“Before we got married, she used to wear ‘Camisole‘ & ‘Bump-short‘ (she‘s got this charming and sexy appearance). but now she has 3 kids and she goes around tying wrapper in the house. The sight of wrapper irritates me a lot, i see it as a thing only illiterates do. I complained to her about how i feel. But she said she needs to be free at home. Her appearance is pissing me off.“
This is an ordeal of a Nigerian man, what can he do?
Pls advice him.

I personally wonder why some women change in this wise after marriage.

Give her a break, she has 3 kids now. Has many things on her mind that just to play dress up for him.

Na to enter road now...

Epe wa lori yin!

Everythin about a woman just change automatically when she settles down in a mans house. Its really terrible

tpia1: Epe wa lori yin!

Means what?

She feels she has finally reached her destination Ñow, for better for worse thing
If I am the husband I'll threaten her with a young wife, I swear, she go sit tight.

How about he opens that big mouth of his and tell her how he feels about it... I don't understand how he would think she is illiterate. she also has the right to wear what she feels comfortable in, not everything is about him and wat he wants. She is a fvcking mother, how do u think the kids especially the girls if their mother continues roaming around the house in shorts showing off her butt cheeks I guess common sense isn't that common, has he for a moment thought about how putting on excessively revealing clothes would affect his children If he is clever enough to blubber abt it to everyone else why can't he tell his wife directly, instead of gossiping and insulting her behind her back. If he doesnt know that a successful marriage relies on good communication skills, why in the hell did he get married in the first place shameless weak men who know how to complain and insult but they are never clever enough to come up wit a sensible solution

To tie a wrapper can look attractive. the things under it can easily be removed if she is wearing anything underneath. the husband should take a different look at it. its good

lrguru: Everythin about a woman just change automatically when she settles down in a mans house. Its really terrible

well the man too grow fat and they become bossy, so I don't think women are the only ones who change. He gets this huge unattractive belly, sex with him becomes less exciting because that huge thing is always in the way

mondi_cheeks: well the man too grow fat and they become bossy, so I don't think women are the only ones who change. He gets this huge unattractive belly, sex with him becomes less exciting because that huge thing is always in the way

Lolz

jhydebaba: She feels she has finally reached her destination Ñow, for better for worse thing
If I am the husband I'll threaten her with a young wife, I swear, she go sit tight.

What if the young wife follow suit same trend?

Her husband needs to be patient.

OCTAVO:
What if the young wife follow suit same trend?

Exactly my thought.

mondi_cheeks: well the man too grow fat and they become bossy, so I don't think women are the only ones who change. He gets this huge unattractive belly, sex with him becomes less exciting because that huge thing is always in the way

Talking from experience?

Sincerely, im a woman and i hate that stuff, its not that tying wrapper has taken away all her good qualities like intelligence, submission, fear of God,love/affection, etc, but it has taken away one of d most important ingredients of attraction, which is "romance" tying wrapper presents u as a non-romantic wife, if she continues like that, she may push d man out. Most times, we women forget that men are most attracted with our looks.........having children should not be an excuse for us not to maintain those thing our hubby see in us and appreciate about us. So it is essential for us women to always present ourselves romantic for our men.......changing that makes us look like an hypocrite, i.e pretending to be romantic when we are not. Lets keep d fire burning.
As for me, im with 3 kids, and im always concerned about my looks, hair-do, etc.......always in sexy shorts, with my carmisol, and when it is evening, always in my see-thru night gown, always looking like how i was then. It helps to save marriages from external influence.
May God help us all.

greatgod2012: Sincerely, im a woman and i hate that stuff, its not that tying wrapper has taken away all her good qualities like intelligence, submission, fear of God,love/affection, etc, but it has taken away one of d most important ingredients of attraction, which is "romance" tying wrapper presents u as a non-romantic wife, if she continues like that, she may push d man out. Most times, we women forget that men are most attracted with our looks.........having children should not be an excuse for us not to maintain those thing our hubby see in us and appreciate about us. So it is essential for us women to always present ourselves romantic for our men.......changing that makes us look like an hypocrite, i.e pretending to be romantic when we are not. Lets keep d fire burning.
As for me, im with 3 kids, and im always concerned about my looks, hair-do, etc.......always in sexy shorts, with my carmisol, and when it is evening, always in my see-thru night gown, always looking like how i was then. It helps to save marriages from external influence.
May God help us all.

U are a modern day wiffy I know ur husband cant wait 4 work 2 close every day so dat he will rush home 2 see and feel those sexy thing u got lol

mondi_cheeks: How about he opens that big mouth of his and tell her how he feels about it... I don't understand how he would think she is illiterate. she also has the right to wear what she feels comfortable in, not everything is about him and wat he wants. She is a fvcking mother, how do u think the kids especially the girls if their mother continues roaming around the house in shorts showing off her butt cheeks I guess common sense isn't that common, has he for a moment thought about how putting on excessively revealing clothes would affect his children If he is clever enough to blubber abt it to everyone else why can't he tell his wife directly, instead of gossiping and insulting her behind her back. If he doesnt know that a successful marriage relies in good communication skills, why in the hell did he get married in the first place shameless weak men who know how to complain and insult but they are never clever enough to come up wit a sensible solution

If ur man start getting fatty and that thing keep getting on the way when he wana make luv 2 u, deny him intimacy and tell him 2 hit de gym and get six packs or else no punana 4 him lol

Tiein wrapa shldnt b a prob na..it depends on ao its been tied..

Shifiunited: Means what?

means "You people have been cursed"

Mynd_44:
means "You people have been cursed"

im learning new thing from u today..........

greatgod2012:


im learning new thing from u today..........

hmmmm I wonder what that is

Ucheosefoh: If ur man start getting fatty and that thing keep getting on the way when he wana make luv 2 u, deny him intimacy and tell him 2 hit de gym and get six packs or else no punana 4 him lol

well I'm not insensible and selfish...if its my husband I wld support him in losing it go to the gym wit him do a lil work out of my own, cook him much healthier meals, encourage him to do other activities that will keep him off the food. I wldnt go around gossiping about him like a 12year old girl at lunch break wit her friends . Men need to realise that jus because u proposed to her doesn't mean he is has matured. Marriage is a union when one starts to change, u show each other loyalty then. Most men don't like being criticised but they are the first to judge their own wives as if they were forced into marriage in the first place. Smh u will never get the respect u don't give

mondi_cheeks: He gets this huge unattractive belly, sex with him becomes less exciting because that huge thing is always in the way

Lmao!

Maybe she feels that that's how the husby wants her to dress. There's this African mentality that married women should tie wrappers always. But if this does not go down well with the man and it's sight disgusts him. What he should do is to sit his wife down, talk to her and tell her how he feels about it. Seriously if she dresses in those skimpy dresses, the man go still complain.

mondi_cheeks: well I'm not insensible and selfish...if its my husband I wld support him in losing it go to the gym wit him do a lil work out of my own, cook him much healthier meals, encourage him to do other activities that will keep him off the food. I wldnt go around gossiping about him like a 12year old girl at lunch break wit her friends . Men need to realise that jus because u proposed to her doesn't mean he is has matured. Marriage is a union when one starts to change, u show each other loyalty then. Most men don't like being criticised but they are the first to judge their own wives as if they were forced into marriage in the first place. Smh

U know some men hate gyming what if ur hubby refuse 2 hit the gym, what do u gona do

Ucheosefoh: U know some men hate gyming what if ur hubby refuse 2 hit the gym, what do u gona do

That just mean he does not have her interest at heart

personally, i like the idea of tying wrappers [just the one wrapper, right?], but its considered bush.

besides, people tend not to do that overseas.

Mynd_44:
means "You people have been cursed"

By you, you mean you, right?

Shifiunited: By you, you mean you, right?

I only translated her words. Nothing else. If you have problems with it, face the author

Ucheosefoh: U know some men hate gyming what if ur hubby refuse 2 hit the gym, what do u gona do

they are a whole lot of other activities we can do together that are much more fun, healthy and delicious meals we can try out...