Busy_body:

Yay, look what the cat dragged in

Okay I am being serious here, I need career advise and career change and some recommendation from you (disclaimer I don't have to take it, so be gentle with my fragile self) -


Here it goes - I know my limits and know I don't "think", so do you "think" I will make an excellent assistant/sidekick to you when you resume work as NL's resident Psychotherapist!

I need to belong I was debarred from joining the cabal, I was excluded from the prestigious lists of those conferred with monikers llike Ndi ara, Puppet, spitfire, etc, and now you can see Ivynwa trying to form her own clique too. She has successfully gotten Kobojunkie to join, and is about to rope Tpia in, yet their is no mention of me getting a membership Am I gonna be stuck in this busybody career rut forever Are you ready to give me a job as your assistant so I can carve my niche, at your feet of course (Richvkunt will be honoured to supply a character respect in that regard so you can see for yourself that I know my place as a woman. . .) Am I projecting yet or do you think its the yabaleft pills letting me down and a head shrink would be better, or a brain surgeon for brain replacement . . .

Busy_body: ^^^

Sheath your sword and retract your claws and fangs. Has anyone/can anyone ever stop Kobojunkie from spitting inanities Abeg roll on with your fine self jare, nothing do you. . .





Yay, look what the cat dragged in

Okay I am being serious here, I need career advise and career change and some recommendation from you (disclaimer I don't have to take it, so be gentle with my fragile self) -


Here it goes - I know my limits and know I don't "think", so do you "think" I will make an excellent assistant/sidekick to you when you resume work as NL's resident Psychotherapist!

I need to belong I was debarred from joining the cabal, I was excluded from the prestigious lists of those conferred with monikers llike Ndi ara, Puppet, spitfire, etc, and now you can see Ivynwa trying to form her own clique too. She has successfully gotten Kobojunkie to join, and is about to rope Tpia in, yet their is no mention of me getting a membership Am I gonna be stuck in this busybody career rut forever Are you ready to give me a job as your assistant so I can carve my niche, at your feet of course (Richvkunt will be honoured to supply a character respect in that regard so you can see for yourself that I know my place as a woman. . .) Am I projecting yet or do you think its the yabaleft pills letting me down and a head shrink would be better, or a brain surgeon for brain replacement . . .

debrief08: Madam BB abeg oh. Lol. Abeg forgive and forget, old things haff pass away tay tay.


Madam Flower, I am married and I say that is silly advice. There is no place for silly games and scheming in a good marriage.

maclatunji:

You are a real piece of work.

Busy_body:


Have you finished accosting Ivynwa who dredged this up FIRST?

Didn't you also see my agreement with Kobojunkie that Flower's comment was out of line!

Abeg, free me oh, na only my Chemistry "for every ACTION there is a REACTION", er. . .ahem. . . STATE & CAPITAL assignment I dey do biko.





Olopa, ewo nti epe. Analyse "me" is all I have just said oh

debrief08: Hia, Inwvya Matter, hmmm, no matter wetin you talk e dey end for "because I am not married, amrried women on nairaland are evil and against me"
I don talk that one before on the last thread wey she start with madam CC, I no go repeat am again. How do you define yourself by your marital status? Person like me for don commit suicide na?

Busy_body:


This is it. Now you are talking. She is going round spreading stories that this family section and the cabals have formed a clique and act like they own NL, and non married people are not allowed a say, hence reason she lashed out at CC and Uju that day.

This fallacious and wicked campaign of Ivynwa is propagating here all I am trying to address.

Ivynwa:
! I was even chatting and commenting on that her post with beautiful respect and sisterly warmth only to get some "you are not married" attitude. Nne mehn-n-n-n, na wao-o-o

Ivynwa:





Kobo did you read my mind? I also went WTFr*ak on reading that. . I mean how can an adult think that that theory stated there is a perfect detective tool in this case. Even a teenager that is not up to the marriageable age can see through the loophole in that theory so one doesn't need to be married to see that.

Pray what is wrong with some Nigerian married women that makes them think that their world is rosier than that of the single women, that they are better(while the single women are worthless) and that they 've got plenty gold medals weighing down their arm muscles for having husbands? . I saw one saying the unprintables to Tpiah the other day and I shook my head at this very inferior mentality that is racking some of our people. I mean can a human being be so short in esteem/dignity as to be telling another human "I have got a man on my arms and that makes me better than you". They make me laugh hard when they start displaying their "You ain't in my class" and their "Get out of this place, we own the internet" when they know nothing about how the internet got innovated.

How can women be giving this rotten, smelly,ignorant mgbeke attitude to their fellow women like "all unmarried women are worthless without husbands". You can't find a man behaving like that which is why I relate better with men, we womenfolk are something else walahi. Aren't they funny without knowing how much? Ridiculous! WTFr*ak! I was even chatting and commenting on that her post with beautiful respect and sisterly warmth only to get some "you are not married" attitude. Nne mehn-n-n-n, na wao-o-o

Kobojunkie:

Please don't play that "I am married so I know better than those who are not married" card here. That suggestion of yours is pretty lame. I mean you don't even have to be married to know that it would not work with everyone, especially those who have INTELLIGENT minds and are able to think with their brains.

maclatunji:

That's exactly what my analysis says. Ahn! Ahn!! You women don't help yourselves at all. Later, you will be talking of how bad men are.

maclatunji:

Ok! Fair enough, but can you address it in a constructive manner?

Ujujoan: ^^^ You sef be real busy bodi! See as you go bold that part for emphasis! Lmao

Busy_body:

Am I a "work" of art or a "work" in progress?

Its a man's world and the man is the head so since we are the weaker sex, this automatically absolves us of any blame and shifts all the blame on men, capisce






Huh, address Ivynwa who "openly" claims she is too classy to involve in fights yet "openly" recruits people to come and fight us and "openly" throws a strop and hissyfit that her minions are laughing and joking with us instead of fighting us like she commanded them I have advised her about admonishing with love and to desist from her gutter behaviour approach of cackling like a witch screaming like a wild banshee for someone to be burnt in the market square, but she is set in her ways. . .




She wants to be a martyr. She so badly wants to punch her fist in the air hollering @"yay, I Ivynwa, has singlehandedly made this family section safe so come one, come all and come and behold the wondrous miracle that I Ivynwa wrought with my hand, when I Ivynwa took on the mighty force that is the family section mafia and cabals and brought them to their knees and banished them from Nairaland. . ."But God pass her. And to think she is 37 years old, damn.

Maclatunji, perhaps you have found your first client, so over to you Dr Mac

Busy_body:

Am I a "work" of art or a "work" in progress?

Its a man's world and the man is the head so since we are the weaker sex, this automatically absolves us of any blame and shifts all the blame on men, capisce






Huh, address Ivynwa who "openly" claims she is too classy to involve in fights yet "openly" recruits people to come and fight us and "openly" throws a strop and hissyfit that her minions are laughing and joking with us instead of fighting us like she commanded them I have advised her about admonishing with love and to desist from her gutter behaviour approach of cackling like a witch screaming like a wild banshee for someone to be burnt in the market square, but she is set in her ways. . .




She wants to be a martyr. She so badly wants to punch her fist in the air hollering @"yay, I Ivynwa, has singlehandedly made this family section safe so come one, come all and come and behold the wondrous miracle that I Ivynwa wrought with my hand, when I Ivynwa took on the mighty force that is the family section mafia and cabals and brought them to their knees and banished them from Nairaland. . ."But God pass her. And to think she is 37 years old, damn.

Maclatunji, perhaps you have found your first client, so over to you Dr Mac

How can women be giving this rotten, smelly,ignorant mgbeke attitude to their fellow women like "all unmarried women are worthless without husbands". You can't find a man behaving like that which is why I relate better with men, we womenfolk are something else walahi. Aren't they funny without knowing how much? Ridiculous! WTFr*ak! I was even chatting and commenting on that her post with beautiful respect and sisterly warmth only to get some "you are not married" attitude. Nne mehn-n-n-n, na wao-o-o

debrief08: Oga Mac quit it abeg, middle ground indeed. Deal with your own petiness first.
You who likes to jump into fights and add petrol. Spare me jor. You wey when person differs in oppinion with you, you start behaving worse than a market woman, na you wan do middle ground

debrief08: Oga Mac quit it abeg, middle ground indeed. Deal with your own petiness first.
You who likes to jump into fights and add petrol. Spare me jor. You wey when person differs in oppinion with you, you start behaving worse than a market woman, na you wan do middle ground

maclatunji:

LOL. You ladies have been referring to a particular thread, is it recent? Look, you all are really wonderful people with good hearts. Tell me, what will it take for both "sides" to stop what is transforming into this "eternal" back and forthing?

You don't have to be giddy about each other but at least tolerate yourselves.

Let's try and make that happen. There's no point denying that what is going on between you all is negative and unproductive.

Ivynwa is someone I can also reachout to. So, I am hopeful that you all can find "middle ground".

You said "everything" wrong is men's fault. OK, I have agreed. Now, let men try and correct/reverse the problem/conflict.

#Serious #NabegIbeg

maclatunji:

Really? Let's talk about it openly. You see where some of these problems come from- too many hidden grudges.

debrief08: Grudges ke? Not me jare. All I am saying is someone who finds it hard to understand and accept that other living, breathing thinking beings can hold an oppinion different from him without resorting to "personality attacks" should not come and be attempting to play middle ground for people who differ in oppinions.
All of us have different values, oppinions and upbringing that is how God made it, hence_ different oppinion, if you cannot disagree without tearing shirt then when others are disagreeing don't come and form hero

chaircover:

Actually this week alone I beleive Ive caught you twice adding petrol OK maybe kerosene (since petrol is scarce these days to fire) and I am not one to keep a long history.

I dont beleive that you dont know when this latest ding dong started cos that thread was rather active and spanned a few pages but just in case you dont know it was the Psalm23 thread.

I try not to say much when threads become "hot" because I am mindful that it may further escalate things which serves no benefit. I have also found that sometimes coming in and asking people to take things easy can have the opposite effect. Look at it this way, the more you post in a thread, the more it stays on the first page and the more likelihood that people click into it and more yawa go blow. So right now I am guilty but I need to get things across to you this time.

I saw ivy's post this morning but once again I decided to ignore her. I also saw a sly remark on the my husband is cheating thread but thankfully people chose to ignore it too. Personally I think she is a drama queen and there really is no room for drama queens on here; its got nothing to do with being married or not. This section has been and will continue to be one of the most mature sections on Nairaland and if we all behaved like drama queens, there wont be anyone left here. Like BB said, we have all fallen out at one time or other but we understand that it is just a clash of ideas and not a clash of people and we get over it and move onto the next thing. . . . That is maturity and that is the real world.

chaircover:

Actually this week alone I beleive Ive caught you twice adding petrol OK maybe kerosene (since petrol is scarce these days to fire) and I am not one to keep a long history.

I dont beleive that you dont know when this latest ding dong started cos that thread was rather active and spanned a few pages but just in case you dont know it was the Psalm23 thread.

I try not to say much when threads become "hot" because I am mindful that it may further escalate things which serves no benefit. I have also found that sometimes coming in and asking people to take things easy can have the opposite effect. Look at it this way, the more you post in a thread, the more it stays on the first page and the more likelihood that people click into it and more yawa go blow. So right now I am guilty but I need to get things across to you this time.

I saw ivy's post this morning but once again I decided to ignore her. I also saw a sly remark on the my husband is cheating thread but thankfully people chose to ignore it too. Personally I think she is a drama queen and there really is no room for drama queens on here; its got nothing to do with being married or not. This section has been and will continue to be one of the most mature sections on Nairaland and if we all behaved like drama queens, there wont be anyone left here. Like BB said, we have all fallen out at one time or other but we understand that it is just a clash of ideas and not a clash of people and we get over it and move onto the next thing. . . . That is maturity and that is the real world.