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Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by edelweiss(f): 3:14pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
The truth of the matter is men will cheat! Its just their nature, this quest to conquer, its purely animalistic, but despite that a man who truly loves u won't send u away given even to the fact that u are not based in the same city with him and u came just for a weekend! Its the height of disregard! Despite men cheating nature, they always protect the one the LOVE, nowadays in relationships, its not expecting to be the only one, its praying to be the no one! because my dear sister others go dey for corner. Girls can steal the guy who loves u for the moment but surely after the lower region and that animalistic urge is satisfied, he will always return to where his heart is! |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by Smilingbob(m): 3:15pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Go and drink G...a...R....r.....Ï, |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Missy_B:good point, missy |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by LaParisienne(f): 3:49pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
k2039: Op stupidity is seeing the obvious but choosing to believe the lies.I love love love this post. Who are you? Would like to know. booqee: From what i know oh,(nobody should eat me raw abeg)...at least 80% of the guys cheat on their girlfriends or wife! Yes! And i really hate dat bout them,.but i've come to accept dat fact like dat.Keep deceiving yourself that 80% of men cheat, therefore you have to accept and live with this ''fact''. Do you partake in thre3somes with him too? Maybe you'll wake up from your slumber when he gives STDs, or when he dumps your sorry azz. Some low lives will never know self worth, even if it hits them like a truck on the face!!! 1 Like |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by achukwunet(f): 4:09pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
aurora: Hi Nairalanders! Need some candid advice. I‘ve been dating this guy for 2 years though we‘ve lived in different cities in the last one year. He invited me to visit him and I did. CONFRONT HIM! You don't deserve to be treated like that. And when you do decide to confront him, pack some extra heat just in case (friend, brother, machete). Can i just say you're effing awesome for recording what he did! Present him with the facts!!! cindyrella: I am not sure that guy really loves you sef! Couldnt agree with you more 2 Likes |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by anintia(m): 4:09pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
No she should suffer in silence |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by ferhyntorlah(f): 4:27pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
k2039: God bless man; I love love the bolded part. |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by ferhyntorlah(f): 4:34pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
ghettodreamz: I love this quote. 1 Like |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by Nobody: 4:37pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
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Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
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Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by warrior101: 5:02pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
solidbroda: These are two things. If he cares so much about u and still cheating, I don't think u should bug urself. Men were created to cheat and its in our blood. Any lady competing with a man in such case will always find herself to blame. What you should focus on is how you can make him a better man. Does he really worth it. Out of all d 1million ladies he might have, do you feel he treats u as the 1 in a million? If he does, then you have nothing to worry. Don't try and compete by cheating with anoda guy, else, you will make things worse for urself and not ur guy. So cheers. this is the dumbest of all dumb comments on this thread that i have read so far... mate, you need serious cleansing. |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by AzaMontana(f): 5:37pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
forget that player |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by Techwriter: 5:48pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Everybody thinks u were not treated fairly, but the truth is that you cohabiting with a man not married to you is where you missed it. With many advising you to quit, u will eventually fall into another mans bed and the fun continues while the hurt is around the corner Let me give u a better advice: give your life to Christ and keep yourself chaste for your husband to be. That 80% of men cheat is the statistics in the world. A man that does not cheat(which apparently is what you are looking for) will also be looking for a woman who respects and regards her body as God's temple. God help you 3 Likes |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Why confront him? Either you are going to stay or you will go. If you choose to stay with him, the next time he cheats, he will just try to be more discreet so you don't find out. If you choose to leave him, just stop all communication from your end. When he calls, tell him that you found out he was intimate with someone else and you have moved on to be with someone faithful. Ladies need to stop torturing themselves. |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by Nobody: 6:21pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
warrior101:how old are u? 15? Cheers Junior |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by overdrive(m): 6:36pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Since he doesn't want u to meet his mom do u still need a prophet to tell that he is a playa.u are worth next to nothing to him so bid him bye bye 3 Likes |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by Nobody: 7:20pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
La Parisienne:wtf?? How does accepting d fact dat 80% men do cheat correlate with having a three$ome with my bf?? Maybe you'll wake up from your slumber when he gives STDsgood Lord! Are u silly by default or by design?? Where in my post did i indicate i have unprotected sex or even intimacy at all?? Now i think you're d one who needs to wake up from ur slumber and stop living in d past..if u think men don't cheat at all. Jeez! Dis is freaking 2012..we're not in the 19th century for goodness sake. You should certainly go out more and aquint urself with the society! Maybe then..u'll keep mum. Fact is, not every guy cheat..but for those who do..we still have d sensible and matured ones among them..who reserve a very large percentage of respect for their girlfriend or wife. But wat every girl wants just like me is to have a guy who wouldn't cheat at all but be faithful..but dat is just ur luck if dat wish comes through. Yeah luck..cos they're so few, take it or leave it! or when he dumps your sorry azz.now may i ask you to keep dat pit u call mouth shut?!...if there's anyone suffering from low self esteem i think its you,.and it has apparently beclouded ur sense of reasoning. |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by LaParisienne(f): 7:41pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
booqee: wtf?? How does accepting d fact dat 80% men do cheat correlate with having a three$ome with my bf?? Blah blah blah of low life with a deafeatist mentality. You suck, just like your posts. Go learn how to type first, maybe it'll help you get rid of your low self esteem. 1 Like |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by titsqueez(m): 8:15pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Arrant nonsense the guy tell you say he want marry. . the two of you were yanshing now he wants to yansh some one else and you want to block him. If were u i for use the free opportunity wey him give me go drink garri and wipe out the taste of hin kpomo. |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
if you dont want him anymore keep on stepping 1 Like |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by Layk(m): 9:35pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Lass, since there is no visual proof that the 'mum' was another lady, he has all confidence to deny it. My advice now is that you execise more patience and get her red handed. Then, you can now face him off and take any decision. |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by bunmila(f): 9:35pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
fluid26: Let a dog roam and he'll find his way home!That's crap. He lies and cheats. What else is there to say |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by bunmila(f): 9:38pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Imanuelle: U got what u wanted!How is this helping anyone? |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by omosexy1: 10:04pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
sanb: @edelweiss... The bottom line is, allow self-control to kick in whenever the temptation to cheat occurs. Dey there mek pant wear you. Men never do you something before. If them reap you apart emotionally na that time you go know sey men cheat without any reason or season. |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by omosexy1: 10:05pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
edelweiss: The truth of the matter is men will cheat! Its just their nature, this quest to conquer, its purely animalistic, but despite that a man who truly loves u won't send u away given even to the fact that u are not based in the same city with him and u came just for a weekend! Its the height of disregard! Despite men cheating nature, they always protect the one the LOVE, nowadays in relationships, its not expecting to be the only one, its praying to be the no one! because my dear sister others go dey for corner. Girls can steal the guy who loves u for the moment but surely after the lower region and that animalistic urge is satisfied, he will always return to where his heart is! Real talk. Seems you did psychology. |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
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Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by omosexy1: 10:14pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
La Parisienne: I think you are the one who sucks. She was trying to explain to you and like she said you do need to go out more and get acquainted with your society. Stop living in a fairy-tale world. Your bf might currently be cheating on you or supposedly, cheating with you (which ever the case). WAKE UP SUCKER |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by omosexy1: 10:17pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
sanb: Oh my days and you think that's good enough...I didn't say its good. Its just men. Once you understand you can control a man and convert a cheater to a lover. But don't put yourself on a high ride of hopeful wishes because my dear, they will reap you apart emotionally. |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
That can only occur if you allow that to happen... omosexy1: they will reap you apart emotionally. |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by omosexy1: 10:26pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
sanb: That can only occur if you allow that to happen.... Oh you think you are special abi (you funny oh). What do you think you can do - hold him down with sex or food or alleged love? Educate me |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by vikeb(m): 10:44pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
I think its simple!It all depends on the content of Ūя̲̅ records.If its very obvious think giving him a chance isn't necessary but if its not really obvious he was cheating nd U̶̲̥̅̊ care about him I think giving him a chance to explain is necessary.But think U̶̲̥̅̊ need be calm I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ whatever action you decide take. |
Re: Cheating Partner: Do I Confront Him Or Walk Away? by hunkydory(m): 10:57pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
Confront him and find out what actually happened.It might not be what you think. |
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