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Loneliness Or Desperation? by KateSpade(f): 6:11pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
I have an issue with my best friend. She just doesn't know how to completely cut off any male in her life. She will date numerous guys at the same time, get into an argument then continue talking to them for years because she believes someday they will change or they have 1 or 2 good qualities. The most recent guy is 33, with 3 kids who likes her but not enough to take her out on an actual date. I suggested months ago that she needs to get rid of him and she agrees and says that he is just there to keep her warm. I just don't know how to help her anymore nor do I want to hear about how he or the other dumb guys upset her anymore. I talked to my bf about it cuz every time we go out with her its always a different guy, he believes she is desperate. I know decent men that I could introduce her to but at the same time I don't think believe she is ready for someone good. What do u think? And what do you think I should advise her to do, or just avoid her anytime she brings these wasteful guys around? |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Exponental(m): 6:29pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
If she cant manage a relationship, do u fink she can manage marriage Free her, when she is ripe, she will wise up. |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Sijo01(f): 6:43pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Is she still a teenager? |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by KINGwax(m): 6:44pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
I'll like to see how ds folds. Got an ex like that too. She alwys finds a reason to go not with the wrong guy. I alwys feel for her |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
@OP, why u de smoke ciga for another man frustration? She's not ready to meet the right guy, so let her be. Shuo!!! |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by KateSpade(f): 7:01pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Sijo01: Is she still a teenager? No, she is 25 |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by KateSpade(f): 7:01pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
lrguru: @OP, why u de smoke ciga for another man frustration? Its different when its your best friend and she calls you crying |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Nobody: 7:04pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
KateSpade:but ur best friend aint u. |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Mynd44: 7:07pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Hmmm |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Sijo01(f): 7:13pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
KateSpade: In that case, she need to attend maturity classes. |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Mynd44: 7:15pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Sijo01:lol |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Lolaabokoku(f): 7:18pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
lrguru: @OP, why u de smoke ciga for another man frustration?i wonder ooo, he still dey drink panadol to another man headache |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by KateSpade(f): 7:22pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Sijo01: I think a lot of it has to do with her last relationship (the guy broke her heart) but even that ended over a year ago. |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
KateSpade: which relationship was the last? Tot she's been furrkin all this while? This story get as e be o |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by KateSpade(f): 7:52pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
lrguru: her last bf was over a year ago |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by blizzers(m): 8:22pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Is she a LEARNER? |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
It could be loneliness. But, there has to be more to it than that and why she believes she doesn't deserve better. |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Changing them like underwear lol |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
KateSpade:who then are those different guys she hangs around with? |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Sijo01(f): 10:57pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
KateSpade: she's not the first to experience heartbreak and she won't be the last....... Tell her to growup and be focus, so as to avoid stories that touches! |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by KateSpade(f): 11:05pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
lrguru: not boyfriends |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by queensmith: 4:26pm On Dec 01, 2012 |
.. |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Mynd44: 4:33pm On Dec 01, 2012 |
^^ where have you been lady? |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by KateSpade(f): 4:22am On Dec 02, 2012 |
queensmith: Of course she is desperate, who doesn't want a partner in life? Who is the loner that doesn't want company? You have a bf, you probably don't know how that is. Thanks! |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by tai2(m): 6:13am On Dec 02, 2012 |
Lol...your friends a hoe....its that simple...lol |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by IjeomaOkeke100(f): 5:58pm On Jan 08, 2013 |
Most of the ladies i know go through issues if not all. This one is just an issue with your friend and in due time she will be strong enough to let go of those guys, be free and be ready to meet her prince. Just advice her to stay away from men for now so that she learns more about herself. The right one will not even need to be searched for as he might be watching your friend but feels its not yet time |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by fitzmayowa: 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2013 |
Lolaabokoku: i wonder ooo, he still dey drink panadol to another man headache My thoughts exactly |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Jan 08, 2013 |
I know many girls like this. Friends with some also. Plainly speaking, she's just an eternal and emotional flirt. Her thoughts are conflicting yet she will not change her way of thinking. This makes her choices unwise and her relationships brief. You cannot help her. Sorry. In time, anything is possible. |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by AdeniyiA(m): 9:38pm On Jan 08, 2013 |
she needs SERIOUS deliverance! |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by KateSpade(f): 1:25am On Jan 09, 2013 |
Yea I realized there's nothing I can do. Never introduced her to my male friend, if I do it will be casual, nothing purposeful. As far as deliverance goes, you are free to pray. |
Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by MrsChima(f): 1:45am On Jan 09, 2013 |
Desperation isn't age specific. I know young chicks will date or Bleep anything and they r fit and attractive. |
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