Let me explain.say you're talking with someone who you want to enter a relationship with,and she's not exactly feeling you.then she asks the question above.what does that mean exactly?the question also comes after a disagreement between 2 people who have feelings for each other,the 2 examples where in my last relationship
just want to learn if there's anything attached to it.

WebMonk:

say you're talking with someone who you want to enter a relationship with,and she's not exactly feeling you.then she asks the question above.what does that mean exactly?

She needs u to hurry up wid d lyrics so she can drop d nail and move on fast. guys have a way of puttin 2 lives in the "pause" mode when all they do is ramble.

I detest it when a guy doesn't seem to know what he wants.
If a lady tells you that, it simply means you aren't saying anything. You need to stop blabbing and start talking.

It also shows you are indecisive. I can't stand that in guys at all.

It means tell me what you really want, stop playing around.

hit the nail!

Why these harsh words?i asked this question cause i told her my mind.i wanted a relationship. Maybe my post was not clear and thus you think i'm wasn't decisive.isn't it plain enough? Yeesh.
I'm asking this question because it doesn't make sense to me for a girl to ask this question and when i really tell her what's on my mind,she says it's ok(incase i need to tell you,the feelings were mutual eventually), then fast forward some weeks later she starts acting all busy and cold. I don't have time for games.so stop the 'i can't stand indecisive men' rant.that's not how to answer a question.