i am in 12yrs relationship and my boyfriend still womanise and promising marriage in 2010. please advice.

Humanise? 

14 years? 

Wonders they say shall never end. 

14years RELATIONSHIP not marriage . you get time and strength ohhhh.
why won't your boyfriend womanize when he knows he's got a dummy who would bear every shit that is thrown her way. wakeup from your slumber and move on.

If the guy has not made up his mind about you for the last 13 years, trust me he is not gonna do so. so stop wasting your time on someone who is not worth it.

No hard feelings just the truth.

smallworld:

i am in 14yrs old relationship and my boyfriend still humanise,please advice.

Just tell me why he wont womanise when you are not educated,HUMANISE or womanise?Try to go back to school may be he'll want to stick with u.It's lack of education that made u stayed with a guy for 14 years without marriage.14 whole years!!!. .Wondering how old u are

@ Smallworld
You talk sey na 14 years relationship you dey and your boyfriend still humanize, na wao, me I no fit talk anytin for here, dis one pass me.

If the guy has not made up his mind about you for the last 13 years, trust me he is not going to do so. so stop wasting your time on someone who is not worth it.
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TRUE TALK,

NOW, [color=#770077][/color]14YRS, BABE, U TRY,
PLS tell us for real, how old r u, abi u started dating him wen u were 9??

wonders shl never end

You are mad!! 14 yrs and he have not married u and u are still talking about womanising, if to say una born pikin 14yrs ago the pikin for don enter secondary skool. Dont you have vision for ur life, how on earth will u date a man for 14yrs and u guys are not married yet,or is he taking care of ur entire community, so till he finishes b4 u guys marry? Good luck in your ambition.

wat type of human being be this safe.

I take it that you meant 'womanize'

But 14 years relationship is tooooooo long girl

Why won't he womanize? He has browsed you tire And yet no commitment

Sounds bad.

Na only him dey this world sef?!

e be like say u no know wetin u want.
after 14 yrs u still dey do boyfriend/girlfriend.
forget that guy

smallworld:

i am in 14yrs old relationship and my boyfriend still humanise,please advice.

14 yrs is no childs play,ur guy still playing around is a thing of d mind/blood,if he really loves u & wants to marry u,he would not b sleeping around with other girls till now,secondly,if u ve bn truely faithful 2 him 4 d 14yrs den i will say u move b4 he moves u

Hmm!! how old you are? Is he your FIRST BOYFRIEND?  Does your boyfriend have a job or is he a student?

Have you and your boyfriend sit down discussing deeper about FUTURE PLAN to get married and have children?

14 year relationship is F**KING TOO LONG!

I strongly believe that on the following below:

(1) Your boyfriend is not into you,

(2) he does not seriously committed to you in the name of marriage,

(3) he plays you to pretend claiming that he does really love you,

(4) he uses you,

(5) he is smooth-talker, slick talker,

(6) he asks you to borrow money, money, money, and finally. . .

(7) he does not love you. PERIOD!

A womanizer is ALWAYS A CHEATER, constant player! I think you must be clingy to hold your FIRST BOYFRIEND too long that you not able to let him go!!!!

u sure sey u no dey lie? wat kind of relationship is dat? if na so, u sef just contact me. am available

Is a pity! Your story is pathetic. What a girl abi old girl-lady you are. Please continue nothing spoils. HUMANISE

Hey poor girl,

two questions ;

1. Has he been sleeping with u for 14 years ?
2. Did he disvirgin you ?
3. are your parents aware of your 14years fools' pretense ?

If your answers are yes , you qualify for the record of the 21st century world's most foolish lover ; your parents have been very unfair to you especially ; and the guy has just played a 14 years all win game with your heart ; except you immediately get a way of proving him wrong .

I wonder if you ever can have a 10days happy marriage with him if you eventually get him .

sorry for yourself but Wise up little Dom .

danoba

o girl,i realy pity u ooooooooooooo.

my advice get a beta person n pls dnt spend 20yrs wth dis person ooo
or else,i resev my commnets

Still humanise?

That's good. At least he deals with humans.

On a more serious note:

What have you been doing for the past 14 years?

humanise or womanise? thank God for those who can decode nairaland english. whichever one it is, i wonder how u've endured it for the past 14 years. i hope u don't think he's going to change. u either get out now or just learn to live with it and if u've done so for so long u should already be used to it. humanise/womanise, can u substitute one for the other? e don tay when i go school.

i dont know how u managed to date someone for that long and i'm wondering
just wat ur age could be. I feel u must have gotten the purpose of the r/ship wrong
from the start or rather u are d one dating i'm sure he is not into it.
U can wait for eternity and u wont walk down the aisle wit him.

am very sure ur not a nigerian girl.

My advise for you is that if you cant deal with the guys bad habits of womanizing, you leave the relationship
Very simple...


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I'm hearing only ur side of the story. It could be 14yrs but was it consistent. That he had allowance to womanize?

I can't advice you till we hear from him.

I guess u r an orphan and perhaps ur first.

Persephone1:
I hope they finally got married

Person wey don divorce since 2012
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