My girl friend left me two years ago on 25th december she came back begging for forgiveness. I have accepted her apology and welcome her back to my life just because I love her so much.

WHAT WILL I DO TO MAKE HER LOVE ME THE MORE IN ORDER NOT TO LEAVE ME AGAIN

I NEED UR ADVICE SERIOUSLY.

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ESILOVE

Confused the "title" says "spouse" and posting says "girlfriend", which one? Sorry i cannot give you better advice.

@uspry 1,

Thank you for that correction.

I was too hm hm hm hm hm

Be kind, fair and considerate. In the first instance hy did she leave you? If it as due to some faults on your part, ork towards addressing that, If not just be yourself and dont let her hold you to ransome. No matter hat you do, hat is urs is urs and hat is not is not, you cant force things

You cant do anything to make her love u - she left you and not the other way round.
You cant make her stay - just be yourself and do what u can.

adeboo:

You can't do anything to make her love u

True. . . Love is not something you can Force/Beg from another being. If she doesn't love you SHE DOESN'T period. Just have faith and hope that she will stay this time.

Stop loving her before you wound yourself, because she'll soon leave you again and took to her heels, so be prepared!

@poster

I think you're on dangerous ground!

If you up-most fear is of her leaving you then that means she has you and the relationship wrapped around her pinkie. That is not a very good position to be in.

Why did she leave you in the first place?
Why did she come back?
Why did you take her back?

You will need honest answers to this questions. What eva answer you get will determine if she is likely to leave you again.

I am worried that you have made an issue of her loving you not to leave you again. She must have realised this and may take advantage of you as a result of this.

BE VERY CAREFUL!!!!!

U can neva force love. If she loves u, then she loves and if does not love you then she really don’t love u. The only thing u can do is keep being u, be positive and hope for the best. If it is meant to be, it will be!

For her to have come back, she actually does feel something for u. Probably she has realized her mistakes. Forget the thot of satisfying her. If u truly love her, u'll definately do things to make her happy. Just don't make her realise u can't afford to lose her, or u'll be sorry.

jkpretty:

For her to have come back, she actually does feel something for u. Probably she has realized her mistakes. Forget the thot of satisfying her. If u truly love her, u'll definately do things to make her happy. Just don't make her realise u can't afford to lose her, or u'll be sorry.

I seriously doubt the reasons she came back were because she 'missed' him. I may be wrong but i think she might not have gotten satisfaction from her previous conquest. She couldn't stay single for longer than a week so she decided to wile away time with the poster until someone beta comes along.

like I said . . . . I might be wrong.

If you have to try this hard to gain her love, then, it is a matter of time be4 she walks out on you again, my guy, let it be natural, let it come to you, let her feel u and let her be who she wanna be, if you love a bird, dont cage her, let her know the way to the door and give her the keys to open it as well, if she will stay, you wont have to lock the door, she will stay, and if she wanna leave, you making the door a code combo wont stop her from breaking the door and be gone, so just be yourself, and let her do the rest.
Never let the other half know your source of happiness, however, be happy with the other half.
Good luck and invite me for the wedding.

my advice to you is this, first of all be yourself, second of all listen to her when she talks and love her

She's all yours at the moment. If she didnt care I doubt she'd come back but be assured tht she wont be scared to leave agn if things go sore.

Al the best bruv

You can't really do anything to win her cos she is yours already, i guess she loves you that's why she came back to you. just chill out and remove the thots of her leaving you again out of your head.

Ignore her sometimes, don't be too protective. U'll be surprised how it works.

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