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Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by maclatunji: 12:09pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Ivynwa: Women are real pieces of work! |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 12:10pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
maclatunji: How does a woman who has been beaten black and blue "teach in love"? I'm curious to see how Duke_Nija responds to this too. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by maclatunji: 12:10pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
slimyem: Wow!!!! Respect her choice. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by maclatunji: 12:11pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Siena: It's a sincere question too. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Ivynwa(f): 12:15pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
maclatunji:Mr. Mac you seem to be feeling real cool this morning ![]() Women ain't pieces of work, we women make the world go round. Better believe it. There simply ain't any world without us. Now roger that. ![]() How are you Mac? |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by coogar: 12:15pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
BlueDiva: Curiosity got the better of me and i went through the posts of durothrash. may God bless you for this post! watch out though, you would soon be tagged as an apologist of wife abusers! 3 Likes |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Busybody2(f): 12:19pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
durobraham: Taking notes from the sidelines and trying to suss out what Maclatunji also makes out of this ladylike comment that set off the cat amongst the pigeons. And oh, i bet he was one of those that "liked" it too ![]() ![]() BlueDiva: Oh lawd, mercy me from this ribshurt. Now how do i wipe this perma-grin off my face ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Ivynwa(f): 12:24pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
I agree that a woman getting abused should do some soul searching to know what went wrong yet nothing justifies abuse. The people saying that financial frustrations must be what is stressing the man are making a good point but if all men go home to beat down their wives because things are not working out good in their businesses the world will become a crazy place. Nobody should abuse their spouse and nobody should tolerate being abused. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by coogar: 12:30pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Ivynwa: but is it not surprising that this woman did not even admit any wrongdoing in her statement? how am i supposed to take such a one-sided story serious and pass judgements based on it? i agree no woman should be treated like crap but it's also imperative to tell the story in a way people can relate with it........this poster is not serious - when she's ready to tell the cause of the abuse then she would get the solution she craves! 1 Like |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 12:32pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Busy_body: . Hey BB! It's been a while, how're you keeping? My regards to your li'l boys. ![]() |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by slimyem: 12:35pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
maclatunji:Isn't that what i just did by not saying too much? |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Ivynwa(f): 12:37pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
coogar: The cause of the abuse? Nothing she tells us here that she does which may have contributed to the abuse justifies her husband beating and spitting on her. We know that there are the other sides of the story most times but there's nothing she will write here that will make the abuse she is getting accepted. Now I don't want u to get in the mood you went in the other abuse thread, I d' rather have those your funny gif video clips that cracks me up, post a nice one for me pls. Have a nice day dear. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 12:40pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
coogar: People enjoy looking for a scapegoat. It's the nature of man. It takes willpower to be realistic and put sentiments aside and analyze things objectively. It's actually easy to join the bandwagon and castigate a partner by what the spouse comes online to say. But does that solve the problem? Life is about cause and effect, something leads to another. I don't do sympathy, it's for losers. Analyze and find the cause, that way you are already half way through solving the problem. If a man or woman was so bad in the first place, then one is to blame for still going ahead with that marriage. Actually, the cause of these problems we see all over nairaland is as a result of desperation. People want to be called 'married' at all cost. The quest to get married clouds peoples sense of reasoning. I say it boldly that there are always signs to warn you before you get married. Most people ignore those signs and then come here to whine. Life is not a fairy tale. Not every proposal for marriage has to be accepted. I like the lady who said she turned down her husband twice till he worked on himself. If you become unlucky and your perfect partner turns to a devil overnight then too bad. Seek counseling from trained professional of if you are religious, turn to your religion for help or the law courts, whatever works for you. 5 Likes |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by coogar: 12:43pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Ivynwa: if she can be cunning enough to leave the part where she did wrong then it's not out of place to think she might have exaggerated in her story to paint her husband black....in a nutshell, i find it very hard to believe this story!
i'm a rational human being - ask bluediva! BlueDiva: end of discussion! we need more women like you in this section 4 Likes |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Ivynwa(f): 12:47pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
coogar: I wasn't saying that you are not, anybody that knows the perfect video clip to dish out at the perfect time is super rational. I will come and check out the gif you will post for me later ![]() |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Busybody2(f): 12:52pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Siena: Hiya DeltaKing, everything is good here, how is your DeltanQueen and your two lil princesses? I bet they are good too ![]() |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 12:53pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
coogar: I'm happier in my sports section. . . ![]() This section is tricky, you have to support every female complainant or else. . . There are a lot of intelligent women here who give great advice but they need to reduce the feminism a little bit. Rational thinking never killed anybody. If your fellow woman errs, let her know. As we have men who are devils so we also have women who are devils. 2 Likes |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by coogar: 12:54pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Ivynwa: wow - i gained a fan! ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 12:56pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
LOL at the silly gif. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by MrsChima(f): 1:04pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Well people do fall out of love and want out. Why would anyone stay with someone they do not love and unhappy with ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by maclatunji: 1:04pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Busy_body: Hey! Don't you want to be a lady? More appropriately: Aren't you a lady? Ladies are #Cool. Leave durobraham alone. The operational definition of a lady she gave is on point. ![]() There are so many points from different people on this thread- quite interesting. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 1:05pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Busy_body: how is your DeltanQueen and your two lil princesses? I bet they are good too They're still Brown, hehehe. ![]() |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by maclatunji: 1:06pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
slimyem: Isn't that what i just did by not saying too much? You already said too much. Silence would have been better. 1 Like |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Busybody2(f): 1:13pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
maclatunji: ![]() ![]() Who is holding "Lady" Duro? Now who wants to be a woman in this manly skewed world! What's in it for a lady huh ![]() Siena: Hehehe, you and that "brown" word ehn ![]() |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by maclatunji: 1:16pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Ivynwa: It's so true. That's why you're pieces of work. I know I will never figure you lot completely out even if I live for a thousand years. [quote authour=Ivynwa] How are you Mac?[/quote] I am fine, could be better though. You're right, I am rather relaxed this morning. If I don't do so, I might do damage later on in the day. Someone crossed the wrong lines with me this morning, I am hoping to keep cool. I hope/trust you're good too. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 1:21pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
@OP Why are you complaining? Don't you know you have to be the reason why you are dealt with? Search yourself, you probably stopped doing something right. From experience, the person who cries wolf first is usually the culprit, and only seeks to throw a pity party. Try as much much as possible to be the other side of the story. People are more endearing to that. So bottle it inside for now. From research, most men are the ones being abused. So what's the likelihood your story is true? I doubt it. 2 Likes |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by maclatunji: 1:29pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Busy_body: @bolded, you people complain so much about it being a "man's world". I don't know O but it's beginning to look like a "lethal-to-man" world. We are not living long anymore. A lady has a lot to gain over a woman now. She knows how, when and where to show a soft side and when to harden-up. I didn't say a lady is a wimp or a sissy, she is just measured in her actions and/or reactions. A woman is more likely to follow her mood and impulses without much restraint. Don't worry, I know you're a lady ![]() |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Ivynwa(f): 1:43pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
coogar: This Coogar is incurable o-o. Your clip is very funny but that man is so so makobe/gay. Who is he trying to seduce? Definitely not me, huh. Hahaha! maclatunji: I'm good too. Thanks. Have a nice day. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by maclatunji: 1:57pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
stillwater: @OP I wish we could test this theory out by getting the husband's side of the story. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by baby124: 2:01pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
Thankfully, OP comes across as someone with some discernment. ![]() |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 2:02pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
maclatunji: Me too. 1 Like |
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