba e don do abeg.we get oda aspects to in life aside marriage nah.our children no dey read now.primary one piki won get boyfriend same to the small boys.none won invent new tins or theories for life.una no dey see inteligent oyibo children?even if dem don spoil but dem get sometin for their brain. relationship everywere...we get technology,fashion,entreprenuer,carreer etc to improve on.no be only marriage nw aby dey go carry the husband go heaven?i don dey vex seffff.mcheeew!lazy marriage obsessed nigerians....Don't try to console yourself,i know your a spinster almost hitting ur late 30s and you don't believe what ur seeing(everybody dun run abi?,,, )...i really think you should use more of your time to encourage the younger ones instead of attacking the institution of marriage,i know that all marriages are not always rosy but there is nothing that hurts more like being single when your long overdue...believe me, it kills you from the inside. |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by Rapmoney(m): 1:53pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
nkemmu: Men sef una don see ladies finish.wetin?must every lady marry?nah una dey picture des marriage like say nah heaven.now even ten year old gal won marry because of the way men dem dey yap spinters wey nova marry.the ones wey marry sm just won fulfil righteousness no be say dem happy for der.wetin?make una see life outside marriage nah!aaah!! See how ladies dey trow derselvs on men cos dey won marry.desperation everywere.children pregnancy everywer no be adult again.haba e don do abeg.we get oda aspects to in life aside marriage nah.our children no dey read now.primary one piki won get boyfriend same to the small boys.none won invent new tins or theories for life.una no dey see inteligent oyibo children?even if dem don spoil but dem get sometin for their brain. relationship everywere...we get technology,fashion,entreprenuer,carreer etc to improve on.no be only marriage nw aby dey go carry the husband go heaven?i don dey vex seffff.mcheeew!lazy marriage obsessed nigerians. E be like say age don dey tell on u well well o! I sure say u go don clock 36 sha... |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by kaiye007: 2:01pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
nyere84: wit this ur comment..., I HATE U, witout knwing whom u re. Hw can u generalize all ladies luv moni?? Wat of a lady dat dated a guy 4 one nd half yrs, witout demanding 4 a penny 4 one day, because she has a job she is doing. Yet, he broke her hrt, he left her nd got married to a girl 4rm a wealthy home.(just because of money) Now, wat we will tell d guy?? Wat will u call him??Gold digger |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by Kelvinj(m): 3:07pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
nkemmu:LOL oh ok u were seeking attention so u had 2 lie...and now ur displaying ur real self and lying abt been married but ur first comment must showed that ur not. Well go learn hoe 2 lie more cos u just new in it. LMAO @ u involving my dad already fankasibe: Nice try bro but am doing good and FYI am happily married |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by Nobody: 3:16pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
Oxone: its stereotypes like "all men are dogs" & "all ladies are gold diggers" that ensures the vicious cycle of deceit between guys & ladies continues. one thing i've learnt over time is to never generalize/assume & to give everyone the benefit of doubt cos we sometimes find the best people in unexpected places. just my 2 cent@ Kelvin pls read the first line of this post and u will see why I don't consider your write up sensible enough. You are writing an open letter to Nigerian ladies, assuming that you know the reasons why they have not gotten married, Asking why they don't want a carpenter for a husband, Bla bla bla... Like someone said don't we guys generally get attracted to beautiful ladies? Why should a girl who prefers a successful man be seen as wrong. It is her damn choice to make, stop whining about it. There are numerous reasons why a woman might not get married ontime, its diverse and it differs from woman to another. Being rich or poor doesn't change the abusive nature of any man.... Please read and re read my first post and see what I said about relationship in general. Cos I can see u carefully avoided that post. Nigerian ladies like the guys are a product of their environment. We should stop blaming them for how they are and take responsibilities for our own actions. Just as women run after succesful guys isn't that how we guys run after very pretty women. Maybe u should write an open letter to guys also and for pete's sake stop generalizing... This is a public forum for crying out loud...... |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by toria1980(f): 3:45pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
this Africa mentality sucks. what does article 1 & 3 of the universal declaration of human right says if someone choose to live their life and u don't like it... go hug transformer i mean there are 1001 other girls out their whose life style suit ur kind... go make ur choice @kelvin. you spend ya time studying women u ill never graduate how is it ethically justified that women must do all to pleasing men.. then where is it written in the Bible that all women must marry screw you kelvin [color=#990000][/color] |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by Rapmoney(m): 3:56pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
toria1980: this Africa mentality sucks. No hating pls...we are all entitled to our diverse opinions. Why u dey insult d guy na? I dey suspect say you go don clock 38!!! 1 Like |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by bukatyne(f): 7:14pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
@OP: i like ur thoughtfulness towards Nigerian Ladies. however, just read several posts on NL where men defend d cheating of other men saying dat 'it's normal for men to cheat' etc and you would see where women get the idea that all men cheat. read the threads where men treat women like BS and u'll see why women are looking for the perfect man. check around and see how men dump wives who suffered wit them and marry young sweet 18 when they have arrived and u'll see why women want to marry rich men. although, i agree wit some of ur other pts. so men have a lot of things to do. the men that don't cheat, advice d ones that cheat. d ones that treat women like queens, talk to those that treat women like BS. those that appreciate women that support them when they lack, fish out those that dump them when they've arrived. so dear OP, if u want to see women change, u men need to step up ur game. |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by Abejimico(m): 7:35pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
Kelvinj: [b] You are just too correct man, LADIESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS, hope u girls are reading this koko tips, make una learn ooooooo |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by jarkata(m): 8:23pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
Guys nowadays don't approach ladies for marriage but only to satisfy their sexual urge and promiscuity but dump dem at their 30s and go for another fresh teen under 20s.guys don't want marriage with e go better,most guys are not doing well,no gud job |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by purplekayc(m): 8:56am On Aug 10, 2012 |
AmBeautiful: agreed! but you guys self no dey try! How nah |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by africaeagle(m): 9:48am On Aug 10, 2012 |
most ladies are lookin 4 guys dat have money na only ur mouth suger dey sweet? |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by africaeagle(m): 10:09am On Aug 10, 2012 |
most ladies are lookin 4 guys dat have money na only ur mouth suger dey sweet? Wetting dey sweet u Still dey sweet others too if the guy no hold and the girl hold na crime? Why are u deminding what u 4 sure know u can't afford from someone who u know he can't also so afford it? If he no get make u self give am make una smile together. |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by OILOFGLADNESS: 11:45am On Aug 10, 2012 |
@the poster @ all, the post is very good and i love it so well, She that have an ear let her hear. BUT I WANT TO POINT OUT ONETNING. " GUYS MUST THETRAP CATCHTHE FISH" GIRLS DRESS TO KILL TO ATTRACT YOU AND YOU KEPT ON PATRONIZING THEM. THE DECENT ONE YOU CALLED THEM TIMID AND "MGBEKE" WHEN A GIRL DRESSES AND SETTING TRAP FOR THE GUYS THE GUYS BECOME THE MEAT AND FELL TO THE TRAP. AND YET THEY WILL STILL GO BACK. TAKE YOUR EYES OFF THEM, EXHIBIT SELFCONTROL, STOP PATRONISING THEM. SOME GUYS WILL EVEN GET MAD ON THEIR HIL FRIEND WHEN THEY DRESS DECENT. LET US STPO DECEIVING OURSELF. YOU MAY SAY DEVIL TEMPTS YOU , BUTREMEMBER DEVIL WUILL ONLY TEMPT YOU WITH WHATYUO DESIRE. I ONCE WAS ADVICING A GIRL THAT SHE DRESSESSO WILD. SHETOLD ME THAT HER BOYFRIEND LOVES IT, THAT IS WHY SHE DRESSESS LIKE THAT. AND MOST OF THE CLOTH HE BOUGHT IT. GUYS STOP CRITISIZING THEM, YOU CAUSE. REPENT AND BE YE SAVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by MrOldskoolJP(m): 4:45pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
Kingsleyinfo: @topic Jeezzz dis guy na woman born I so? Wat a wonderful epistle,am swayed! I wish I knew u in person,I 4 dash u my sister(s) make I mari cos UR HEAD DEY THERE SURELY!! Big ups bro n may ur wisdom continue 2 multiply |
Re: Anonymous Letter To Nigerian Ladies by Cuddlemii: 4:12am On Aug 11, 2012 |
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