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I just thought I should share this with NL dudes...If a woman loses respect for you as a man, she will also lose attraction and begin to fall out of love with you. It might’ve taken you a long time to find “the one” that you’re now in love with, but unless you’re careful about avoiding the following mistakes, she’ll soon be thinking about backing out of the relationship for good. Let's have some clues...

1. Belittling Her in Public

Playful teasing each other in private can be a fun aspect to your relationship, especially if it’s kept light and you both have understand each other’s sense of humor. Too often though, some men will belittle their woman in front of their friends or family in a way that she feels is cruel and sincerely harmful to her confidence and sense of pride and comfort in front of others.

In an effort to “show off” to his friends or because he believes that some “habit” his girl has is silly, some guys will say hurtful things about their girlfriend/wife. Even if it’s done when she’s not there, what the man says about his woman is probably going to get back to her eventually and she will feel betrayed and lose respect for him when it does.


2. Being Too Bossy

Women like to have their man be the head of the relationship, but when he starts getting too bossy and treating her like a slave or a servant, that’s when she will begin to lose respect for him.

Being bossy sets in when it has to do with house chores. If you want your relationship to last, you should let your girl do much of the housework, while you spontaneously help out with the housework, but focus mainly on doing the “manly” jobs around the house, making the big decisions and basically leading the relationship. However, when the man decides that he’s the “boss” and his woman has to do whatever he demands of her as if he “owns” her, she will lose respect for him and want out; especially if their sex life isn’t that fulfilling for her either.

3. Always Letting Her “Win”

On the opposite side of being too bossy, some guys will give in to whatever a woman wants because he is too fearful of losing her if he doesn’t yield to her every whim and desire. While it’s true that a woman will usually “test” you to see how much she can “get away with,” what she really wants is reassurance that you are in-charge of their relationship by seeing that you don’t agree to her every request.

If it gets to the point where her man agrees with her every request or “demand,” especially out of fear of her leaving him, she will walk all over him until she eventually loses all respect for him. She’ll then fall into the arms of another man who will show her who is truly “in charge” of their relationship. Girls may act like they want to be the boss in this new age of independent women who can do whatever they want, but deep down they all want a man who is a man and who can and will continually take the lead in a relationship. Any bros out there fumbling..., c'mon dude you the man, act up!

4. Being Weak or Submissive Around Other Men

This one point you must not toy with. A woman is always watching to see how much of a man a guy really is. One of the best ways a woman can see how strong (mentally and emotionally) a guy is, is to watch him interact with other men. Whether he’s chatting to men at a party or talking to a male shop attendant in a store, the woman is watching to see if he acts submissively and places the other man/men above him in terms of dominance. If he bosses her around at home, but let’s most (if not all) other guys boss him around outside of the home, she will lose respect for him instanta and won’t want to “follow his orders” at home - even akpos no go gree if na you date am!

If you want to learn how to be an alpha male who men respect and women love and lust after,please read wide about being an alpha male. You’ll be surprised at how easy it is to be the alpha male in a situation and how much your life will improve, not only with women, but at work (or study) and around friends and family. I no say make you turn commando...abeg na nigeria police go carry you shine! Life is completely different when, everywhere you go, people look up to you and respect you. Good things will just start happening to you all of the time. Doors open up for you and women just naturally want to be with you. There’s no need to try to get a woman attracted – she already is because you’re alpha bravo - just saying

5. Being Suspicious of Her Every Move

Trust is essential for the health of a relationship. Without it, all sorts of problems begin to emerge. One of the fastest ways to erode and eventually destroy the trust in a relationship is to become suspicious and overly protective of your woman. Regularly accusing her of wanting to cheat or of doing things behind your back will only lead to a breakdown of trust and a halt to the flow of love in the relationship.

Whether she’s legitimately working with a male co-worker on a project, going out with her friends to the movies or to do some shopping or running errands, some guys will find it difficult, if not impossible, to trust their woman unless they are with her. In an effort to control and keep tabs on her, some guys will stay in constant contact with their woman to find out where she is and what she is doing, snoop on her e-mails and phone messages to see if any guys are saying anything that could mean she wants to be more than “just friends” with them and so on. Women find this to be a major turn-off because they aren’t attracted to men who desperately need them for their emotional security and feelings of self-worth. My advice get yourself busy looking for money.

6. Whining Like a Victim

For a variety of reasons, a man might find that his life plans are suddenly in jeopardy (e.g. he loses a job, his shares/stocks/investments plummet and lose tremendous value, he gets caught up in heated disagreements with family or friends, etc.). It’s understandable that when things go wrong like that, a man might want to talk about his problems with his woman, but when he whines and complains like a victim without looking for solutions, a woman’s respect for him will quickly dwindle not every lady though but it good you brace up. Everyone has disappointments and problems that have to be dealt with, but some men will let it destroy them by dwelling on it and acting like a “victim of life.”

When a man is in a relationship, he should sometimes seek his woman’s advice to see how she feels and what she thinks might be a good way of tackling a problem. Even if he doesn’t follow her suggestions, but instead weighs them up as a possible solution against his ideas, a woman will greatly appreciate that her opinion matters to him and that he is actively trying to find a way to resolve his problems instead of moping, whining and complaining, but not actively seeking a solution. Boys complain and whine, while men decide and act.

7. Lying

Being able to rely on you to be truthful and live with integrity is one of the most important things to a woman when in a relationship with you. It doesn’t matter if it’s a “little white lie” to “keep out of trouble with her” or a major fib that, if discovered, will have life-altering ramifications, most women won’t tolerate their man routinely being dishonest. In fact, once your woman has caught you lying, she will never be able to fully rely on you again. She will not be able to see you as her “rock” or her man of stone and her respect for you will diminish.

Personally speaking, I’ve been able to consistently win arguments with my girlfriends and consistently stop women from putting heat on me about something, simply by saying, “Hey, have I ever lied to you? I always tell you the truth, right?” and the woman then has to give in and smile. From there, she can rely on you to lead her with the integrity and strength of a true alpha male. So, as a general rule, I recommend you just tell it how it is with women. Don’t lie, don’t cheat and don’t pretend to be something you’re not. Be the straight up, cool guy that you are and everything will be fine. but some girls like lie lie sha don't fall deep into it least you turn a pathological liar - just learn how to garnish it..

Finally - get money man, bc I have seen some men who are trespassers of the above but bc of how heavy their pockets are they however succeed in sustaining relationship........................well,not all ladies abide by this

being bossy is the worst...in my opinion

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APPARENTLY JESUS IS THE ONLY KIND OF MAN WOMEN WONT LOSE RESPECT FOR.....DEY DERE DEY LOSE RESPECT

190-the-clown:
the quickest way a NIGERIAN GIRL can ever loose respect for you is when you STOP GIVING HER MONEY

lolz...let me differ by saying: when you stop having money or when you become POOR

candygosh:

Erm I am back

cdamsel: just go ahead & chyke me I go gree,I've a tin 4 u,& u know wat dey say about angry sexxx

Abeg I no fit laugh jorh

cdamsel: u re really beginning 2 annoy me,dis isn't funny again

always on point,Ride On!

@ Op you are very correct, 100% agree with you!

I don't think rich men care if their women respect them.

wondaful u tried guy kip it up'''''

akintun: I don't think rich men care if their women respect them.

another cynical one

UncleJJ:

Do toothpicks have joysticks. Just because ur dad is rich, dnt mean ur cool.

Ur talkin bout ur honeyPot in public already says wat sort of person u r. Low selfesteem, ur probably black and ugly too, wear too much perfume and use huge designer glasses to cover ur frog eyes.

Make sure u disinfect ur vibrator regularly, we dnt want u to catch "no man wants to fuk me".

Ugly duck.

habaa, two pikin de fyt; no be settle u surpose settle the matter. Nawa o unclejj

cdamsel: u re really beginning 2 annoy me,dis isn't funny again

hahahahahaha

cdamsel: u re really beginning 2 annoy me,dis isn't funny again

u may nt b an example of such people, bt 190 the clown is right. Most Nija girls c money as love even when dy r comfortable.

Remember this?! Women!

Woman will not respect a Man if he cannot satisfy her financially and sexually.

Spot on gurl....

1920MaMa:

true, only if the girl is jobless. i don't see the reason y a working class lady would depend on a man for money.

binbass: Woman will not respect a Man if he cannot satisfy her financially and sexually.

a woman's maturity goes beyond money and sex, we are not like men

obowunmi: Sometimes, lying is necessary.

from experience

obowunmi: Sometimes, lying is necessary.

from experience

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You forgot the 8th reason.

8. Just being a plain Naija girl.

For some reason, being a naija girl means most have some agbero personality and think any man that woos them (trying to be with them) needs to confirm he is serious and worthy by accepting 2 foul behaviours. Her rudeness and exploitation.

They think approaching them justifies being nasty or askng for top-up credit or to be fed. To them that is just normal and acceptable. To them, the former is a way of showing the solid proof of their chastity and the latter is justified to give any sex up.


Add that to your list.

I see all 11 broke manbitches "liked" a comment.

Sagamite: You forgot the 8th reason.

8. Just being a plain Naija girl.

For some reason, being a naija girl means most have some agbero personality and think any man that woos them (trying to be with them) needs to confirm he is serious and worthy by accepting 2 foul behaviours. Her rudeness and exploitation.

They think approaching them justifies being nasty or askng for top-up credit or to be fed. To them that is just normal and acceptable. To them, the former is a way of showing the solid proof of their chastity and the latter is justified to give any sex up.


Add that to your list.

I am sure there are some Naija girls that are friendly. A few bad apples doesn't spoil the bunch. What do you say about the Naija boys? Are they perfect? TELL THE TRUTH.

Sagamite: You forgot the 8th reason.

8. Just being a plain Naija girl.

For some reason, being a naija girl means most have some agbero personality and think any man that woos them (trying to be with them) needs to confirm he is serious and worthy by accepting 2 foul behaviours. Her rudeness and exploitation.

They think approaching them justifies being nasty or askng for top-up credit or to be fed. To them that is just normal and acceptable. To them, the former is a way of showing the solid proof of their chastity and the latter is justified to give any sex up.


Add that to your list.

You're a lunkhead! WTF is this tosh? For some reason, being a naija girl means most have some agbero personality and think any man that woos them (trying to be with them) needs to confirm he is serious and worthy by accepting 2 foul behaviours. Her rudeness and exploitation.

You have no idea about the naija girl you're spouting tosh about or are you talking about those living under the bridge, i mean your equal?

Mrs.Chima:


I am sure there are some Naija girls that are friendly. A few bad apples doesn't spoil the bunch. What do you say about the Naija boys? Are they perfect? TELL THE TRUTH.

I am sure too.

Sagamite:

8. Just being a plain Naija girl.

For some reason, being a naija girl means most have some agbero personality and ....

I don't have to deal with Naija guys, I am straight.

D-Explorer:

You're a lunkhead! WTF is this tosh? For some reason, being a naija girl means most have some agbero personality and think any man that woos them (trying to be with them) needs to confirm he is serious and worthy by accepting 2 foul behaviours. Her rudeness and exploitation.

You have no idea about the naija girl you're spouting tosh about or are you talking about those living under the bridge, i mean your equal?

You are a person!

Since when did you have a brain to even be observant?

You think your brain works?

sanb: Really? If you and a lady are in the same financial status, your throwing money around her won't win, control or impress her i.e. it'll make no difference what so ever to her.... Rather, it's the love you show her that'll make the difference... This means you don’t have to throw money around love as money sometimes can’t buy true love...

And why would I mess with a woman that's about as rich as I'm. ?? Do you know that most rich women are mostly unhappy??

1920MaMa:

true, only if the girl is jobless. i don't see the reason y a working class lady would depend on a man for money.

They do my dear,it's a norm in Nigeria society.most women believe it is a man's duty to provide all the time.my girlfriend is a banker and probably earns higher but yet she still yells for money like a wet p**sy yells for a d**ck.