WE all want to have peaceful homes, yet it seems there are times when in-laws, so-called concerned friends and Parents
try to interfere believing that they know better than the concerned party. Do you outrightly tell them to quit interferring?
Is there an improper/proper way of asserting your views? What do you think?

mrs.chima is in the best position to answer,this one pass me

It is not rocket science simply tdll them it is your marriage and thanks for respecting my privacy with my wife. If we need help family and friends will be considered.

We want to involve those who have our best interest in heart and not holding hidden agendas and thanks for understanding. We love you!

Simple. Be direct and firm.

I hate when people to that!!! And it happens to me so often!! Then these people manage to influence me and I take bad decisions :-S. It's so hard because these people aren't in your life so they don't see everything, they don't have a complete overview of the situation, and thus their advice should be taken with great care (which I apparently can't do)

Simply No qualm!