If a woman rubs a man on his chest, arms, back or neck on about 3 occasions there is a 98% chance that the woman is sexually interested in the man, even if its a married woman doing the rubbing, or the man is a married man receiving such rubbing from a single woman! but some men don't know this!

a woman who is being chased by a man that has money will make the man feel so special, that the man will think hes the only one who is having an affair with her. unknown to him that as soon as he leaves her she has another rich man coming for his own frolick
and this is how some women juggle 3 or more men at a time, all the while they will be milking them.

one of the rich men will buy her car, another will buy her house, another will buy her dresses, another will pay for airtrips, another will give cash for general spending etc

the men could range from an alhaji, to bsuiness man, to accountant, to medical doctor, to engineer, to soldier, to a chief and all the while they will be wondering if the money they gave her is enough to buy the nice dress they saw her wearing, or the nice food they are eating at her place unknown to them its one of the other men that bought her the dress, or gave her the moeny for the food!

So these woman are robbing peter to pay paul!

same thing in secondary school and university. girls will pretend that they want to borrow textbook or notes or pencil etc with the aim of using this to start a conversation or getting the attention of the boys. they will say they don't understand what the teacher taught that can the boy come and teach them at home or can they do homework together on a day that that there is nobody in her house!

so when a woman claims that a man is sexually assulting her or is making unwelcome advances toward her, it makes not sence to me because any woman has sexed more men than  men have sexed women. because they receive a heavy supply of men, however men dont necessarily get a heavy supply of women. the average woman is being chased by about 10-30 men at any time. while the average man is being chased by about 2 women at a time!

but what it means when a woman declines a mans sexual advances it could mean one of  many things note that women do not point blank come out and say no to a sexual advance:

1 it could be that she dosnt find him sexually attractive, but if he remains her freind long enough she may develop a liking for him and eventually consider it
2 It could be that she not only wants to sex him, but she also wants a relationship with him
3 It could be shes the jealous type, i.e she wants to know if she will be the only woman to have you to herself
4 It could mean she donst want the man to come on to her but that instead she will prefer to appraoch the man about it
5 It could mean the setting and environment is not condusive. meaning if you were in her living room she might have given it a second thought
6 It could mean its her time of the month
7 It could mean she might really be busy at that time
8 It might mean she already has enough sexual partners and will only be interested as soon as one of her guys leave her
9 It may mean she did not take a bath that day and dosnt want you to smell anything funny
10 It could be that she has observed the guy is a noise maker and eveyone will know as soon as he has had her!
11 It may be that there are people around listening to your conversation with her
12 It may be that the man is too physically aggresive
13 It may be that she wants a particular level of trust to know if the man is not an armed robber or into something funny

Sometimes women will tell the man directly the reason some may say its your approach, that you are too aggresive, some may say you didnt even tell them about yourself or introduce yourself property, or your too rude etc


as i said note that women do not flat out come and tell a man that no they will not have anything sexual to do with them! this is an explanation as to why a rich woman will sleep with her driver , if and only if they can't find anyone else decent to have it with, especially if they have not had it for a long time i.e when aggro has set in lol

meaning at the point of a long standing aggro, if a woman is approached by her driver and there is no one around she will most likely give in.

Another issue is that nigerian women will never show up or support their husband when they are at the lower level or earlier on in their career expeciallly if he is not the boss . if they post the man to a far rural place they will say i will stay in lagos, abuja or port harcourt.

but as soon as the man becomes the chief of army staff or the md of the company or wins an election, they will show face immediately.  by which time the man may have already had another wife and children outside,  who he may have met at work or a social event or somewhere

and the newer woman is the one who will stayed with the man through thick and thin and this ends up in fight between the two women.

there are many men who had wifes that did this kind of thing to them, an example is obasanjo some of his wives abandoned him earlier on in his career because he had no money, but as soon as he became nigerias number 2 and eventaully number 1 after murtala , women where looking for him all over.

after some years when obj returned to poverty again all his women and wifes abandoned him again until 2000 when he became president again and women started looking for him again. can you imagine such a thing!

so this sew-saw marriage and relationship game that women play i advise them to desist. you see theres a certain fun when a man and a woman are rising in life together they can recollect, reflect, laugh about some of the things they went through and did together and they can use this experience to advise younger couples

there are a lot of men that abandon their wives as soon as a leave a position of money and power because they know that their wifes only came back looking for them when they got to that office and as soon as they leave that office they will abandon them again , so the man wont even wait for the money he made in the new position to dwindle/finish, instead the man will just leave the house for the women and start living in another house.

another issue is that there are some women who used their puzzy to help thier husband to get a particular position or office. and so if a woman can do that it means that woman can not only be a bread winner but can also help a man to reach a position in society that would normally take him between 5-30 years to reach!

in nigeria there are some women that have helped their husband to become directors, governors, ministers,  managers etc in some cases the men dont know that it was their wifes puzzy that got them that office , in some cases their husbands may know but they will either close eye as if they dont know or they will start pimping thier own wife i.e they will be encouraging  thier wife to sleep with many rich and powerful men so as to secure more and more success!

if you have ever seen a woman that her husband allows her to be dressing scantily in public even when they go out together to social outings, then most likely that man is a man that pimps his own wife!

Wow, Sylva. This thread you are passing, Na wa for you o! As if no be for Naija you dey ma sef. Sec has a lot of reasons to sleep with the boss; besides she has to secure her job to herself, you know.

be very careful what you say. everyone knows a super eagle mother

"its all about keeping my job"

that's what you hear from most ladies!

some women virtually push thier husband to sleep with his secretary or other women:

they do this because the man may not be giving his wife the kind of money she wants or he has not attained the kind of success she has in mind!

and so thier wife start witholding puzzy, food and friendliness from their husband!


there are many women who remain psychologically barren i.e have not had children because they are not proud of their husbands achievment or money!

so in a situation when thier wife is witholding puzzy and friendliness or remains barren what do you expect some men do

you guess is as good as mine----they will naturally turn to office romance, or office puzzy i.e their secretary or some other woman in the office, because those are the women he around most often apart from his wife!

but to the secretary or office lady, that man whos wife is mistreating him , is big meat to them!

so some people dont know wha they have till they loose it!

so apart from power, money, success, and popularity

another thing that women love in a man who is well structured, and definate plan for his future and they have to see that he is working towards these plans.

women like a man that can be decisive, commit to and stick with thier decisions

in short woman want an alrounder man: powerful, popular, rich, intelligent

women do not like hearing excuses from a man expecially when it comes to money and power, however they dont mind listening to an action plan from a man about how he plans on getting the additional money and power that he needs.

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a woman is  like an airplane with passengers on board.

once they get to a particluar cruising altitude they will unbuckle their seatbelt , remove their shoes, stretch thier legs, and turn on the tv or listen to some music.

an example is kofi annan, his white oyibo wife is not going anywhere because she proud of the man and he even has money too after all he was doing contracts with united nations, she will not even find many white men who have acheve the height that kofi annan has achieved.

another exmple of this is maryam babangida, her husband has reached a particular cruising altitide and she feels so proud of him that theirs no amount of money that anybody can offer her to leave him.

because even if she follows a richer man , the richer man may not have the kind of power, popularity, success, or influence that babangida has! so based on that she will stay put besides IBB is a trillionaire so even if a zillionaire came along it really wouldnt make any diiference because both a trillionare and zillionaire can afford the same bentley and the same gulfsteam jet.

a woman can see it in a mans eyes if he will be successful, powerful  and rich
women watch a man in school or in an office to see the way be behaves when hes reading or the way hes concentrating on his work when theres nobody around,
thats how women guage if the man will be somebody in life.

its for this reason that a woman from a rich powerful family may marry a man who is not as well to do, just because she has seen it in that guys eyes and she is willing to commit to follow the man on his journey. also such girls are interested to know what its like to rise from stuggling to success since they never witnessed it when she grew up.

if there where no women  in this life i can tell you that about 99% of men would not care about money, popularity , power etc as long as they have food to eat and where they will sleep lol

im not saying that woman is an unnecessary evil, but it may be that womans function is to make men serious, hardworking etc

women need romance everyday for about 1-3 hours   3 times a day (morning, afternoon  and night)

while a man only needs romance once a week or once a month, but the romance will have to be for the whole day.

so sex to man is like romance to woman.


this is why a woman will read romance novels in her spare time at work

this is also why if a man need sexing and his wife is not around he will mostly likely masturbate

but for women its not the same , they prefer to have the real penise, partly because what they read in the romance novels and partly because they need to physically touch a man and talk to the man even if its a few words.

this is because women are more sensitive to touch than men i.e they like touching and being touched. they like hugging, caresssing, etc

@jiimmyjam
u no dey tire? Why don't u just write a novel about why secretaries sleep with their bosses?

manmustwack, a lot of people are eagerly reading and enjoying these explanations you know, why not join in and make a contribution, did i stop you?

because as you know just the way man must wack
also the way man cannot live on puzzy alone, just as woman cannot live on romance alone!

so as i was saying:

a woman whos husband is rich can leave him for a man that has both money and power.

a woman whos husband is powerful but poor , will follow other man for money but will not leave her husband. as soon as her husband get big money she will stop following those other men for money.

a woman whos huband is rich will be watching the man who is powerful but poor, as soon as he adds money to the power, she will leave her husband for him.

so some women are playing casino with their husbands,

and even young girls do this to thier boyfriends

in a similar manner:

a man that has a wife who is fine with nice body that nags too much , he will leave her for a women that is stress free and does not nag

a man that has a wife who is stress free and ugly, will follow  other fine women but will not leave his wife.

a man that has a wife who is stress free and ugly, will leave her once he finds a woman that is both fine with nice body and stress free all in one.


so some men are playing kalo-kalo or kashi with thier wives and girlfriends!

so some men are collecting abuse from thier wife, she treats him anyhow and he wont leave her because she is too fine.

same thing some women will be collecting abuse from ther husband , he treats her any how and she wont leave him because he has power and money.

how can a rich and powerful hausa man cut off a womans finger as a sign to marry her, so that nobody will want to marry her if she leaves him.

such a man is insecure that he may loose his money and power at anytime and hes scared he his wife will abandon him.

there are many women in nigeria who married hausa men even as 2nd, 3rd, 4th wife because of their money and power. and those women some dont mind if they cut their finger as traditional sign of marriage.

as soon as things get bad for the man, or hausa is not the president in nigeria some of his wives may abandon him for men from the south!

these things ive seen with my own eyes , i have seen a woman who was married to a hausa man and her finger was cut off and then was looking for a politician from the south who was close to obasanjo, but the man refused to marry her because he knows after all hes not blind.

this same woman now that yar adua is president has gone back to beg her hausa husband that shes sorry etc


this is why i said women primarily are attracted to men that are in power or have power or the potential to get it. as well those that have influence, popular, money etc

if you observe peacoks you will notice a similar behaviour in them:

the female peacocks will mate with the male peacock that has the biggest and most beutiful feathers (money) and that succesfully fights off all the other males thereby controlling the largest territory


infact due to this all the female peacocks will want to mate with and have offspring with that particular male.

this leave the other male peacocks without puzzy and without offspring , when they even appraoch a female peacok, the females run away from them.

so that research on the female genetics being the major cause of their desire for money and power appears to have some weight.

men and women will settle for the next best thing:

if a man can only get a woman with a nice buttocks and small breasts he will manage her.

if a woman can only get a rich man that has powerful connections she will manage him.

a womans puzzy gets wet when a women is the the presence of a man with money and power especially in the bedroom. her puzzy will not be as wet if the man does not have money and power in the same bedroom.


a man gets erection when hes in presence of a fine well shape woman especially in the bedroom. he will not have erection if the woman is shapeless like rubber slippers, infact he will just go to sleep, because such women are like valium.

U dey yarn dust sha oo, u get skull at all?

ummmmm ??!!!

if im not mistaken nues aweso = seun osewa backwards

how far seun lol

i guessed it all along that seun was a girl

so seun do you have any reservations, questions or would you like to comment on this issue please we want to hear it,

so a woman is more of a love-vendor and men are like hos


because women allow a man to be in control in the bedroom during sexual activity, but the thing is that the man has only control few women in the bedroom, while the woman has been controlled by man men in the bedroom.

what this means is that any man that is about to have sexual activity with a woman should tell the woman that she is the one that has to handle him o, because by doing that that not only will the woman derive more plesure for herself , and the man will notice that woman knows how to use her puzzy to sweet him much better than if he is the one in control in bed.

based on this women enjoy sex more than men because woman is the only one who will enjoy if the man is the one controlling in bed.

and most of time its men cotrolling in the bed.

but if the man tells the women to control the sex in the bed, he will find out that the woman was enjoying his penise all this while and he was not enjoying her puzzy until she took control.

thats why some men get tired of thier wife puzzy because they never allowed their wife to handle them, instead they are the one who want to handle her.

the only reason why women dont like handling men is because a man will not last as long because the thing will be too sweet. but as a whole women prefer if they handle because it give both man and woman maximum sweetness of enjoyment lol

women will use a spy in her husbands office to know what hes up to and which woman hes following. it could be security guard, a receptionist, a person even in another department!