@Poster, your list suggests to me that you and your girlfriend are not serious at all. The last thing you two need, if you both truly believe that your parents are as big of a problem for your relationship(at your age), is a relationship. You two are probably not mature enough to be married to each other. @Poster, maybe you need to break up with your girlfriend and find for yourself a girl who properly fits that which you can handle.

I mean not all men are brave enough to stand up for love. In this case, the obstacles against your relationship seems bigger than both of you i.e. you two are not mature enough to handle a serious relationship with this particular set of obstacles. So you probably want to find for yourself persons who will give you an easier list to handle in love.

thanks to all that contributed to this topic,, we are indeed greatful

i pray and hop that God will bless you for your words and advice to us!!!!

Listen and listen well same thing happen to me and i married the guy we no do wedding but we go registry and we married each other and abandon parent it is true parent is something in someones life but try to call your girl and know if the guy is not run away bride maybe she want to use you to get out of the hot zone which is her home little is enough.

Guy hv u done ur own prayers. Or ur being pushed around wit blind love. anyway dat aside, u nid to go talk it ova wit her parents. Make them see reasons why u want to marry their daughter. If they insist, leave their daughter alone. Its not by force. As for ur girl, she will cope after some time. I am a catholic married to a penticostal. At first my parents didn't abide the idea but I did my home work. Let ur gal do her home work and stop crying like a child

ifyalways: Your girl is a cry baby and you rant too much. 10 points agenda this morning ontop what kwanu?

Move to romance section please, afterall you guys are still on the "romance stage" .

This is a thoughtless, pointless and insensitive comment. One would be inclined to assume that something sensible could escape your brain but one would be wrong.

ogepure: Guy hv u done ur own prayers. Or ur being pushed around wit blind love. anyway dat aside, u nid to go talk it ova wit her parents. Make them see reasons why u want to marry their daughter. If they insist, leave their daughter alone. Its not by force. As for ur girl, she will cope after some time. I am a catholic married to a penticostal. At first my parents didn't abide the idea but I did my home work. Let ur gal do her home work and stop crying like a child

They wouldnt give me a chance to talk with them

faporori24: Listen and listen well same thing happen to me and i married the guy we no do wedding but we go registry and we married each other and abandon parent it is true parent is something in someones life but try to call your girl and know if the guy is not run away bride maybe she want to use you to get out of the hot zone which is her home little is enough.

is like you dont get me,, she love me and i love,, we are not using our selves for selfish reason,, its true love.

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