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Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
ikachi1: Learn to be open to each other my friend. If she compares you to her ex in a negative manner, she is indirectly saying that you need to do better. Being open minded should not be done in a sarcastic manner though. There are times and places to discuss such issues. On the contrary, if she portrays your action in a positive light, she is saying you should keep it up. There is a saying that the begiining of a solution to a problem is the acknowledgement that such a problem exists. Understanding how you feel is the key to making amend. well outlined. Reading some of the comments but none made any sense so far, they are just potraying their ego/pride. Are u eze onye agwa la m? (king dat no 1 shud advice?) she has right to xpres her feelings, its left 4 u to adjust 4 gud. Shekinah. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Hunkyimage(m): 1:42pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
Dondav: No Hard Feelings.. I'll just assume that I'm better. Afterall, they aren't together and We are.orrrr assumptionist... |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by sugardaddy1(m): 1:44pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
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Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by tintingz(m): 1:46pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
wazlee:must she mention her ex? Is like calling you a rat while are ex is the dog... 1 Like |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by dmcdad: 1:48pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
larrymoore: @dmcdad, nay joke l dey joke. I never beat a lady before, l am non violence.thanks bro. Wow... nice one bro.. one love |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by dabrake(m): 1:57pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
If your girlfriend compare you with her ex, **clap clap clap clap** away. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
tintingz: must she mention her ex? who else do u want her to mention? Obama? She speaks 4rm her past experience in relationship. There is a way she will mention her Ex. If u realy Love her and stil wana keep her as d apple of ur eyes, u won't have any ada choice bt to change 4 gud.. Girl: Darlin Boy: yes? Girl: plz stop smoking ganjer its bad 4 ur health. Boy: u de Kraaaaaz? Na ur mouth i d use blow my fire? Girl: Darlin u know i love u so much. Boy: and so? Girl: remember i sacrifized my Ex, who does non of dis acts just to be wit u, becus I Love and wants the best 4 u. Boy:? (d next tin boy go do na to come complain 4 nairaland were he go c his co ganjer or evil doers,) Grow and wise up. Start paying litle atention to ur woman, their is a sense in dat nonsense she is utering. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by warrior101: 2:17pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
It happened to me on xmas day. I only smiled and said, "but, i am not your ex babe. I am a diff person entirely believe me". I take it that she was drunk. She even went further to confess to me that she has a 1yr plus baby at home later that night. LOL @OP ~ Don't bother about it. People will see what they want to see in you.... Just don't loose your sense over it. Know thyself... |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
donchris369: Guy, you make sense jorrh. Just kick her out, no time, why should she compare you with her ex. She wants to place you on a high yardstick by making you feel as if you aint trying your best. Extortion of the highest order. Let her go back to her ex. Simple.Simples joor! |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by VirginFinder: 2:28pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
warrior101: It happened to me on xmas day. I only smiled and said, "but, i am not your ex babe. I am a diff person entirely believe me". I take it that she was drunk. She even went further to confess to me that she has a 1yr plus baby at home later that night. LOL Wow! Do you still intend to continue the relationship? @OP Give her a stern final warning on the issue. If she repeats it, take action - seriously instigate a silent break up. She'll definitely adjust. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by nollywood20: 2:29pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
Well all my ex-girlfriends know and say that I am better than their current boyfriends and husbands. It is not easy to find and date a genius who is also a great lover and 100% faithful in every relationship. There are a few good men around these days of Average Joes. The Alpha Man is a rare noble breed. Recently I had to apologize on behalf of the husband of an ex-girlfriend when she told me that he was not as loving as I am. "Don't apologize for him jo," she snapped. What did he do wrong? He failed to bring her to an event I was hosting. Once, she wanted to wait until her husband would come and pick her at a party we attended together. But I had to stop further meetings and outings, because we were getting too close for comfort. If you don't want your girlfriend or wife to compare you to her ex, then prove that you are better than him. Make her ex look inferior to you in the bedroom, parenting and work. Show her that you are too hot to be compared to her ex. But if you cannot measure up to her ex, then may God help you, because she will never stop comparing you to what she is missing in her ex. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Nobody: 2:30pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
street-soldier:Do they ever listen? |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Nobody: 3:08pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
ghettodreamz: Lol... Maybe you go need carry cane come chase the sellers from Aba Road, Port Harcourt |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by 2goodbobo(m): 4:06pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
dabrake: If your girlfriend compare you with her ex, **clap clap clap clap** away. Hahahahahahahaha. You got me laughing there with the VIP song! |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
@OP: somethin is def wrong buh try this - go to a jedi joint, drink opa-eyin mix it wv afator, throw in some ale then afta 15 mins, down about 2 small packs of alomo then call your gf over, set the mood and befr u get ur f.ork on, swallow 2 caps of viagra and smash the womanliness away, peel the v.agina walls like a danfo scratched a car paint off, feel me? Then after the 'melee', sit her up and ask her if her ex eva dicked her that way. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by shizzle11(m): 4:49pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
If her comparism isn't in your favour, then watch it! She still has an eye on her ex(who probably dumped her for some faults of her's) and will stroll back to him if she gets †ђξ chance and she's likely cheating on Ɣ☺ΰ too. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by shizzle11(m): 4:52pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
9jacrip: @OP: somethin is def wrong buh try this - go to a jedi joint, drink opa-eyin mix it wv afator, throw in some ale then afta 15 mins, down about 2 small packs of alomo then call your gf over, set the mood and befr u get ur f.ork on, swallow 2 caps of viagra and smash the womanliness away, peel the walls like a danfo scratched a car paint off, feel me? Then after the 'melee', sit her up and ask her if her ex eva dicked her that way. Lol...badt guy. Thou that does it sometimes |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Nkembenard(m): 5:05pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
Ur days ar numbered bro..watch it..iv had a similar experience with (nw an ex)..she went back to the guy she was comparing me to..I'll advice u start packing ur bag, and repairing your spare tires 1 Like |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Nkembenard(m): 5:10pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
;DUr days ar numbered bro..watch it..iv had a similar experience with (nw an ex)..she went back to the guy she was comparing me to..I'll advice u start packing ur bag, and repairing your spare tires |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by warrior101: 5:52pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
Virgin Finder: Why did you ask? |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by dammytosh: 5:59pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
Give her the last warning and advise her to go back if she thinks her EX is better than you. Let her know what your "EX"es do better than her (frame some up if there is none) and tell her you decided not to bug her with all that because you have made up your mind to go with her. She should sober and apologize. If she doesn't , wait for the next time he repeats that and call it quit. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
Its a sili fin tu sai n may just b an innocent mistake first correct ha it cld b dat she reali wants u tu change bout somfin dt reali means a lot tu ha n she jez did it wrong so also uve got tu listen tu ha since shez ur gurl uve got d responsibility tu b d best u can 4 ha buh plssss warn ha sewiosli about d comparism coz it natuarli hurts just talk.howeva if ha comparism bcomz an habit walk out,coz it onli means onefin,shez not content n u can neva leave up tu ha xpectation coz ur not perfect u nid sumone whoz readi tu accept ur flaws n sumone ur readi tu b d best 4. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by badboym: 8:07pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
I used to have the same problem in my last relationship.She talked about her ex buying her expensive gifts and how sweet he was.I shut her up by telling her I don't see her with any expensive stuffs and started comparing her with my ex as well...Would bore her with how sweet she was and how she too can never be like her...That kept her quiet.Nonsense. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by streetsoldier1(m): 10:27pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
Got meaninful responses here! And to those who suggest violence...hmmn, na wa for una oooo |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by streetsoldier1(m): 10:41pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
Got meaningful responses here! And to those who suggest violence...hmmn, na wa for una oooo |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by queenofhearts(f): 11:28pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
I think its normal in a new relationship when you are just adjusting and getting used to the new environment but that will wear out over time, if she really loves u she ll barely remember the ex..but the space of 2years is too much..if d ex was that good y isn't she with him yet make sure you treat your gal right,if u do there won't be need for comparisons #justsaying 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by queenofhearts(f): 11:30pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
badboym: I used to have the same problem in my last relationship.She talked about her ex buying her expensive gifts and how sweet he was.I shut her up by telling her I don't see her with any expensive stuffs and started comparing her with my ex as well...Would bore her with how sweet she was and how she too can never be like her...That kept her quiet.Nonsense.two wrongs can't make a right..! |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Nkembenard(m): 11:39pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
9jacrip: @OP: somethin is def wrong buh try this - go to a jedi joint, drink opa-eyin mix it wv afator, throw in some ale then afta 15 mins, down about 2 small packs of alomo then call your gf over, set the mood and befr u get ur f.ork on, swallow 2 caps of viagra and smash the womanliness away, peel the v.agina walls like a danfo scratched a car paint off, feel me? Then after the 'melee', sit her up and ask her if her ex eva dicked her that way.if I drink dis one,na sleep straight |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Nobody: 4:04am On Dec 31, 2012 |
Nkembenard: if I drink dis one,na sleep straight Then you must want to suffer pain for days, I doubt you'd be able to get any sleep. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by Chimaobikalu(m): 12:27pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
2goodbobo:. If her ex is the best, why then did she leave him. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by ogaisaac(m): 1:43pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
Our relationship must cum 2 an end if she dare compare me wit her ex whateva. Lolz...but really, I can't slap my woman no matter the wrong..I think a serious warning will follow the statement she made!!! Though I wish I can slap but I don't av the annointing to slap a woman!![/quote] street-soldier: street-soldier: |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Compares You With Her Ex? by warrior101: 2:21pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
Comparing you with an ex doesn't necessarily mean a bad thing, at least in my experience... I just don't feel any threat probably because i am confident that if she breaks up or go back to her ex wouldn't mean a thing to me. All my own is poke and go home. If i send you to cook for me and you begin to make yanka because i don't give you money , well, bully for you because, that's how it's going to remain... and when you are tired you can call for a quite. But if you can act like a wife then i will treat you like a wife also if you act like a mate then i will treat you like a mate... Lastly, i think our reactions are often based on pride and jealousy. Maybe i am stone cold or maybe i am just exposed |
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