FRANKLINTON:

Hehehe. Poster, if Amadioha is watching u, u better do the right thing cus he no dey smile at all

Sorry but who is he?

Dumping is dumping... Until people learn that sex is for marriage only heartbreaks will never cease to happen. That he had s-ex with her is not a criteria for marriage.

Foolish fellow. Ask google

Come on guys, am not confused and am not having sex with her "cos" That, i have stopped some months back. I know deep down she's not my wife because am the one that knows where it hurts and can't go into details now cos it a whole lot of story. No matter what, i can't marry her because of self pity. That will be the biggest mistake i will ever make. I only started this story because i need a better way to handle this situation because to her, am the best guy she has ever know. I remain the only can that made her what she is today. In fact, i put her back on track cos wen i met her, she was completely off track with lots of abnormalities in her life. I corrected all even made her take a job and started a part time program of which she just rounded up her OND. The only person that has talked reasonably here is IVYNWA and very few others. The rest guys are just blabbing without first understanding the topic at hand. Scheduling leaving her by DEC is just my own decision. Not like i told her that. I only seek for answers from those that really and truly understand whats at steak here.

Guy move on. You already know what to do.

If you are not confused or serious about leaving her, leave her now. What wait until December? Seems to me like you are giving her time to change as you still see hope for the two of you

[quote author=kckingsin]Come on guys, am not confused and am not having sex with her "cos" That, i have stopped some months back. I know deep down she's not my wife because am the one that knows where it hurts and can't go into details now cos it a whole lot of story. No matter what, i can't marry her because of self pity. That will be the biggest mistake i will ever make. I only started this story because i need a better way to handle this situation because to her, am the best guy she has ever know. I remain the only can that made her what she is today. In fact, i put her back on track cos wen i met her, she was completely off track with lots of abnormalities in her life. I corrected all even made her take a job and started a part time program of which she just rounded up her OND. The only person that has talked reasonably here is IVYNWA and very few others. The rest guys are just blabbing without first understanding the topic at hand. Scheduling leaving her by DEC is just my own decision. Not like i told her that. I only seek for answers from those that really and truly understand whats at steak here.[/quote
] So what if you made her something? The thing is you both got something out of the relationship. So stop acting like u are God's gift to her. Just tell her its over instead of giving her ultimatums.

kckingsin: When you tell a girl you can't marry her and she refuses to go or find her way, what do you do to her because in this case, i really don't want to make her feel like i have broken her heart by forcing my way out of the relationship and secondly, she's an orphan. WoT do i do people because deep down me, i really don't want to hurt her but i keep telling her we can't be together and have decided to call the whole thing off by DECEMBER so as to make way for the right person to step in. But she has refused to let go. TELL ME GUYS, WHAT DO I DO WITHOUT FORCING MYSELF OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP.

tell us the real gist!
then we would tell!

*****muttering******!

@OP:give us a briefing as to why you can't marry her. Afterall, we don't know her, so no one will do gbeborun. You never can tell if our own ideas will count in making it work cos you have not communicated at all. And if you still insist you won't say the reason, cannot marry her for heaven knows why, also sticking to your plans of calling it off by December, I'll suggest Mods close this thread. *eyes rolling*