mekaboy: HELLO, THIS THREAD OF FOR NAIRALAND MEN WHO HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR OVER 10 WITHOUT CHEATING FOR A DAY, PLEASE SHARE YOUR SECRETS WITH WE SINGLE AND NEWLY MARRIED MEN.

rokiatu:

How is that secret gonna help you?

Your mind, values, morals, love/respect for your wife, and the fear of God will help you not other people secrets/tips.

NA WA OO, I ASKED FOR SECRET FROM MEN, NA ONLY WOMEN DEY ANSWER, MEN WHERE UNA DEY

rokiatu: Family section would have been better for this sort of thread. Here you are only gonna get crap answers...I doubt people on here are even married. Well maybe 10% only.

Tell the moderators to take this to family section you may get load of advice over there. Beside why not just throw the question at married men why the time frame?OK MODERATORS, ABEG KINDLY MOVE THIS TO FAMILY SECTION. THE REASON WHY I PUT THE TIME FRAME, IS BECAUSE BY THAT TIME THEIR WIFE MUST HAVE GIVEN BIRTH TO 2 CHILDREN OR MORE, AND SHE WONT LOOK THE SAME

mekaboy: NL MEN ABEG NO FALL MY HAND OO, ALL THOSE FOR RELIGION SECTION ABEG COME AND SAVE ME FROM SHAME .

fellis:

lol @ religion section.
OP your thread is going to be a lonely one. 99.9% men don't know the meaning of marital fidelity.

Men una dey hear am? una go keep quiet ?

greatgod2012: We are married close to 8yrs now, and i can authentically, confidently and certainly tell u that he has never, i mean, never! cheated on me and im sure i can never cheat on him..... I'd rather die being faithful than live as an unfaithful wife. Hes also a NLander, but has never being to this section, may be, if he agrees, i will tell him to log in to dis section and answer for himself..........but, again, im 100% sure that he has never cheated on me ... Thanks.

SORRY TO ASK, BUT DO U PUT A TRACKER ON HIS MANHOOD?

ikekings: My bro, it ain't easy at all... To be with one woman for 10yrs... I thank God for giving me the strength to be able to overcome the things of the flesh... Besides, i love and respect my wife a lot... I won't dare to cheat on her... That's the last thing i will do... Above all i give thanks to God for everything...

mekaboy: HMM SO U HAVE NEVER CHEATED? AND YOU BEEN MARRIED FOR CLOSE TO 10YRS? OK LETS HAVE YOUR SECRET..

ikekings: The fear of God in me... The love, respect and kindness from my wife is enough for me...

fellis:
Congratz.
Keep it up man, more grease to your elbow and I wish you more happy and fruitful years in your marriage.

plaetton: Its a simple case of mind over body. But I can tell you, its a di.ck killer.
I am beginning to wonder if monogamy is the natural order at all.
lol.

mekaboy:

So your saying you have to sacrifice your manhood to stay.faithful.

tai2: As long as women flirt, men will cheat. These days no one even hides the fact that they are married anymore before they start cheating.

plaetton:
That is the question I am asking.
Is polygamy the natural order?
Is monogamy the natural order or is it just moral code that society,western society,imposes on us?.
I am not talking here of what is deemed to be social or religious morality.
I am talking about men's biology,physiology, health and genetic proclivity.

fellis:

The way you asked the questions makes it seem like you do not believe that monogamy is the natural order.
It's not a bad question though. I am also curious about it.