There has bin this funny but true trend
You meet a guy, u guys start dating and its just like  he can't live without u as he is just all over you.You guys talk about virtually about everything and anything under the sun.Meanwhile during the course of getting to know each other, you have made this one thing clear: NO SEX UNTIL AFTER MARRIAGE! and he doesnt object neither does he bhave as if he can't just cope with that.
Months into your relationship, he starts bringing up the issue and it gradually becomes an issue and a soource of misunderstanding.Then when ure not yielding, he starts dating someone else.When u find out, you can't stand it and u guys decides to talk about in and in the process u both willingly decide to go your separate ways.Of course he is too willing to call it off.Obviously,he continueS with this his new found love.
Surprisingly,few months after uve both decided to call it over, he starts calling and he wants to come back into your life.
Trust me, i REFUSE but he never seem to give up, even till tomorrow.
The truth is why do they  keep wanting to come back after treating me the way they have done?
Dont be suprised that this has happenen with two guys in a row and it has been almost the same story all through trust me.
PLS WHAT DO You ALL THINK?

well, girl, that has been the common problem among lovers. it happen to me also,but, i thank God that we have resolve it recently. you know what, it is a normal thing, it's what a guy must ask from his girl, so, it depend on howfar you guyz have gone before you encounter such problem, I for instance have such problem when we dated for 3yrs. but thank God we have settled. later

The reason for coming back is to see if he could still get you in the sack because he spent all that time with you and he couldn't score with you.

If i were you i would not be tricked into marrying him because he would get some sex and be out.

quick question what influenced your decision to not have sex untill marriage is it religion? or are you scared of sex or better yet have you had sex beofre and now you changed? no disrepect meant by these questions just wondering.

he's coming back cos he wants a taste of the elusive pie!

"Mission unaccomplished"

TOYOSI20:

"Mission unaccomplished"

Na real mission unaccomplished.

omaga25red
Thanks 4 all that.The fact is that i made up my mind whilst growing to abstain.
Its just a standard.God has got standards which HE will never bend.
Consequences notwithstanding my mind is made up.Let me keep myself for that one man that God will eventually bless me with.I want to also be a standard for my children yet unbornI dont have to know who he is b4 i do the right thing which is keeping myself for him.that is the height of trust u might say!

@derin007, my word for you is that, you can still take him back, cos the guy has realise his mistake that is why he wants you back and his going to play the game according to how you want it. so give him a chance and see if he has a change mind, but restrict him for what he has been demanding for.ok. just an advise.