I've been skeptical lately about creating threads, but had to create this cos it has got me thinking hard.
Recently I've been getting a call from this lady who used to hv a crush on me then in our undergraduate days. She stays around d western states and i around the south south. Oflate we got chatting and she's been asking that i come see her including offering to foot the bills. Inasmuch as it is tempting and inviting, I've been weighing the consequences. I don't wanna date her, and if i go see her i fear one thing leads to another we bleep and the kinda person she is wouldn't give me space anymore. Though am forming for her, she still stands her ground that i should come. Whats ur take guys What will yoiu have me do

Our lord Jesus is the ladder

tobiboss: Our lord Jesus is the ladder

Lol... Part of my fear!!!

Yeah you were right earlier, you shouldn't be creating threads.

anselm791: Yeah you were right earlier, you shouldn't be creating threads.

Guess thats an advice huh

Run for your life my brother.. Never you trust a beautiful girl especially one who's so interested in you cos it will lead to your death and if you're lucky, it will leave an everlasting scar. Trust me op, I've been down that road before.

anselm791: Yeah you were right earlier, you shouldn't be creating threads.

LWKMD

@OP are you are learner? Tell her to come over instead

Charles4075: Run for your life my brother.. Never you trust a beautiful girl especially one who's so interested in you cos it will lead to your death and if you're lucky, it will leave an everlasting scar. Trust me op, I've been down that road before.

Thanks Charles... U jst scared d heck outa me... Pls elaborate if u can!!! Tnx

Emmysteve: LWKMD

@OP are you are learner? Tell her to come over instead

I will now be d one doing d spendings

Freest:
I will now be d one doing d spendings

you dey fear to spend before? Lolz

Flee it's a trap.

Emmysteve: you dey fear to spend before? Lolz

Guy that one join oh, plus i don't like spending for a gurl I've got no feelings for!!!

djeezy: Flee it's a trap.

How bro

Freest:
How bro

like you said one thing may lead to another. She will tempt you and then you will start bleeping then you will date her and then you're stuck. That's the trap. She's giving you the bait. From your post you dont seem like a hit and run.

Freest:
Guy that one join oh, plus i don't like spending for a gurl I've got no feelings for!!!

you gat no feelings for her and you don't want to enter the place. Your matter no be for here o

djeezy: like you said one thing may lead to another. She will tempt you and then you will start bleeping then you will date her and then you're stuck. That's the trap. She's giving you the bait. From your post you dont seem like a hit and run.

Thanks bro... Thats exactly whatis bothering me now. She knows am not in a relationship and hv always wanted me even when i was in one. So i feel its a scheme to tie me!!!

U wan jst go chop ha moni abi? U go enta one chance oo

djeezy: like you said one thing may lead to another. She will tempt you and then you will start bleeping then you will date her and then you're stuck. That's the trap. She's giving you the bait. From your post you dont seem like a hit and run.

Looking at d tempting offer, a part of me wanna just go do a one time thing,,, but skeptical if it will end there...

Srallens: U wan jst go chop ha moni abi? U go enta one chance oo

Lol... Guy i sitdon dey receive invite make i come... Na my fault

Emmysteve: you gat no feelings for her and you don't want to enter the place. Your matter no be for here o

My brother,.. E nor easy now!!! Nor be say i nor like better thing bfor oh. Just been trying to keep myself intact but seriously it hasn't been eazy!

Freest:
Thanks bro... Thats exactly whatis bothering me now. She knows am not in a relationship and hv always wanted me even when i was in one. So i feel its a scheme to tie me!!!

I understand how you feel. When you start meeting her, she may make you an offer you cannot refuse. You know what I mean. Just make things clear to her and let her knw that you know where this is going and that you wouldn't want that.

Freest:
Looking at d tempting offer, a part of me wanna just go do a one time thing,,, but skeptical if it will end there...

that one time thing may turn out to be a lasting TRAP. Women of nowadays have a mastery on how to trap a man. Before you know she don carry belle.

djeezy: I understand how you feel. When you start meeting her, she may make you an offer you cannot refuse. You know what I mean. Just make things clear to her and let her knw that you know where this is going and that you wouldn't want that.

Kkk... Thanks bro. Tho i know this ladies kinda person!!! She is a stalker. Thank God we not in same states sha...

Freest:
Kkk... Thanks bro. Tho i know this ladies kinda person!!! She is a stalker. Thank God we not in same states sha...

haha. You're welcome

Freest:
My brother,.. E nor easy now!!! Nor be say i nor like better thing bfor oh. Just been trying to keep myself intact but seriously it hasn't been eazy!

So you wan tell me say you be virgin. I give up

Emmysteve: So you wan tell me say you be virgin. I give up

Nah... Am not a virgin... Just a bad guy turned good...

Gotten the necessary advice need... Talk to her abt wah i want huh Don't need a relationship just a one time thing or perhaps friends with benefit. Abi

Freest: Gotten the necessary advice need... Talk to her abt wah i want huh Don't need a relationship just a one time thing or perhaps friends with benefit. Abi

And you think she will be comfortable with that? Don't shut yourself on the leg please

Mods I've gotten d necessary advice i need. You can now delete, close, bomb or vanish this thread asap biko... Dont need it nomore.
Or is there a way i can delete a thread myself?

Emmysteve: And you think she will be comfortable with that? Don't shut yourself on the leg please

Haba!!! So wah do i do Thought explaining my position will do the trick

Freest:
Thanks Charles... U jst scared d heck outa me... Pls elaborate if u can!!! Tnx

Don't think I can say that here but I've got two choices for you bro. Either you run and save your life Or meet her and see what's inside pandora's box. It's your choice. We all do have choices to make in this life even if we are not the creator of that life but we can defend it.. Be wise

Charles4075: Don't think I can say that here but I've got two choices for you bro. Either you run and save your life Or meet her and see what's inside pandora's box. It's your choice. We all do have choices to make in this life even if we are not the creator of that life but we can defend it.. Be wise

Gotten... Thanks bro!!!