Hey Nairalanders, those of you who have been lucky to find true love, help a brother out pls. I'm in search of true love, the one I thought I had has gone! How did you find true love if you've found it already. If you're like me, pls shut up and say nothing!

Where can I find true love?

Is there really a place one can find true love? True love is not subjective to a place. You can find true love anywhere. Just be patient and it will come without forcing it. You can start by looking out in church, place of work, cinema etc.

I met mine at my place of work and she has been a blessing to be cos I even proposed to her last week and it was such great moment for us.

Go to a stipper club, trust me you will find truest love.

Stripper club is definitely a place not to go in search of true love! OVER RULED!!!!

@2goodbobo

I agree there is no particular place to find true love but just want to get a few ideas on how you found yours! Insights is what am after not necessarily suggestions!

You came here lamenting a month ago that ur g.f of 4 yrs dumped u.you also said u aint dating in the near future so as to heal and face ur work...why did u change ur mind already,sounding desperate like a lady??

binger: You came here lamenting a month ago that ur g.f of 4 yrs dumped u.you also said u aint dating in the near future so as to heal and face ur work...why did u change ur mind already,sounding desperate like a lady??

Running your mouth like a hungry cry baby man, relax! Looking to pick a fight this morning bro? Either say something constructive or hold your peace! Let me worry about my life (Career, love life etc) while you worry about yours Okay?

#Change my mind like I ever hinted that#

First of all u hv to b ready to gv out true love so dat u can hv it frm som1 else. Keep ur mind strait abt wat u really want.Be strong. Dnt rush into a girl cos u THINK she is a good girl.try n make frnds wit grls first den frm there u can kw abt her. Dnt jst fall for a grl so much like dat b4 u get to kw. Her real self.it cld lead to heartbreak. Friendshp shld be d base of every relationshp.I mean REAL FRIENDSHIP nt jst kwin a little abt someone. There is an extent u wil b frnds wit a girl, u dnt need to woo her directly anymr. Wish I cld explain beta bt I jst hp u understnd a little of wat I mean.
Hey, I neva said it wld be easy bt u hv to go an extra mile if u want somtin authentic.
Remember to pray always.

Vince77: First of all u hv to b ready to gv out true love so dat u can hv it frm som1 else. Keep ur mind strait abt wat u really want.Be strong. Dnt rush into a girl cos u THINK she is a good girl.try n make frnds wit grls first den frm there u can kw abt her. Dnt jst fall for a grl so much like dat b4 u get to kw. Her real self.it cld lead to heartbreak. Friendshp shld be d base of every relationshp.I mean REAL FRIENDSHIP nt jst kwin a little abt someone. There is an extent u wil b frnds wit a girl, u dnt need to woo her directly anymr. Wish I cld explain beta bt I jst hp u understnd a little of wat I mean.
Hey, I neva said it wld be easy bt u hv to go an extra mile if u want somtin authentic.
Remember to pray always.

Thanks man, I appreciate your sensible comment and it's really helpful!

Abujafood:

Running your mouth like a hungry cry baby man, relax! Looking to pick a fight this morning bro? Either say something constructive or hold your peace! Let me worry about my life (Career, love life etc) while you worry about yours Okay?

#Change my mind like I ever hinted that#

No one is looking for a fight bro? Seems u need a lot of time to reason and comprehend a reply or u stop thinking backward...True love u say?,you can find it anywhere as long as u keep ur rigid mind open to love.Peace!

Op if u can answer d following question truthfully u may or mayn't find ur true luv?
1.Are u some1 dat see women as nothing but sex object?
2.Are u some1 dat believe if he has money he can get any girl?
3.Are u some1 dat believe if he doesn't see a girl's pant he wont give his all?
4.Are u some1 who believe if a girl doesn't have figure 8,he wont bother asking her out?
5.Finally are u responsible,faithful,Godly,respectful and discipline?

binger: No one is looking for a fight bro? Seems u need a lot of time to reason and comprehend a reply or u stop thinking backward...True love u say?,you can find it anywhere as long as u keep ur rigid mind open to love.Peace!

Why didn't you start your initial reply with this instead? What did it cost you to say something constructive?

luvmijeje: Op if u can answer d following question truthfully u may or mayn't find ur true luv?
1.Are u some1 dat see women as nothing but sex object?
2.Are u some1 dat believe if he has money he can get any girl?
3.Are u some1 dat believe if he doesn't see a girl's pant he wont give his all?
4.Are u some1 who believe if a girl doesn't have figure 8,he wont bother asking her out?
5.Finally are u responsible,faithful,Godly,respectful and discipline?

JAMB 2013(Leaked questions)

luvmijeje: Op if u can answer d following question truthfully u may or mayn't find ur true luv?
1.Are u some1 dat see women as nothing but sex object?
2.Are u some1 dat believe if he has money he can get any girl?
3.Are u some1 dat believe if he doesn't see a girl's pant he wont give his all?
4.Are u some1 who believe if a girl doesn't have figure 8,he wont bother asking her out?
5.Finally are u responsible,faithful,Godly,respectful and discipline?

Actually I'm nice to a fault! I'm more interested in a lady's wit, attitude and character than her appearance although appearance is also important. I can't stand girls that act like money is more important than other people's welfare so once I notice a girl is materialistic or covetous I just pull away! I respect women who respect themselves, those who lack dignity and character lose my respect and trust.

Bros binger wetin happen,na u I ask?

Op ans d last question.

Op I want u 2 ans d no 5 questn,if u can ans truthfully and is in affirmative then u ve done most of d job,just be patience coz u re a dream guy 4 every lady dat know d true worth of a man.

luvmijeje: Bros binger wetin happen,na u I ask?

hian! Dear luv,i only joked with it nah *seems lyk am the only one that slept well last nyt*

You don't actually search for love, it finds you. You just wake up one day and realise that you want a certain person so much that he/she feels like gravity. No matter what you do and no matter where you go, you are pulled in her direction

binger: why did u change ur mind already,sounding desperate like a lady??

so what do u call hitting on girls on NL?

Mynd_44: You don't actually search for love, it finds you. You just wake up one day and realise that you want a certain person so much that he/she feels like gravity. No matter what you do and no matter where you go, you are pulled in her direction

Yeah, thanks man I've actually thought the same way too. I was only hoping to hear of other experiences or ways one could find it.

Abujafood:

Yeah, thanks man I've actually thought the same way too. I was only hoping to hear of other experiences or ways one could find it.

Na so

Mynd_44:
Na so

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Abujafood:

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Wetin?

Mynd_44: You don't actually search for love, it finds you. You just wake up one day and realise that you want a certain person so much that he/she feels like gravity. No matter what you do and no matter where you go, you are pulled in her direction

hmmmmmm

mondi_cheeks: so what do u call hitting on girls on NL?

lol...have i ever hit on u? Was i desperate?

start with yourself man. if u dont truly love yourself first, you setting yourself up for disaster. we spend soo much time focused on loving others or finding someone to love us that we loose the point of truely loving ourselves first. so love yourself first and u will realize u dont even have to search for true love, you guys will bump into eachother. infact the more you search the more you look like a hungry wolf. lol, i dont think ladies re looking for a guy on the prowl but a guy well rested!. my view.

binger: lol...have i ever hit on u? Was i desperate?

I never said me...I jus mean a lot of guys on this forum like saying women are desparate wen they are the ones fond of hitting on a woman they have never seen before or someone they r not even sure if it is a woman at all

mondi_cheeks: I never said me...I jus mean a lot of guys on this forum like saying women are desparate wen they are the ones fond of hitting on a woman they have never seen before or someone they r not even sure if it is a woman at all

thats harsh mondi....kilode! lol

The bank, you can start from there

mondi_cheeks: I never said me...I jus mean a lot of guys on this forum like saying women are desparate wen they are the ones fond of hitting on a woman they have never seen before or someone they r not even sure if it is a woman at all

okay...well,those guys are either playing around or just looking for a way to get acquainted to the lady...but few times,they act out of desperation.

binger: okay...well,those guys are either playing around or just looking for a way to get acquainted to the lady...but few times,they act out of desperation.

I knw they are the nice ones who jus want to get acquainted...but I'm talking about the ones that do it it the intention to "date" the person

mondi_cheeks: I knw they are the nice ones who jus want to get acquainted...but I'm talking about the ones that do it it the intention to "date" the person

Ehen! What else is the forum meant for-discussion and dating...some got married after meeting here,just by chatting...