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I Need An Advise From U... by kreamy28(f): 12:54pm On Dec 31, 2012
Pls I really need an advice,am so confused right nw,I met him at my friend's wedding,he asked mi out after my friends wedding n I said yes 2weeks after he asked mi,so we started dating,but since I said yes he as changed,b4 he calls mi often dat was b4 I said yes,nw I do more of d calling,he claim he his too busy,ve called him twice on d issue,abt him not calling,he promised he will changed that he loves mi,nw he told mi he his not freaked abt d relationship cos of wat he as experienced frm his pasted relationship(his ex dumped him after 11yrs of relationship to marry someone else)I do love him,but I told him we shuld just b friends wen d feelings can't b returned fully.is my decision okay pls I will like to knw...pls I need serious advice here.thanks
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by olumaxi(m): 3:59pm On Dec 31, 2012
Hav u guys been intimate?
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by Ymodulus: 4:28pm On Dec 31, 2012
olumaxi: Hav u guys been intimate?

u beat me to it
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by Besto(m): 5:00pm On Dec 31, 2012
he has gotten kpomo,so wat else
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by Switup: 5:32pm On Dec 31, 2012
Seriously, @op this guy just came out ofva strained relationship.. I mean we talkin 'bout a decade plus a year..
That's been so long.. apparently 'le' dude is devastated and is in a state of non compos mentis.
So all he needs is your commitment to him.. Do give him all that plus mooooore
however, if he thinks he's gonno transfer aggresion from that previous relationship on u or if he's gonno use as a fling.., then ''DUMP THE MODAF**KING MOFO'' and move on.... There's absolutely no time to waste so use your time while it last....
(inmycandidopinoin)
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by Nobody: 5:47pm On Dec 31, 2012
^^^^ like that! cheesy cheesy cheesy MOFO alright cheesy
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by ifyeky(m): 6:05pm On Dec 31, 2012
Op ansa d questn 'hve u bin intimate wid him? Coz dat wil determine our response
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by enobong18: 6:25pm On Dec 31, 2012
Dat man z nt seriously intrestd in u... Bsyds u were ryt!
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by cockyjay: 9:33pm On Dec 31, 2012
olumaxi: Hav u guys been intimate?
gehn gehn... same questn i wanted to ask. The guy has shined her congo lipsrsealed
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by Switup: 10:57pm On Dec 31, 2012
jidegirl12: ^^^^ like that! cheesy cheesy cheesy MOFO alright cheesy
*winks* nothin spoil...
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by kreamy28(f): 9:48am On Jan 02, 2013
No we've nt gone to dat level of been intimate
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by dmcdad: 11:05am On Jan 02, 2013
kreamy28: No we've nt gone to dat level of been intimate

Before I give you what I have for you, let me ask you this; Do you know how long he stayed after his last relationship crashed? That is, before coming for you...
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by kreamy28(f): 9:59pm On Jan 02, 2013
D relationship wit his X ended 2010
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by dmcdad: 2:18am On Jan 03, 2013
Nonsense!!!

Why did they truncate my post?

@op, I hope you saw what I wrote before it was truncated. That was why I had to wipe out the remnant cause it would make less sense...
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by Mynd44: 5:13am On Jan 03, 2013
^^
Your font colour is hideous guy

@OP, you need to find time, tie that guy down and have a talk with him, you should arrange for a dinner or lunch one sunday evening and tell him your fears and have him open up to yor cos from the way I see it, he wants to be with you but his former relationship is casting a shadow on your relationship
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by dmcdad: 5:30am On Jan 03, 2013
^^^I did try to change the colour but in the course of that my post was truncated maybe by the mod, so I had to delete the rest cause it wouldn't convey the complete message I had in mind and also, I ain't ready to start typing all those again...
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by Nobody: 5:35am On Jan 03, 2013
Mynd_44: ^^
Your font colour is hideous guy
grin grin shocked angry angry
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by kreamy28(f): 11:17am On Jan 03, 2013
@dmcdad,I dnt get ur message,can u kindly re-type pls. Thanks. @ mynd 44 thanks for ur advise.
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by kreamy28(f): 11:22am On Jan 03, 2013
@mynd 44,am tinking if I call him,it will look like am desperate,cos a friend advise mi i shuld allow him call first
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by Mynd44: 12:12pm On Jan 03, 2013
kreamy28: @mynd 44,am tinking if I call him,it will look like am desperate,cos a friend advise mi i shuld allow him call first
Look if you keep quiet, he will take it that you are conten with it and won't change. You are already dating this guy so what's the desperation there?
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by UjSizzle(f): 12:18pm On Jan 03, 2013
I'm sure ur friend is female...smh girls sef.

Pick up your phone and call your boyfriend, talk the talk n if u ain't satisfied afterwards move the hell on. Life's too short to stay miserably with someone who ain't returning your feelings.
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by SAFO(m): 12:22pm On Jan 03, 2013
kreamy28: @mynd 44,am tinking if I call him,it will look like am desperate,cos a friend advise mi i shuld allow him call first

I'm willing to bet that ur friend is single too abi?

That's like get getting money making advice from a begger.
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by chikeorji123(m): 4:34pm On Jan 03, 2013
uj_sizzle: I'm sure ur friend is female...smh girls sef.

Pick up your phone and call your boyfriend, talk the talk n if u ain't satisfied afterwards move the hell on. Life's too short to stay miserably with someone who ain't returning your feelings.

Op kindly do this first..for those of your femal friends be caution the way u relate them on this issues..lmagine! wait let him call first?..
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by kreamy28(f): 3:30am On Jan 05, 2013
@ chike thanks for d advise I did just dat,but his response was nt good at all,n my male friends gave mi d advise nt female friends.anyway I thank u all for ur advise,I appreciate u all.
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by Nobody: 6:48pm On Jan 12, 2013
pls i need an advise cos i dont have work and no business to do pls what next
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by Mynd44: 7:30pm On Jan 12, 2013
shegzyvic: pls i need an advise cos i dont have work and no business to do pls what next
Open your own thread
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by nlofficial(m): 6:43am On Jan 13, 2013
shegzyvic: pls i need an advise cos i dont have work and no business to do pls what next

Mynd_44:
Open your own thread

And don't open it in Romance faculty. Unless you are a WHOREE, fine! grin
Re: I Need An Advise From U... by Mynd44: 7:14am On Jan 13, 2013
^^
Lol

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