There is this girl that just got out of a bad relationship and it really took a toll on her. Now she really likes me and she has even made it clear but I m not that into her and I don't want to hurt her feelings by making her feel regected so should tell her or should I just go on with the relationship.pls advice

R u high

I am very sure u aint daft,d answer to ur question is right there in ur post,DONT cos u are not into her and u dnt wanna hurt her.PERIOD

Dont,you will end up breaking her heart when you find smeone you truly love,it's better you tell her the truth and let her heal with time or else shatter her hopes completely.
If you tell her yes,I can assure you this will be her last sentesce to you,'all guys are thesame' which only makes it hard for her to love in the future.

Go ahead and date her,u will end up being sorry 4 urself

lilcutie8916: There is this girl that just got out of a bad relationship and it really took a toll on her. Now she really likes me and she has even made it clear but I m not that into her and I don't want to hurt her feelings by making her feel regected so should tell her or should I just go on with the relationship.pls advice

babes DON'T DO IT!!

take it from me...IT'S NOT WORTH IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Symmpathy love is never a good idea. That said, deeper and real feelings of love mught grow if you are both friends and care for each other.

http://www.mynewhitmanwrites.com/2011/10/loving-one-who-loves-you-back.html

You were too close to her. She took the caring as finding love again. Politely declare your dissent now that it's early to forgo.

@OP, you should not date or marry anyone outta pity. It is simply wrong

YES..........and later be sorry u did
NO..........truth will make her stronger

Then how do I put it to her so that she doesn't feel regected

lilcutie8916: Then how do I put it to her so that she doesn't feel regected

I respect your feelings for me but lets just be friends. Or tell her u have a girlfriend. Or dont u have?

lilcutie8916: Then how do I put it to her so that she doesn't feel regected

Tell her you guy should just be friends with benefits

Don't date her.
You will end up regretting it.

cindyrella: Don't date her.
You will end up regretting it.

Yup he would

[size=13pt]@OP.. well, what is there to say.. d thing is she wants to move on and she wana use you as a steppin stone and if you're game brother.. use her like roll on. If you later fall in love with her, she would break your heart [/size]

Never get into a relationship out of pity or because u feel sorry for her. It would end up backfired and she would end up hating u.

Guy! Dont try it. One of the things I tell people about relationship is that, dont ever date or marry someone because you feel sorry for them. Thats not a good reason to date someone especially with the fact that you said you ain't really ineterested in here yourself. Personally, I am good at doing such because you have to apply maturity in order to carry out this kinda activity properly. But the truth remains that, she will end up heart broken again cos your feeling is not genuine. Moreso, you will wear yourslef out since you will just be doing things to help her get over it and not because you have the passion to do it as it ought if she were to be yourz... Anywayz, be cautious so she doesnt feel more pains....

Goodluck.