My friend Nedu works with a multi-national engineering firm in PH.He got the job soon after we graduated and has been doing well,really.Nedu had proposed to Wechi,a graduate of mass communication from UNIPORT who is trying her hands on acting.My friend does not like that and had warned the girl to stop that he was able to care for her and also promised to set up a business for her or get her a well paying job.Last month he saw her pic with some really funny attire on a poster.And that was the end.All our pleas to let him see reason is not yielding any fruit.Is this enough reason to call off a proposal?

Yes is enough because he made it clear to her from day one!

It sure is enough reason cos,a lady who cant listen to her man and still go ahead doing what will be detrimental to their relationship is sure not worth a keep.

The guy can go hang himself. So she should not purse her dreams abi?
Msheeeew

intrepid: My friend Nedu works with a multi-national engineering firm in PH.He got the job soon after we graduated and has been doing well,really.Nedu had proposed to Wechi,a graduate of mass communication from UNIPORT who is trying her hands on acting.My friend does not like that and had warned the girl to stop that he was able to care for her and also promised to set up a business for her or get her a well paying job.Last month he saw her pic with some really funny attire on a poster.And that was the end.All our pleas to let him see reason is not yielding any fruit.Is this enough reason to call off a proposal?

Was he actually in love with her??

djeezy: Was he actually in love with her??

Did you have to quote the long post? We all know any post here is related to the topic... Smart phones, dumb people

Yes its enough. Not because the girl disobeyed, but because their ideas are incompatible.

xtrafly:
Did you have to quote the long post? We all know any post here is related to the topic... Smart phones, dumb people

lolol. I like.

Mynd_44: The guy can go hang himself. So she should not purse her dreams abi?
Msheeeew

my thoughts exactly

Mynd_44: The guy can go hang himself. So she should not purse her dreams abi?
Msheeeew

why did she not back off when the guy raised the issue before the proposal. She should have told him she prefers pursuing her dreams to being with him na. I think the guy is very right to call off the relationship.

Theben:
why did she not back off when the guy raised the issue before the proposal. She should have told him she prefers pursuing her dreams to being with him na. I think the guy is very right to call off the relationship.

Fine he should go. They are not comparable anyway

they obviously have different priorities.
Its okay to go their separate ways!

The guy obviously wants a wife that has no dream/ambition. I bet if the girl was at genevieve's level na him go dey chase her...he shld leave her for her sake so she can achieve her dreams...(even though i'm not in support of body exposure in the name of acting)

^^^^^

This is not to do with curtailed female ambition but simply disparities in what is considered acceptable behaviour or occupation.

As a woman, how comfortable will you be, having your hubby working as a male escort? Not admittedly raunchy but leaves the opportunity, nonetheless.

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djeezy: Was he actually in love with her??

Your definition of love matters.

He doesnt love her

Infact they dont love each other,obviously. . .so whats d point