safarigirl: Like a wise woman said 'man na man'. I would date a nice guy and marry even, as long as he makes me happy.

*Kails*:


Absolutely.
That's ultimately what I desire: A nice guy with values who can stand up on his own two.

The "bad boy" thing is played out and childish. I don't want a push-over but I most certainly don't want a thug or an arrogant clown who only has his nasty attitude going for himself. Some girls like the thrill of being with "tough guys" or "self absorbed rich guys". That's their headache!!

But what's hilarious is how they eventually wonder why they end up being mistreated and hurt physically and/ or emotionally..#DUH!

>>> If you buy a sports car with a poor engine why would you expect that it would be of any use for long ode? You get what you ask for. It may look nice or the name itself might be the "in thing" but if the inside is no good...HELLO?!

SADLY: These type of GIRLS will keep hopping from car to car with engines ranging poor to cracked until they realize perhaps, just maybe their preference isn't any good! hmmm...

They say "nice guys finish last". Says who? Those birds who chase those guys in the end are not "prizes" brothers! TRUST ME. They are little girls at heart who have a lot of growing up to do. Nice guys should look for nice, ambitious and self respecting gals. NOT PERFECT, but respectful. If you feel there are none in your area, look elsewhere! Just pray and wait for your better half to arrive. Never settle.

Michky:
Ladies would not date nice guys because nice guys are too soft for this tough or wicked world. Being tough USED to guarantee the survival of man during the hunting-and-gathering phase of human evolution. Picture the times of spears, bows and arrows. Only the tough would have survived any leopard invasion. Innately, ladies' brains are still hard wired to that time. Good thing is, now, you don't need to be wicked or bad to survive (being tough is still important though). All you need is doh!. Ladies that have discovered that that small-muscle nice guy with the brains is a great pick are the smarter ones of this era, i tell yah.

1920MaMa: yes, weakness is the right word! nothing wrong with being with a nice guy as long as his niceness does not denote weakness. be nice, but at the same time, be firm!

abiL: Yes!

...If he hasn't got a face like a smacked arśe

RudySmith:

LWKMD!
So now, being strong means to be bad, and not nice? Abeg, go 4 deliverance, as u need it asap.

Some women like or prefer bad boys bcuz it is exciting and adventurous to be with guys that is different to what they always know and get. Not all women want 2 b treated nicely, not all women will look up 2 a guy opening doors for them, and let's not forget: not all women have it in them 2 b treated nicely. Some women out there can only attract bad boys bcuz they are bad girlz themselves.

zuchyblink: women love the bad guys so much that so many of them have been bitten like thieves still they still say ''but still love him''.that is why our society is in shambles,we adore bad things and condemn nice things.

alosiby92: what sort of question is the OP asking? No! I wont. It is a guy that is not nice that I will date.....mscheeeeeeeeew!

Michky: Huh? I don't get your point. Please elaborate.

RudySmith:

So u don't remember what u wrote? U wrote about how strong tough men were back in the days bla bla bla, and compared that with bad boys. I am just making u understand that there is a big difference between a strong guy and a bad boy.

ikekings: So nice guys are boring?

RudySmith:

U r talking as if being with a bad boy is wrong? It may b wrong 2 u, but many r happily married 2 bad boys and proud 2 b.

uj_sizzle:

Not all of them.

zuchyblink: they are being decieved by their emotion or stockholm syndrome(loving the abuser)

RudySmith:

LWKMD! So now it is wrong to b with a bad boy, because U don't like them? many ladies love 2 b roughed up, love 2 b in an adventurous relationship, why should that b wrong? If this is wrong 2 u then that's great but u shouldn't try to make it look like it is what everyone should aim for in life.

It's all about being happy with UR life.

nneh1: Yes i will date a good guy but the question is were are the good guys? Every guy claims he is bad.

nneh1: Yes i will date a good guy but the question is were are the good guys? Every guy claims he is bad.

LastApostle: Any lady that does not respect the sanctity of moral consciousness is biblically condemned.

What is wrong in been good and nice?

Except you are spiritually empty, I cannot reason why one will prefer evil to good. More worrisome is the fact that most ladies here are openly canvassing for evil over good.

The End is here and I promise my God I will answer present on the day of roll call

mascot87:
How many time will I say it on this thread that I am a good guy?All u have to do is let me prove that to you.









Sent from iphone 5 version 6

caselss take note!!

mascot87:
How many time will I say it on this thread that I am a good guy?All u have to do is let me prove that to you.









Sent from iphone 5 version 6

caselss take note!!

zuchyblink: you are right,what is good or bad is environmentally determined.they should not be complaining when bullied and treated like thieves by their so much cherished bad dudes.it should be fun to be beaten up by their bad dudes.a lady was beaten to the extent of one of her eye was condemned,and she was still shouting ''but i still love him'' that is obsession.