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dayokanu: Nigerians are just bullies imagine a boy maybe struggling with his GPA in school telling a 4yr old girl she is not smart

Greatgod aka OluwaTobi I want to say you dissapointed me small .

Na that kain oponu BIL me I dey like. Being the sharp mouthed Yoruba person I am I would so yab that BIL that he would almost commit suicide

You for first ask him for his WAEC result, and his GPA in school. and bring your daughters school grades. I am certain your daughter was doing better in her school than the dunderhead BIL. Ask him why upon his "sharpness he isnt the best student in MIT, Oxford or even UNILAG or Ife? despite all the money the family has invested on his education?

That everyone has been shy to tell him that he is the dullest person in the whole family and there is a theory that he might have been switched at birth cos his dullness in unmatched in the family tree. In advanced countries he would have been categorized as a reetardd or "Children with Special needs"

Its mostly ppl who cant match their peers that pick on perceived inferior people.

I wont be surprised if the BIL is on academic probation in his school. Nonsense

calm down noww...haba.!!:-)

swizz01: To me I tink low esteem is a personal stuff......cz d moment u start feelin inferior,u'll start degradin urslf......

sort of true.

@ topic

imo, self esteem is innate, ie something you are born with.

Esteem or lack thereof stems from both nature (parental upbringing ) and nurture (environment ).
Parents have a responsibility towards ensuring that they teach their children self-confidence. Not only that, listen to them and spend some time with them. It's only by doing this you find out if he or she was bullied at school, jested or called names which is where the environment comes in.
When you teach your child self-esteem without following up on the child's application of the self-esteem to his everyday situation, then it is not complete.
Parents please endeavour to spend quality time with your children.

i know your feel bro,i also have low self confidence because of my mother,when i was 4.i think your mind tells you didn't do anything wrong but you are convinced you are inferior due to the violent way he expressed himself makes you feels stupid for not obeying him .that's the point

I personally think its a mixture of both,Most parents abuse and belittle their kids in front of their peers,siblings and strangers.If the child already has a bit of lowsel esteem in them such actions stir up the feelings. I personally tink parents should be careful with the kind of words they use on their kids,aviod people who often belittle their kids,give them reassuring advice and they are gud too go

Its as a result of parental upbringing o, environment(wch constitute ur parents too) has a large influence on a kid's mentality. I am talking frm experience, while I was a kid, my siblings were always mocking my complexion and my mum won't caution them, I stl av inferiority complex because of that. Although, so many pple that knows me find me fun to be with, brilliant and d likes......bt I tel u, d COMPLEX is just there. I always wana b som1 else because my siblings made me believe dt I'm not good enof*sad face*