Idowuogbo:
Asewo! U wan bag small gal abi? Kai! See am my lecturer dey operate o!

FlowerPower: It's official. I'm going into the matchmaking business. I know many single men over here who would like to get married. What are your requirements?

pwettytemmy: U shouldn't be worried at 23 dear, pple get married at 35 n it works for them, same people also get married at 20 n it works for them. God's time is d best. Study yourself very well to know what's gud for u and wat u want. Don't rush because people are getting married in oda not t go with the wrong person. If u rush in, there's tendency for rushing out. At 23 u should be in a relationship, bt if u aren't, its not too late n it doesn't calls for worrying. Give chance for a man in ur life if u av any one at hand n if u don't, look within u if u av any attitude pushing them away n make amends. Bt remember dat no one is catching late comers for marriage. Go for it when u feel you're phsycologically, emotionally,financially n matured enof for it. All d best.

sanb: Age shouldn’t be a determining factor for marriage. You’ve got to be ready mentally and emotionally cos marriage is not a bed of roses. You’re still young; build yourself up a bit, be happy with yourself, learn more about yourself and look for someone you’re compatible with...Don’t allow anyone to put pressure on you to marry when you’re not ready so that you don’t rush into the marriage and rush out of it. All the best....

mabebe1:

so many gals got maried at d age of 35, so dnt write 30 as d age limit. For God's tym z d best

pwettytemmy: U shouldn't be worried at 23 dear, pple get married at 35 n it works for them, same people also get married at 20 n it works for them. God's time is d best. Study yourself very well to know what's gud for u and wat u want. Don't rush because people are getting married in oda not t go with the wrong person. If u rush in, there's tendency for rushing out. At 23 u should be in a relationship, bt if u aren't, its not too late n it doesn't calls for worrying. Give chance for a man in ur life if u av any one at hand n if u don't, look within u if u av any attitude pushing them away n make amends. Bt remember dat no one is catching late comers for marriage. Go for it when u feel you're phsycologically, emotionally,financially n matured enof for it. All d best.

ameeno: hi everyone...
i am 23 years old and without a boyfrend.
i am done with school, Nysc and now i have a good job... the problem here is that slowly my mum has started putting pressure on me to get married...i have also started getting worried myself because i really dont have any toasters at all even though i am very beautiful.
ok i will like to know at what age should a woman really start getting worried...i would appreciate all ur opinions

ameeno: thanks a million best advice ever

k2039:

Seems no one is putting the bolded into consideration,

Op,has any guy ever asked you out,be honest please

pwettytemmy: U shouldn't be worried at 23 dear, pple get married at 35 n it works for them, same people also get married at 20 n it works for them. God's time is d best. Study yourself very well to know what's gud for u and wat u want. Don't rush because people are getting married in oda not t go with the wrong person. If u rush in, there's tendency for rushing out. At 23 u should be in a relationship, bt if u aren't, its not too late n it doesn't calls for worrying. Give chance for a man in ur life if u av any one at hand n if u don't, look within u if u av any attitude pushing them away n make amends. Bt remember dat no one is catching late comers for marriage. Go for it when u feel you're phsycologically, emotionally,financially n matured enof for it. All d best.

Shollypopz:
Since u've said all, I've nothing else to say. ULTRA GBAM!!

D-Explorer:
There's something about this story that's false.

k2039:

Seems no one is putting the bolded into consideration,

Op,has any guy ever asked you out,be honest please

fairygeh: @ poster,@ 23,u are still young,not too young for marriage though but not for you to start worrying urself over.so what you do is this,get yourself a boyfriend,if u are t®uly beautiful,u would have toasters wtf am I even saying,ugly girl sef dey get toasters now.agree to date who you realy like and not because ur mum iS pressurizing you.do not rush,I repeat do not be desperate.sme pple re in some die hard marriages now cos they rushed into it.its not how far but how well.

roseybridge: OP, you sound totally like me! I am quite pretty, but I noticed that after the steady relationship I had going in 2010 ended I've been zooming through men (some 2 week relationships ) and haven't had anything steady since then. I mean...it's crazy! I went from having someone worshiping me everyday for 2yrs to having absolutely no one(worshiper or not). And my mum's not helping issues at all. ALWAYS telling me to get married etc etc.

I also got worried....I started seeing some logic in what she was saying....I'm 23yrs old with no commitment whatsoever, and I want to get married by 25 and I want to have dated the guy for at least 18 months before marriage and here I am with NO boyfriend....my sister, at a point I had to sit and start re-assessing myself and even prayed about it too...lol. Anyway, I started dating a guy last week (lemme cross my fingers and pray it works out), although my mum already said I can't marry from Kogi state, coz I'm Igbo....that's her opinion though...as long as I'm convinced that he's the "one", I will marry him.

In conclusion....I think you should be a bit worried...its natural....you can have everything good in the world, but when you do not have love or specifically love from that "one" person....it's the pits. I know its cool sometimes saying "I'm single" and all that but....nothing compares to sharing your victories and sad moments with that "one" person...its probably coz he's not compelled to listen and love you like your family is, but has come to you on his own accord to give u all those good stuff for free.

P.S- Perhaps you shouldn't look for TDH(Tall, Dark, Handsome)but do look out for one that has a good job/prospect. I think that is what matters most, but you must still be physically attracted to him. (My bf is not the cutest, but I console myself with couples like Heidi&Seal etc etc and he is very nice, intelligent,confident, hard working and has truckload of prospects )

Temi 23: @OP, am almost in the same shoe like you ,the pressure from my office is even more than my home like saying " when are you sharing the aso ebi" and sometime I responds to them that " please am still a young babe. But my problem is at this age that I have not been in any relationship before due to my choosy habit(more than 25) oh and I have hundreds of men begging all the time but I no see my choice oh. But now with pressure from both side office and home I just think what we need here is prayer. Marriage is not something you rush into so that we won't rush out. Though I have ni experience in relationship but meh I read a lot that really make me to teach people a little I know. OP, you are young and at the same time you need to shy your eye so that you won't rush later. All the best.

roseybridge: although my mum already said I can't marry from Kogi state, coz I'm Igbo...