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Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 2:59pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
stillwater: @OP Lmao! Hopefully the OP gets the sarcasm. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 3:03pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
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Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by coogar: 3:39pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
maclatunji: if you hear the husband's version - the discrepancy would send you tail-spinning.....women, especially nigerian women, are expert liars when it comes to issues like this...... read this story - https://www.nairaland.com/677092/silly-nigerian-kenyan-ambasador-beats-wife the husband's version https://www.nairaland.com/709754/former-nigerian-ambassador-kenya-chijioke the son's version https://www.nairaland.com/680718/nigerian-ambassador-kenya-sons-side jonathan goodluck's decision https://www.nairaland.com/785622/gej-reinstates-wife-beating-nigerian i think anyone who comes online to read a one sided story and pass ridiculous judgements on threads like this should be sent to a psychiatric home.... 1 Like |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Omolola1(f): 6:19pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
From what you have said, it wouldn't be advisable to stay in the marriage, pack your load and leave! Many people go into marriage for love, that is why you can easily say you've fallen out of love for him. People don't look at other important things like "can you live with him" "does he have attitude problem?" Because in the long run, love isn't what sustains marriage, perseverance and tolerance is what builds a home! Anyway, it wud be unfair to judge based on only your story, am very sure you have your faults as well! |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 10:51pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
I remember one thread, where a man came online to complain about the wife. Few pages later the wife came on to trounce his complaints. And she came out the victor. There was another one where a woman first complained, few pages later husband surfaced, everyone became endeared to the husband. So you see my dear, get with the program. You have to be really good like Eminem in 8 mile to attack first and still win. 1 Like |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by LadyT(f): 1:59am On Nov 01, 2012 |
Dont waste your time. Take your kids and money and leave. Your life is more important. If he really wants you back he will get a job repay you all the money he owes and sign a contract saying he will never hit you again or be abusive. If he does so again he needs to go to jail. You need to be tough on him for him to really show if he really intends on changing. If he doesnt change dont worry someone better is out there and even if they are not your role as a mother is the greatest thing you have and need to complete dont let him kill you |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 3:33am On Nov 01, 2012 |
LadyT: Dont waste your time. Take your kids and money and leave. Your life is more important. If he really wants you back he will get a job repay you all the money he owes and sign a contract saying he will never hit you again or be abusive. If he does so again he needs to go to jail. You need to be tough on him for him to really show if he really intends on changing. If he doesnt change dont worry someone is out there Shut ur trap. Na so dem dey leave? Marriage is nt a girlfriend and boyfriend thing. The woman should explore all avenues. call ur families and sort it out. Someone is out there for a woman with 3 kids, Jst like dat? Only a fool will call dis trash an advice. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by Nobody: 4:00am On Nov 01, 2012 |
Gaggi: It is not an indefinite prison sentence either. There is no point dying in silence all in the name of keeping up a charade of being mrs bla bla bla. I think too many women, in the rush to join the marriage train, fail to see the warning signs in their men. Being single is not so bad... i would rather stay this way than be with someone i would hesitate to be around. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by MrsChima(f): 5:13am On Nov 01, 2012 |
Po thang. .... |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by maclatunji: 9:04am On Nov 01, 2012 |
coogar: This story was something else at the time. What is a little bit difficult for me to accept is that a couple who were supposed/believed to be on top of the world and head over heals in love on their wedding day become "devils" to each other a few years down the line. What exactly goes wrong in these marriages. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by 1920MaMa: 8:11pm On Nov 02, 2012 |
stay and raise future wife beaters. |
Re: Fallen Out Of Love With Husband by ronkebp(f): 9:11pm On Nov 02, 2012 |
Some men!!!!, i don't know why someone will come on this forum and be seeking for unnecessary advice, some women shaa!!!! he beats you, abuses you verbally, he is irresponsible, and all what not, what he contributes is his s/.p.e.rm and his last name......Ok....i will rest my case. NB: A beast will always remain a beast.... |
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