When you get into a relationship with someone, for you, is it based on the fact that there is mutual attraction, or do you look past the attraction to see whether their are also things like whether that person has qualities that might make them suitable for a relationship or whether there is a high level of compatibility?

Just curious as to whether your lead by head or heart.

I think I definitely try look past the attraction of see if we are compatible, but then there has been the odd one or two where the attraction was so great I was a little blinded to the rest.

What is your say?

As for me I say both because have look past attraction and went for character when the gal was not feeling attractive but later after showering with all my love, care and building her self esteem, she believed she was so attractive and felt she can do better. So don't settle for less, character and beauty is the way to go, U are a man and don't have to be desperate

iice:

A more of a head person. . .heart is in an icebox
Sure attraction is great. . .so is character.
i tend to mix both. . .beauty without substance does not do it for me!!!

twinnnnnnnnnnnyyyyyyyy!


@ topic i definitely have to be attracted to him to date/have a relationship with him

i guess its a mixture of both : beauty and xter.

iice:

LOL twinny!

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So U still dey laff in quotes

Uche2nna:

So You still dey laff in quotes

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you gat anything against it?