I have been ask one too many times what I do , when I am being introduced to a lady, if a guy ask you that, you feel very comfortable answering, when a lady does that, you feel different like she's interested in your funds/ what you can offer and not you? So why do you ladies ask that and what does it really mean? Sincerely....

Different ladies,different reasons...to initiate a conversation
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laberry101: I have been ask one too many times what I do , when I am being introduced to a lady, if a guy ask you that, you feel very comfortable answering, when a lady does that, you feel different like she's interested in your funds/ what you can offer and not you? So why do you ladies ask that and what does it really mean? Sincerely....

People generally ask each other that out of curiosity, so don't read too much into it.

nayra: Different ladies,different reasons...to initiate a conversation
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I agree...Most times they ask to really know,some times they ask to keep the convo going and few times,they ask as a way to get acquainted and knw u better.

Yield: People generally ask each other that out of curiosity, so don't read too much into it.

Curiosity? Yes I agree with that part, but this one no just join curiosity...

binger: I agree...Most times they ask to really know,some times they ask to keep the convo going and few times,they ask as a way to get acquainted and knw u better.

What convo.... Keeping a convo, then that question should be like 15 to 30mins after meeting and chatting! Not the first thing she says after you have been the one talking the whole time.

I ask because I want to know. I would like to know how they manage their time.

Why do some guys read too much meaning to almost everything?

Dreystar: Why do some guys read too much meaning to almost everything?

You think it's too much meaning ? Well it isn't, if not I won't be asking" sincerely", now! Would I?
Anyways, from the looks of things , this is what it could really mean if y'all are not galant enough to say it out here,
1: bcox you want to know what he's really into, true.

2: if he would be able to take care of you, should you stay with him, or date him.
3: you don't want a broke ass for a partner, so you ask just so your decision wouldn't be something you end up regreting.
4: you no want suffer jor... Ladies love the soft life, Abi na lie?

But, truth is, no man really want a woman who outta being curious , or what you want us (guys) to believe are your reasons for asking, makes a curious/ keeping the convo simple question , sound like you aren't interested in Him but his funds or what he can offer you.
Seriously ladies , make him feel comfortable telling you anything... Not like you wan carry the small one when dey run. Shuwooooo!!!!!

And I still very much hate it...lolz