Happy families are the best.

Happiness will matter, ignore and build with your wife.since you are comfortable you will move into the upper class with hard work.

Is it just me or is this story just another concoction to gain traffic? I wouldn't be surprised if this thread hits front page

rmember dat sayin ''all dat glitters is not GOLD''. U most not giv in wit wat ur parent re sayin, dey wont b there when d catacata start to surface. So stay with ur fiancee.

You are the one that will be living till death do u part with this woman. If u want to live your life to please your parents because of their shallowness and greed, go ahead. Keep in mind that your fiance will move on and marry a guy that has some guts to say no.

stick to ur fiancee...marriage is a union between 2 pple, and u will be the one who will have to deal with consequences that come with it, not ur family

Even if u are jobless, dont succumb. Moreso, u work n she works. There is no advice needed here......USE UR HEAD!

Kzinne,

Like others have said, I will also join in to say stick to your fiancee. Your family is money conscious(I'm sorry for saying this); trading their son's destiny, future, peace of mind, health for a "morsel of porridge".

I know deep within you, your mind is set on marrying your fiancee, you only want to read other people's comment to help buttress your stand; now you have it!

Hasn't it occurred to your people:
*How she could be single till that age?
*The source of her money.
*Her intention to marry a younger man(she wants a gigolo) etc

Please go ahead with your decision; when you start making money, they will come around. Money is their weak point.

Dude,be a man and follow your heart...Never marry 4 money and never marry out of pressure. Stick to ur guns and marry your fiancee against their wish. Your family might hate u,carry out their threats buh u might live an entire life of regret if u marry that oldie!

So u need advice for this? An u're supposed to be a man? For u to even ask this,means u're a weakling. My own father once tried to force me to date a girl I didnt like & I didnt act in a diplomatic way when telling him I wasnt interested. I told him & the girl off with a straight face. Do so now! It's ur life to live.

Bros, what else du u need? U ave a promising Job @ hand,likewise ur wife alzo... And its nt lik ur WIFE will b a LIABILITY to u...

U guyz are stil young,and u can build ur life around ursef... Money coms and go,bur love stays 4 life..

The word LOVE entails evrytin money,house etc.... Be wise bro

Kzinne: I need your advise please. I met my wife to be back in the university. We were in the same department and one thing led to another and we fell in love. After school i got a job in a bank and she also got a job in a bank. We started planning towards marriage after i proposed to her. Our families met as per the introduction and a wedding date was fixed. However my uncle came to my office and introduced a woman to me. Shes in her forties and he says the family prefers her to be my wife. I was beyond words. I asked my parents and they also agreed with my uncle. They insist this woman would make a better wife since shes very wealthy and they dont want me to marry on a suffering note. I refused but they stood their ground saying they wouldnt be part of my marriage to my present fiancee. The wealthy woman has gone ahead to buy a house in our both names and has given me one of her business concerns. My fiancee is devastated. Please advise me what do i do?

This is the problem with african families, they believe they can run ur life...geez...feel sorry for u

Kzinne: I need your advise please. I met my wife to be back in the university. We were in the same department and one thing led to another and we fell in love. After school i got a job in a bank and she also got a job in a bank. We started planning towards marriage after i proposed to her. Our families met as per the introduction and a wedding date was fixed. However my uncle came to my office and introduced a woman to me. Shes in her forties and he says the family prefers her to be my wife. I was beyond words. I asked my parents and they also agreed with my uncle. They insist this woman would make a better wife since shes very wealthy and they dont want me to marry on a suffering note. I refused but they stood their ground saying they wouldnt be part of my marriage to my present fiancee. The wealthy woman has gone ahead to buy a house in our both names and has given me one of her business concerns. My fiancee is devastated. Please advise me what do i do?

This is the problem with african families, they believe they can run ur life...geez...feel sorry for u

Guy, follow your heart do not let anyone "trade" with your affection and future.
Why didn't your Uncle marry a wealthy older woman in his days. Money is not everything, do not let the bling make you "abort" the actualization of your dreams. Ask your folks what how rich your Mum was before your Dad married her, and yet they were able to see you through. Have you tried do dig out how this older woman made her bucks? Guy don't eat what you don't know.

This story is faker than iniedo's boobbs!

Flashaldrin: This story is faker than iniedo's boobbs!

stop saying what you dont know

sad you're a male like me.
A real disappointment.
A group of persons that have no respect for you dnt deserve to be called family.Its not like there is a justified reason why they want you to leave who you chose.
Sad it has to be your uncle who has to tell u a family decision.Worse you gave ur fiancee a reason to think you dnt knw a way out.Even being given a part of business.
I dnt preach moralty but really are you sure you are ready for marriage?