Pls I really need an advice,am so confused right nw,I met him at my friend's wedding,he asked mi out after my friends wedding n I said yes 2weeks after he asked mi,so we started dating,but since I said yes he as changed,b4 he calls mi often dat was b4 I said yes,nw I do more of d calling,he claim he his too busy,ve called him twice on d issue,abt him not calling,he promised he will changed that he loves mi,nw he told mi he his not freaked abt d relationship cos of wat he as experienced frm his pasted relationship(his ex dumped him after 11yrs of relationship to marry someone else)I do love him,but I told him we shuld just b friends wen d feelings can't b returned fully.is my decision okay pls I will like to knw...pls I need serious advice here.thanks

Hav u guys been intimate?

olumaxi: Hav u guys been intimate?

u beat me to it

he has gotten kpomo,so wat else

Seriously, @op this guy just came out ofva strained relationship.. I mean we talkin 'bout a decade plus a year..
That's been so long.. apparently 'le' dude is devastated and is in a state of non compos mentis.
So all he needs is your commitment to him.. Do give him all that plus mooooore
however, if he thinks he's gonno transfer aggresion from that previous relationship on u or if he's gonno use as a fling.., then ''DUMP THE MODAF**KING MOFO'' and move on.... There's absolutely no time to waste so use your time while it last....
(inmycandidopinoin)

^^^^ like that! MOFO alright

Op ansa d questn 'hve u bin intimate wid him? Coz dat wil determine our response

Dat man z nt seriously intrestd in u... Bsyds u were ryt!

olumaxi: Hav u guys been intimate?

gehn gehn... same questn i wanted to ask. The guy has shined her congo

jidegirl12: ^^^^ like that! MOFO alright

*winks* nothin spoil...

No we've nt gone to dat level of been intimate

kreamy28: No we've nt gone to dat level of been intimate

Before I give you what I have for you, let me ask you this; Do you know how long he stayed after his last relationship crashed? That is, before coming for you...

D relationship wit his X ended 2010

Nonsense!!!

Why did they truncate my post?

@op, I hope you saw what I wrote before it was truncated. That was why I had to wipe out the remnant cause it would make less sense...

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Your font colour is hideous guy

@OP, you need to find time, tie that guy down and have a talk with him, you should arrange for a dinner or lunch one sunday evening and tell him your fears and have him open up to yor cos from the way I see it, he wants to be with you but his former relationship is casting a shadow on your relationship

^^^I did try to change the colour but in the course of that my post was truncated maybe by the mod, so I had to delete the rest cause it wouldn't convey the complete message I had in mind and also, I ain't ready to start typing all those again...

Mynd_44: ^^
Your font colour is hideous guy

@dmcdad,I dnt get ur message,can u kindly re-type pls. Thanks. @ mynd 44 thanks for ur advise.

@mynd 44,am tinking if I call him,it will look like am desperate,cos a friend advise mi i shuld allow him call first

kreamy28: @mynd 44,am tinking if I call him,it will look like am desperate,cos a friend advise mi i shuld allow him call first

Look if you keep quiet, he will take it that you are conten with it and won't change. You are already dating this guy so what's the desperation there?

I'm sure ur friend is female...smh girls sef.

Pick up your phone and call your boyfriend, talk the talk n if u ain't satisfied afterwards move the hell on. Life's too short to stay miserably with someone who ain't returning your feelings.

kreamy28: @mynd 44,am tinking if I call him,it will look like am desperate,cos a friend advise mi i shuld allow him call first

I'm willing to bet that ur friend is single too abi?

That's like get getting money making advice from a begger.

uj_sizzle: I'm sure ur friend is female...smh girls sef.

Pick up your phone and call your boyfriend, talk the talk n if u ain't satisfied afterwards move the hell on. Life's too short to stay miserably with someone who ain't returning your feelings.

Op kindly do this first..for those of your femal friends be caution the way u relate them on this issues..lmagine! wait let him call first?..

@ chike thanks for d advise I did just dat,but his response was nt good at all,n my male friends gave mi d advise nt female friends.anyway I thank u all for ur advise,I appreciate u all.

pls i need an advise cos i dont have work and no business to do pls what next

shegzyvic: pls i need an advise cos i dont have work and no business to do pls what next

Open your own thread

shegzyvic: pls i need an advise cos i dont have work and no business to do pls what next

Mynd_44:
Open your own thread

And don't open it in Romance faculty. Unless you are a WHOREE, fine!

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Lol