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| Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by mekaboy(m): 3:26pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
HOW WILL YOU FEEL AS A MARRIED MAN, IF YOUR WIFE WHO IS WORKING COMES AND TELLS YOU SHE WANTS TO SUPPORT HER EX BF WITH SOME MONEY TO START A BUSINESS SINCE HE LOST HIS BANKING JOB ?WHAT WILL YOUR RESPONSE BE ? |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by omega25red(m): 3:31pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
 My first question will be how did she get this info and what is compelling her to consider it. depending on her answer ............. |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by Andrew3(m): 3:38pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
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| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by wissezy: 3:46pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Hell no! I ain't dumb. |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by mekaboy(m): 3:51pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
omega25red:THE WORLD HAS CHANGED NOW, SOCIAL MEDIA DEY, PEOPLE EASILY KEEP IN TOUCH, FACEBOOK ETC. THAT PEOPLE BREAK UP IS NOT A MUST THEY WILL FIGHT, MAYBE DISTANCE AND OTHER ISSUE CAUSED THEM TO BREAK UP. |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by mekaboy(m): 3:52pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
wissezy: Hell no! I ain't dumb. DONT FORGET ITS HER MONEY, SHE COULD HAVE DONE IT WITHOUT TELLING YOU . |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by Pacify: 4:07pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
You seem to have a different opinion to all the suggestions. Since u already know the answer to it, why start a thread 2 Likes |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by Mynd44: 4:08pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
mekaboy:Thank you bro. If it was the husband who wants to support his ex will we be even discussing this? If your wife is kind enough to want to help people you should be happy that your wife ain't selfish instead of suspecting her of crap. We Men should learn to trust a lil bit more. Atleast until we have prove that something is actually wrong |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by mekaboy(m): 4:10pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Pacify: You seem to have a different opinion to all the suggestions.NO BRO, I AM SIMPLY SHEDDING MORE LIGHT ON THE OPTIONS, SO WE DONT GET QUICK TO ANSWER WITHOUT GETTING THE WHOLE PICTURE CLEAR. |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by mekaboy(m): 4:12pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Mynd_44:BROSS ITS EASIER TO SAY, THE DAY YOUR WIFE WILL APPROACH YOU WITH THAT STORY, THE FIRST PICTURE YOU WILL GET IS HER HAVING SEX WITH HER EX ON YOUR BED. SOME MEN WILL EVEN SEND HER PACKING IMMEDIATELY BEFORE SHE AND HER EX KILL HIM AND TAKE OVER |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by Mynd44: 4:16pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
mekaboy: BROSS ITS EASIER TO SAY, THE DAY YOUR WIFE WILL APPROACH YOU WITH THAT STORY, THE FIRST PICTURE YOU WILL GET IS HER HAVING SEX WITH HER EX ON YOUR BED. SOME MEN WILL EVEN SEND HER PACKING IMMEDIATELY BEFORE SHE AND HER EX KILL HIM AND TAKE OVERFirst of all, you don't have to type in caps. It hurts the eyes. Now to your "issue", if she come to you that she is helping some random friend would you be bothered if you know she can spare the money? Well you should be glad she told you. That she respects and loves you enough to bring you in is a good thing. Remember, It is her money and the reason she is telling you is that she is with you as your wife and she does not want it to create problems in future. Cheers |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by mekaboy(m): 4:25pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Mynd_44:Thanks bro, what if she is telling you, so that if her ex tries to blackmail her tomorrow and threaten to tell you she has been given him money, she can say you already know.What if she is having an affair and wants to cover all tracks? Women can be smart sometimes. |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by Mynd44: 4:38pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
mekaboy: Thanks bro, what if she is telling you, so that if her ex tries to blackmail her tomorrowWell, what will you do? You dont have evidence to prove anything. You just have to watch |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by omega25red(m): 5:05pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
mekaboy: THE WORLD HAS CHANGED NOW, SOCIAL MEDIA DEY, PEOPLE EASILY KEEP IN TOUCH, FACEBOOK ETC. THAT PEOPLE BREAK UP IS NOT A MUST THEY WILL FIGHT, MAYBE DISTANCE AND OTHER ISSUE CAUSED THEM TO BREAK UP.Why all the caps? yes people do keep in touch but doesn't that introduce a new dynamic to your relationship? keeoing in touch with your ex and then having them hit you up for money that should be going to your own family. I can certainly understand helping out but nothing is ever straight forward most especially in the matters of man woman andm money. |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by mumumugu(m): 5:36pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
An ex is history and shud remain in d past. Havin anytin to do wit an ex is lyk a dog vomitin and goin bak to its vomit |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by mekaboy(m): 5:46pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
omega25red: Why all the caps?So what will your reaction be in this situation ? will u stay using condom during sex? |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by ikekings(m): 6:39pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Hmmm... Actually, i don't know...  |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by Exponental(m): 6:48pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Fortunately 4 me, my fiancee has no ex. On d oda hand, I will not. Being close 2 d opp sex attracts temptation. I will not encourage their close friendship. If I knew his story n WE feel he needs help....then, I can allow. |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by gwas(m): 6:54pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Odikwa risky! |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by Clairette(f): 6:56pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
omega25red: It must be love! |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by Clairette(f): 6:56pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
omega25red: It must be love! Her heart belongs there |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by Mynd44: 7:01pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Hmmm |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by mekaboy(m): 8:52pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
This one dey sensitive.so pple cant be friends anymore? what if the guy was supporting her when she was in school before distance and life seperated them. the guy is now married with kids and stay in another state. so now that the guy is in need, she should turn her back because she is married? what if she.helped him and u found out? |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by omega25red(m): 9:11pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
playing devil's advocate must be fun for you but seriously? Any spouse would question why their significant other is financially help out their ex BF/GF. I can understand ex husband/wife but ex BF/GF is crazy. |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by Nobody: 9:53pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Bad idea. She could help him find other pple to help him out. |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by Mynd44: 10:05pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
mondi_cheeks: Bad idea. She could help him find other pple to help him out.Well I don't mind |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by Nobody: 10:07pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Mynd_44:Good for u |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by jhydebaba(m): 10:18pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
See question  o'er my dead body.If she dares tell me such, she should consider herself fired |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by omotola1(m): 10:51pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Op, you are so much inconsistent with your “What ifs“ Why are u constantly creating new scenario? It‘s obvious u don‘t want an answer. Cos u keep bringing up new things with your “what ifs“. |
| Re: Will You Allow Your Wife To Support Her Ex Financially by mekaboy(m): 2:45pm On Dec 01, 2012 |
We can all see that a simple question like this can break up a marriage if not properly handled. Because this can increase the insecurity in the man and make him suspicious of his wife.It will take a born again christian, who trust his wife and her faith in GOD to allow his wife assist her ex without reading negative meaning into it. |
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