i think i am in the same position as you but the fact is ,guys don't really like to hear the truth so just keep him posted and who knows what might come out of it,at least guys do it to us too.

l have done all that was said. But it didn't work. Guys are you here make una tell me something, l need something that will work immediatly. not this ones that l hav been doing no show.

Guys l don't know whether u guys are hiding the deal becuase is your fellow guy.

Tell him to bugger off!

Hmn... this case na wah o!
goldenoc, u know wat i'll advice u?
dats wat i do to guys dat tend to give me tough time.
Change ur attitude completely towards him, maybe u've bn making him to feel at home around u, this time around let it show all over u dat U RE NOT INTERESTED! *Dont use abusive language o! because guys can b dangerous! u never can tell...
Just be cold towards him, show no interest in watever that concerns him, make him see himself d way he is (as an unwanted guest in ur life).
This time around no pity am jare! d guy go "bonne" u d next time he sees u.
Believe me, i've tried it, it works for me o!
goodluck

Introduce him to your boyfriend.

Definitely the best way by far. But if I was a girl, I won't say no to anybody unless the person was a devil. I won't say yes, but at the same time I won't say an outright "no" to anyone until I had a ring on my finger.

Hmm...but there are some people that you definitely know you can never ever go out with, even if they are the only men remaining in the whole world. So why waste time with such people?

IAH:

Introduce him to your boyfriend.

That's mean IAH You'll hurt the boy more!!

just follow ur heart my dear there r some pple that u just have to tell in a harsh way but if this guy is being unbearing try avoiding him totally. or do what u have to do.

The fact is that l don't want this guy to feel hurt much, Becuase he surfered for me when l was taking my G.C.E. although l did not invite him but he came on his own to help me.

So what ever l most do, l will not like to hurt him much.

In every relationship, u need to know why u are into it or u want to enter into it. d most important part is dat u MUST not go into a relationship because u felt PITY for d guy/girl (as d case maybe)
so my dear, for d fact dat he helped u out in ur G.C.E does not mean u shld consider him wen u know u dont really want to go out with him.
U dont ve to bother urself so much on this matter, go for if u like him, tell him u cant if u dont like him.

Dont ever date a guy because u pity him. else, u ll be in a mess

I agree with you, Aderonke, My cousin bears the same name as you

really? Well thats cool

thank God u agreed to dat. its gives me peace
and ur name is?

Zainab, nice to meet you

what a lovely name u ve!
its my pleasure knowing u babe

Aww,nice, thnx

read this, this was what i told a guy.

Razaq what d hell is wrong with u? what part of 'i am not interested' dont u understand? i wonder if u attended school in d evening, dt u cant even punctuate ur sentence or did they kidnap ur english teacher?

For d times i have not seen ur ugly face or hear ur horrible voice or ur scary movie physique, i have been doing perfect. so back off and for d purpose of informing ur dull mendulla oblongata im hooked 2 d guy of my dreams and i wont let u destroy what we have between us. alright go find a cheap slut who will be able 2 stand ur stinky guts and unpalatable dry sense of humuor. dont even think of thinking about coming 2 see me @ my end alright?bye dog. BONE HEAD.

hello. This was wat i told a guy that was pesterin me.
And by that time i dont think i even had a guy but i just did not want him or think of goin out with him. Girl, if you tell him that u got a guy and he doesnt back off, then he probebly wants smthing else from u.
And do you know wat he never came my way again. so Baby you can do same. Just tell him off.

@ snowsdream
dat was too harsh, i'm sure that will definitely hurt d guy! why not tell us how we can go about it without hurting d poor "thing"

snowsdream your suggestion is ok, but l think Aderonke is right we want a way to do it so that the guy will not feel the hurt much, although he must be hurt but let it not be much.

I agree with Goldenoc

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l want him fed up by himself let it not be me who throws him off.

That might not work!

hey i dont agree with seun who is saying if u r not married anything can happen if u dont tell them away angela k says it allsome r just there for ur pants and when they clear this fantasy wooop they become history even if u dont carer bout ur pants how many will u take

Rejection sucks. There simply is no way to give bad news nicely.

whether he helped or not dosent mean a thing u just tell him u have no place for him if he has the head he will be off

Tell him that you'll date him when the sun turns cold ))

chrisd:

Tell him that you'll date him when the sun turns cold ))

some suitors r nt sincere ab-initio.

Telling them No might really nt mean anytin to them ,might just b ur God saved u 4rm his trap.

Just change ur attitude towards him, to an unpleasant one. Tell him u can't date him & be firm about it. no joke, don't watch out for reactions. Be firm.

A lady can tell if she actually would never need a particular kind of guy, so why not lay him off.

the thing is girls should learn to tell the truth. most times we say no wen our body is sayin yes and in a bid to not ''put all our egs in one basket'',we feel that every guy has a chance and should not be put off.i think we should not be saying yes and no at the same time.if u dont like the guy dont even hang out with him. thats the way he wont get hurt.

u here some guys say she made me get used to her??
she really hurt me,
meanwhile u feel like u ve done nothing bad.