naija babes in da house oya make una answer this question.
you get a thriving career as a pharmacist,medical doctor or a very prospective banker.u come get boyfriend wey u wan marry but the guy say b4 u marry am u must drop ur career and ur job and prepare to be a house wife when una come marry.He go also say dat for im village na men dey work while the women dey house dey look after the pickins dem.he go also say dem dey forbid for im village for a woman to be a working class babe.he go tell u make u no worry about being a house wife because he go dey give u regular monthly allowance and he go also open a big provision store for house for u were u go dey sell provisions and other things.now ur guy tell u say if u no agree to these terms then he go have no choice than to terminate the wedding plans.now if u be a naija babe and u dey such a situation na wetin u go do?.b4 u answer this question make u remember at the back of ur mind say husband dey very scarce for naija ooo.looking for husband be like seaching for gold

u mean ll i cut off my source of income and accept stipends from a man just to make him feel like the man he isn't?? hell no! he can call off the wedding if he wants.... ain't soothing anyone's ego




and there is no such thing as men being scarce, its a state of mind

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Abeg make im go im village go marry wife joor, rather dan ruin d life of a sucessful woman jare! Which kind madness be dis? So all her hardwork since she become human being na 4 nothing abi?

Abi o..... He can go to blazes ...hell, NO!......can't fly with me.. I will always manage my home and job. But leaving my own buisness that av grown from the scratch to an enviable company.. Go to blazes!

After 4yrs in school?? After all the suffering and sleepless nights??
No naw... He has to accept me just the way I am or no deal...

Any man who still thinks like that deserves to b gunned down.

tpacalipse: Any man who still thinks like that deserves to b gunned down.

ok what of igbo men wey dey marry graduates and dey put them for house as house wife.wetin u wan yarn about that?
i know one igbo spare part dealer for near my area.the woman wey he marry na graduate but he open store for the woman na provision she dey sell

Tell him to stop smoking whatever he is smoking

victorian: Abi o..... He can go to blazes ...hell, NO!......can't fly with me.. I will always manage my home and job. But leaving my own buisness that av grown from the scratch to an enviable company.. Go to blazes!

so if he rich as dangote make he still go to blazes?

I won't marry a man who expects me to sit home all day without a career, no no....and there is no such thing as men being scarce.

lefulefu:
so if he rich as dangote make he still go to blazes?

The more reason why he'll go to blazes. It means he's assuming his money is all i need .

Even if the man is as rich as dangote, he is an antelope

You took the right words out of my mouth

gree-die:
u mean ll i cut off my source of income and accept stipends from a man just to make him feel like the man he isn't?? hell no! he can call off the wedding if he wants.... ain't soothing anyone's ego




and there is no such thing as men being scarce, its a state of mind

Shu I beg to differ- I would gladly give up my career and focus on my home. My kids would get my full attention and guidance. There are a million and one things I can do from home asides "provision shop". My picture is not the village scene though- more of expatriates in a country I love, running my NGO and personal business on the side, going on trips especially with my kids,planning and executing me times with boo... Truth be told- I don't mind the house wife thingy as long as he is capable and not overworking himself. I also wouldn't mind supporting him as well if need be. My kids would be a major investment - being an active part of their lives is the least I would be willing to do. This is my "ideal"

WAM?:
Shu I beg to differ- I would gladly give up my career and focus on my home. My kids would get my full attention and guidance. There are a million and one things I can do from home asides "provision shop". My picture is not the village scene though- more of expatriates in a country I love, running my NGO and personal business on the side, going on trips especially with my kids,planning and executing me times with boo... Truth be told- I don't mind the house wife thingy as long as he is capable and not overworking himself. I also wouldn't mind supporting him as well if need be. My kids would be a major investment - being an active part of their lives is the least I would be willing to do. This is my "ideal"

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