omobabaolowo:
I am very curious about knowing,the love lives of chubby ladies,i for one,am a chubby girl,quite pretty cos people do tell me that i have a pretty face,but one problem,ve always had is the fact,that i dont get as much attention as my friends,do,which has really affected,my self-esteem,there has never been a situation whereby guys will see me and my friends and opt.for me,instead they usually go after my friends,and even those that go after me,when they see my friends,they start tripping for them and go after them,and stop chasing,me,the one that even really got to me is recently,that i met a guy,we later became friends and started talking,on the fone,after a while we started dating and we had sex,all through the sex,all he kept telling me was,i need to lose weight,i was quite embarrassed but did not show it.My chubbiness is affecting my self-esteem and sometimes makes me feel am not worthy to be in a relationship and have sex,cos the guy woul eventually lose interest cos of my weight..Ve tried many ways in loosing weight,which i often lose but end up adding again,so i just wanna know on nairaland,if other chubby ladies out there,also feel the way,that i feel about their size,in their relationships and in finding love

Idowuogbo:
O fe better pa ni? U no see d journal u write give am? I can bet my g-string, d poster sabi knack pass all dis Panla looking gals.

Dyt: Pls note dat bein chubby aint fat?
Do u mean 2 say u are fat?
I am chubby n sexy
Stop throwin ursef at men, dey r nt worth cryin ova
Build up ur self esteem, kip fit if u v 2
Don't let any negro mk u sad

2sa2: Its just that they always look too clumsy. And to carry them eh, na wahala. Why do they always have big stomach?

Baawaa:
Do u fat more than PRINCESS No,so why are worrying yourself!!Joke aside princess dont believe the guy will wait but the guy really love her with her stature.You are the one that need to compose yourself in-order not to get into wrong man,that will use as size as excuse after feeding fat on you.

donfineboi:


Wetin be your own? E dey pain u?
Abeg help me see wahala ooo

When u hve ur own online forum make ur own restrictions. Ok bro?

sinmisolaoluwa: I NEED TO REMIND U THAT "BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER",IF U THINK OTHER GUYS ARE TRYING TO AVOID U JST because U ARE CHUBBY AS U HAD RIGHTLY SAID,THEN IT MEANS THEY DON'T DESERVE YOU.U DNT HAVE TO ALLOW ANYTHN TO BATTER YR SELF-ESTEEM BY MAKING YOUN FEEL U ARE UNWANTED. MAYB U DNT KNOW DT THERE ARE 1001 GUYZ OUT DR LOOKING FOR YR TYPE,AND WILLING TO DO EVRYTHN TO GET YR LOVE. AM SAYING DS because I KNOW OF SOMEONE THAT DS ISSUE HAS PSYCOLOGICALLY AFFECTED,AND IF U DNT DEAL WITH DT THOUGHT,THE DEVIL CAN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT TO TAUNT U DAY AND NITE. U ARE WONDERFULLY AND FEARFULLY MADE BY GOD AND U ARE AN EPITOME OF BEAUTY.DNT LET SOME PPLE MAKE U FEEL UNWANTED,LOOK YRSELF IN A MIRROR AND TELL YRSELF DT U ARE BEAUTIFULL,AND U WILL START SEEING TJE RESULTS.
ABOVE ALL,PRAY TO GOD TO CHOOSE D MAN DT WILL LOVE YOU FOR WHO U ARE FOR YOU. GOD BLESS YOU.

Clit_Dah_Cunt: i love fat flabby puzzies.

warm, moist and soft flabby vulvas and huge clitz

Cherish100: I'm a chubby and very attractive young woman. Well,I can't remember an instance where I was with a skinny girl and she was more preferred, so to speak. I think its because I'm confident in myself. You can't intimidate me with your looks, however you are. Instead I'll admire you and we move on. I've been in a few relationships and my weight hasn't been a problem. Besides, I have no problem with people commenting on my weight. Infact, before you bring it up, I must have mentioned it. Sometimes, people call me chubby, plumpy, thick, fat...blah blah blah. I now see it as a compliment. My boyfriend loves me for me and instead of complaining when I add weight, we discuss on how to shed it. Don't forget there're some people who've tried all they can to add weight but have been unsuccessful. I walk with my head high, knowing that I'm pretty and plump. So my dear friends, just love yourself and if people can't love you the way u are, its their problem.

Baawaa:
Do u fat more than PRINCESS No,so why are worrying yourself!!Joke aside princess dont believe the guy will wait but the guy really love her with her stature.You are the one that need to compose yourself in-order not to get into wrong man,that will use as size as excuse after feeding fat on you.

Baawaa:
Do u fat more than PRINCESS No,so why are worrying yourself!!Joke aside princess dont believe the guy will wait but the guy really love her with her stature.You are the one that need to compose yourself in-order not to get into wrong man,that will use as size as excuse after feeding fat on you.

Sweetlemon: Hmmmmmm
Dear OP, and all other plus size ladies here, I'm going to be very frank and practical with you as I believe that is the best approach to issues like this.
Now dear. Let me ask you these questions;
1. Do you like being overweight irrespective of wether or not you have a serious bf?
2. Why do you want a boyfriend?

If your answer to my 1st question is yes, then I will advice you to love your body and learn how to dress your size. Wear clothes to fit and compliment your body perfectly. If you are not sure how to go about it, please google "dress styles for plus size women" or dress styles for apple shaped women" (if you are apple shaped) wearing the right kinds of clothes will make you look mpre attractive.
If the answer to the question is no, and you wish for a slimmer body, then by all means hit the gym ASAP! Loose that body fat fast so you can bring out the woman you wish to be. Do not loose focus or give up until you get to your desired weigh so you can start loving yourself again. The truth is that for women generally, self esteem starts from the outside! A woman has to love her looks before she can start loving herself.

That's the physical approach to solving your problem. Now let's tackle the psychological approach.

Why do you want a boyfriend? If it's because you just need someone to be lavishing compliments on you, hold you, kiss you, warm you up, spend on you, and so you can convince yourself that you are desireable, then sorry, you are not ready for a relationship yet as you will only be attracting the wrong guys who will just want to take advantage of you.
No man will love and appreciate you until you learn to love yourself. Reason being that men are programed to act the way you allow them to and most guys get bored and tired of things that do not excite them.
Wait patiently (trust me I know how hard it is) to find a guy who will love and cherish the woman that's in you. While you are waiting, it is important that you use to opportunity to work on your inner self. Do away with envy, back bitting, gossips, rudeness, and all such vices which some ladies are notorious for. Replace them with friendliness and cheerfulness. Learn to have a mind of your own.

After following all these baby,you will be ready to paint the town red with your new love! Congratz in advance!

alvin000: I am really in need of sexy and beautiful chubby babe.
I am right now in bonny camp victoria Island Lagos any interested girl who is ready to be in relationship should contact me. I am 5.7ft in height n weighing just 64kg with athlete body. Am a muslim but religion is not a factor in relationship. Here is my bb pin 2296fbd7 of send an email to ssk_melo@yahoo.com thanks

odeebee: Chubby abuja galz Ɣ☺ΰ can add M̶̲̅ε̲̣ up @ 220C11DF let's kip it going. aм̣̣̥̇̊ 6.5 ft tall aπϑ Ǥōōd.

laylow001: To all girls who die for zero figure, remember real men go for curves, only dogs go for bones.

SLIDE waxie: dude, nairaland corner dey dt side
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Go siddon for corner, abeg.
People dey talk reason, u dey display ur 'kiddeous' instinct. MUMU.

JallowBah: http://fuckyeahchubbyfashion.tumblr.com/

Take a look here as well. Anything from a little bit chubby, to damn overweight..still, most of them look daaamn nice.

And what the hell do you intend doing with the entire chubby ladies, if they venture adding you?

You aren't even seeking A chubby girl, but CHUBBY GIRLS. Wanna satisfy your sensual drive crazily and inappropriately,abi?