Glorified_Tunde:

HOW OLD ARE YOU PLEASE? These words feel like a 12 year old's....

Sagamite: I am just the type that likes to look at new horizons, so for me it is a "No".

Glorified_Tunde:

Are you from Sagamu, Ogun State?

So you'll change women like clothes?

Sagamite:
Is Jesus an Isrealite?

5much: if d love is still there, why not.

gandkiss: IF I CAN MARRY HER ONCE,I CAN DO IT AGAIN

Table Leg :
Maybe!

Sagamite:

Why does that sound like a 12 year old?

baby_mama: So that when the same issues that caused the initial divorce crops up I will blame myself for allowing myself to be suckered in and conned a second time?
Tufia
Maybe we can get together and chop ourselves from time to time if the intimacy was good in the marriage.That's about it.

Syncan:

His reasons are sound and cogent enough to worth giving it a try. If he said he's out grown his childishness, then he admits to, at least, part of the blame for the divorce in the first place. This is a call for second chance for both, don't we all have times we had wished we had a second chance for something.

Glorified_Tunde:

You could as well say its a must for you to marry a virg*n. Wait O!

Besides why do men feel its okay for them to play and but not women? Abi you want to tell me the guy too wouldn't have sampled some ladies during the break??

Sagamite:

So it is thinking like a 12 year old to want a woman with few sexual partners?

You are foool!

You think like a mental patient!

Don't come down to the real world.

Glorified_Tunde:

1. I'm not a Fool
2. I'm not a Mental Patient
3. I'm in the real world
4. Smart people make their points known and not reign INSULTS
5. Can you really say fit into nos 1-4? I DOUBT THAT!

saintvc: Just chatted with an elder cousin who is about to be united again with his ex-partner after 7years of divorce. Their marriage lasted 6 years and produced 2 kids.

His reasons were

Family- the kids

Love is strong

time -he has outgrown his childishness. Moreover, time heals wound

I didn't discourage him but for me NOOOOO. I just cant feed on my vomit.

They should go through some intense counseling and talk about what broke the initial marriage
The statistics on divorce after remarriage to an ex or not is higher at this second missionary journey
The same old demons will surely crop up,how will they handle it?
Personally I believe I only have one shot at marriage
This is it
God being my help I will do whatever is within the bounds of sanity to make it work
God forbid that we part ways but if that happens,I am done .it is hard work and I will not do it again
Then to re marry the same person after parting ways? After giving it my all
There will be nothing else to do,it won't work
I will rather enter convent if they will accept me

Sagamite:

Smart people quickly spot a foool and let him know he is one without wasting anyone's time.

Stop pulling moronic opinions from your arsse!

iya ayi: My husband and I remarried after 9 years divorce!
There was no reason for d divorce, he just abandoned me and our daughter. I never remarried and we hv anoda son together after d remarriage!

baby_mama:

They should go through some intense counseling and talk about what broke the initial marriage
The statistics on divorce after remarriage to an ex or not is higher at this second missionary journey
The same old demons will surely crop up,how will they handle it?
Personally I believe I only have one shot at marriage
This is it
God being my help I will do whatever is within the bounds of sanity to make it work
God forbid that we part ways but if that happens,I am done .it is hard work and I will not do it again
Then to re marry the same person after parting ways? After giving it my all
There will be nothing else to do,it won't work
I will rather enter convent if they will accept me

dayokanu: It depends on the circumstances surrounding the initial breakup

If it was due to childishness and some minor issues then I would consider coming back

But if the initial breakup was bordering on issues like infidelity, domestic violence and other serious issues I would advise not

And the cliche of not going back to your vomit is nonsense

If you used to work with a company left them and years later they gave you a very good offer would you also use that cliche?

Seun: @saintvc: You say you can't return to your own vomit. Would you rather return to someone else's vomit? "The devil you know is better than ..."

Glorified_Tunde:

Please, does that mean u don't make wrong decisions? U no be God now. God is the only one who never changes...

Glorified_Tunde:

wooooooo! The way you're going, it could lead to an accident. Either vehicle (just hope you're not driving) or home. What actually controls u??

iya ayi: My husband and I remarried after 9 years divorce!
There was no reason for d divorce, he just abandoned me and our daughter. I never remarried and we hv anoda son together after d remarriage!

kaboninc:

Testimony!!!

@baby_mama....I think when you begin to view life from different perspective and also have experiences, you'll know that things which you're so sure are impossible will surprise you.

Things happen!!!

baby_mama:

I wish she answered my question,is she still his only wife?
What is the testimony
That women are desperate beings that will easily take back a man that walks out on her and runs around for 9 years before finding his way back home?
Will you take back a wife that runs off and returns to you after 9 years?

saintvc: I just cant feed on my vomit.

jidegirl12:

^^^^ lol that's very difficult to answer I guess esp in Nigerian society , wetin? even anywhere on the globe sef...

But truth be told .... it's a very tough situation as a whole.

I'm talking bout starting over on a clean slate.

The man most likely ran off with another woman and maybe some few others ,things didn't work out there and he returns to a wife that is just too happy to have him back.
I have a relative that accepted her husband under similar circumstances and people were shouting praise da Lord that he has returned to his wife,devil has been defeated
I said odiegwu
I said count me out in this kain 419 marriage,I advised her not to take him back but I guess the 419 love was already in the air.
He strung both women along
2 years after,they are separated again.

Another ,a friend this time ,her husband disappeared to another geopolitical zone sef with another woman ,returned after 3 years .when they gave me testimony how God worked wonders,I said let us watch and see na.
No do no do he ran off again and started making babies with another woman and now that he is sick,he has suddenly repented so that his real wife will nurse him to health.I told her she is a good woman.A man I did not enjoy when his body was whole and all his parts were functioning,I will start taking care off in sickness
Me?
Impossicant
Let his baby mamas handle him in sickness
Not my portion